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Moment 150: The REAL (& Usually Unseen) Reason You’re Struggling With Love & Relationships!: Logan Ury

Feb 23, 2024
Logan Ury, a relationship expert and behavioral scientist, sheds light on attachment styles and their impact on love. She explains how these styles shape our dating patterns and emotional triggers, prompting us to push partners away. Importantly, she reveals that 25% of people can change their attachment style by identifying triggers and practicing self-awareness. Ury also discusses navigating modern digital relationships and the power of vulnerability in fostering deep connections, reminding us that understanding ourselves is key to finding lasting love.
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  • Understanding attachment styles helps in overcoming relationship struggles by recognizing triggers and changing behaviors.
  • Embracing vulnerability and self-awareness can enhance relationship quality by fostering deeper connections and mutual understanding.

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Understanding Avoidant Attachment Behavior

Avoidant attachment behavior involves triggers followed by deactivating strategies where individuals push emotional connections away. This leads to protest behaviors like snapping or abruptly ending interactions. Overcoming this behavior includes being clear about one's needs, focusing on positive traits instead of flaws, and working on self-regulation to prevent entering the danger zone.

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