Modern Wisdom

#457 - Logan Ury - Hinge's Relationship Scientist Gives Dating Advice

Apr 7, 2022

01:16:00

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Episode guests

Logan Ury

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Overlapping Tendencies in Dating and Attachment Styles

01:54

Date the least attractive person you find attractive

00:30

The problem with the spark

02:14

Falling in love vs being in love

01:07

Introduction

6min

How's Your Move to L A?

3min

Are You Doing the Date a Science for This?

3min

On Line Dating

4min

Is 20 22 the Year of Love and Dating?

3min

I've Never Feeled So Much Like a Boomer as I Have Recently

2min

The Young Guy Is a Good Thing, Is It?

2min

Are You Choosing a Partner for a Decade or a Few Decades?

2min

Theomans Underestimate Eternity Yearsha, Ha, Ha.

5min

10.

Is Relationship Science Romantic?

5min

11.

Why Dating Is Harder Now Than Ever Before

2min

12.

Relationship Audit

2min

13.

Dating Advice - Is Height Affecting Long Term Relationship Success?

3min

14.

Maximizing vs Satisfising

3min

15.

How Do You Find Your Perfect Partner?

2min

16.

What's Your Advice for the Romanticizer?

5min

17.

How to Design an on Line Dating Profile?

3min

18.

Are You Too Picky?

3min

19.

How to Have Conversations in Dates

2min

20.

Is There a Problem With the Spark?

2min

21.

What Is Making It Into the Movies?

3min

22.

Do You Know the Halo Effect?

3min

23.

Is There a Tension Between Intentionality and Romance?

2min

24.

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

2min

25.

Hitcher and Ditcher

2min

26.

Are You Trying to Quit the Relationship and Be in Love?

2min

27.

What Are Some of the Most Meaningful Moments in Your Work?

4min

28.

How Can I Get a 20 % Discount on Everything From Lucy?

2min

Logan Ury is the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, a Harvard-trained behavioural scientist and an author.

Modern dating is difficult. Thankfully Logan has access to all the data from Hinge and can conduct as many studies as she wants on trends and preferences from thousands of people in and out of relationships.

Expect to learn why an intentional approach to dating seems like a turn-off but is a very smart strategy, why you should start looking to settle down after dating 30% of your partners, what the data tells us are the most important rules for constructing a successful dating profile, why chasing The Spark is a recipe for disaster, how to break up with someone, how to get over heartbreak and much more...

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