Modern Wisdom #457 - Logan Ury - Hinge's Relationship Scientist Gives Dating Advice
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Apr 7, 2022 
Logan Ury, behavioral scientist and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, shares valuable insights on modern dating. She discusses why an intentional approach can seem off-putting yet is crucial for success. Ury explains the importance of emotional connections over superficial sparks and how to craft an engaging dating profile. She also highlights key strategies for navigating relationships, including understanding when to settle down and overcoming heartbreak, while emphasizing mental health's significant role in dating.
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Accountability in Dating
- People may resist an intentional approach to dating because it makes them accountable for their failures.
- If dating success isn't seen as a magical black box, then personal responsibility becomes more apparent.
Relationship Audit
- Conduct a "relationship audit" to identify patterns in your dating history.
- Understand what truly matters in long-term relationships (loyalty, kindness, emotional stability).
Height Filters and Attraction
- Women should reconsider height filters in online dating, as they drastically limit potential partners.
- Date the least attractive person you're still attracted to; focus on qualities over superficial criteria.
