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Stories are essential for humans as a way to organize past experiences and make decisions for the future. They help us understand cause and effect and are fundamental in experiencing and understanding time.
In recovery from severe addiction, giving control to a power greater than oneself is often crucial. This could be a deity, the mystery of the universe, or the power of love. It is a recognition that relying solely on oneself can lead to negative outcomes and that humility and surrender are important in the recovery process.
Intergenerational trauma refers to the passing down of maladaptive coping strategies and family system styles from one generation to another. These behaviors and patterns can contribute to addictive personalities, habits, and addictive behaviors.
Attachment styles are shaped by our earliest attachments with caregivers and can influence how we navigate the world. Trauma can impact attachment styles, leading to insecure attachments and potential difficulties in forming healthy relationships.
The podcast episode discusses the significance of recognizing and connecting with a higher power in addiction recovery. By relinquishing control and seeking guidance from a higher power, individuals gain access to wisdom and strength that can lead to better decision-making in their lives. The higher power is described as something beyond human agency, allowing individuals to embrace humility and acknowledge that they are not in control. It is emphasized that the higher power does not necessarily need to be defined and can be interpreted according to one's understanding.
The podcast delves into the concept of radical honesty and its role in addiction recovery. It is found that individuals who are able to recover from severe addiction are those who embrace radical honesty in all aspects of their lives. This includes not only being truthful about their substance use, but being transparent about their thoughts, emotions, and actions. Radical honesty enhances self-awareness, leading to better insight and decision-making. Additionally, it fosters intimacy and trust in relationships, which serves as a powerful antidote to addiction. Telling the truth is seen as a way to break free from self-deception and establish authentic connections with others.
The podcast highlights the significance of the environment in addiction and recovery. It references the Rat Park experiments, where rats in stimulating and enriched environments showed reduced interest in substance use. This concept is applied to humans, emphasizing the need for a healthy social and physical environment as a preventive measure for addiction. The discussion extends to the modern world, where various activities, including exercise and social media, have become addictive due to technological advancements. The podcast suggests the importance of reevaluating the dopamine-driven culture and promoting healthier alternatives to combat addiction.
Eliminating coffee and switching to black tea with less caffeine can help improve anxiety and insomnia. The speaker suggests that eliminating coffee for a longer period, such as 30 days, can provide better results. This experiment is particularly relevant for individuals who experience increased anxiety and insomnia due to caffeine intake. The speaker emphasizes the importance of staying committed to the full 30 days to observe the benefits and allow the brain to adjust.
The podcast delves into self-assessment for identifying mild addiction tendencies. The speaker suggests referring to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, which outlines 11 criteria for addiction. By meeting two or more of these criteria, individuals can assess whether they have a mild use disorder. Seeking professional guidance is recommended, but using the diagnostic criteria as a rudimentary self-assessment tool can provide initial insight into addictive behaviors.
YouTube Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yKL0Pw3Q6mA
Anna Lembke explores dopamine detoxing, addiction, and the influence of narratives in managing trauma. SPONSORS:
- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/TOE and get on your way to being your best self.
TIMESTAMPS:
- 00:00:00 Introduction
- 00:02:40 Anna Lembke's experience with addiction
- 00:10:46 Dopamine-seeking behavior vs coping mechanism
- 00:12:35 The paradox of pain relief
- 00:24:21 The self-perpetuating cycle of addiction
- 00:24:00 Neuroadaptation
- 00:29:23 The power of abstinence
- 00:34:04 Life as an experiment
- 00:37:15 Dopamine reward and misconceptions of the "present moment"
- 00:41:06 Freud, Jung, and mindfulness
- 00:45:35 East vs West in mental health
- 00:51:15 Importance of self-talk and bedside manner
- 00:56:00 Attachment styles in trauma (and intergenerational trauma)
- 01:01:00 Power of stories and a Higher Power in addiction recovery
- 01:07:42 Radical honesty / truth-telling
- 01:12:02 The relevance of free will
- 01:23:26 Love as a catalyst for tough decisions
- 01:31:02 - A digital Sabbath (and Curt's coffee abnegation)
- 01:42:12 Methadone for severe opioid use disorder
- 01:51:00 The language of addiction, stigmatization, and identity
- 01:57:32 Rat Park experiments (society's role in addiction)
- 02:08:16 Writing as a therapeutic tool
- 02:14:12 The necessity of a Higher Power
THANK YOU: To Mike Duffy, of https://expandingideas.org and https://dailymystic.org for your insight, help, and recommendations on this channel.
- Patreon: https://patreon.com/curtjaimungal (early access to ad-free audio episodes!)
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- PayPal: https://tinyurl.com/paypalTOE
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- TOE Merch: https://tinyurl.com/TOEmerch
LINKS MENTIONED:
- Dopamine Nation (Anna Lembke): https://amzn.to/47euRic
- Podcast w/ Karl Friston on TOE: https://youtu.be/SWtFU1Lit3M
- Podcast w/ Lilian Dindo: https://youtu.be/L_hI7JNsbt0
- Discord (new community channel Dopamine Detox): https://discord.com/invite/kBcnfNVwqs
- Pure White and Deadly (John Yudkin): https://amzn.to/3snMZHW
- Drug Dealer MD (Anna Lembke): https://amzn.to/40G4WOJ
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