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How To Deal With Difficult Emotions, Difficult Feedback, and Difficult Parts of Your Own Mind | Diane Musho Hamilton

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Apr 16, 2025
Diane Musho Hamilton, an acclaimed mediator and Zen teacher, dives into strategies for dealing with difficult emotions and feedback. She introduces the concept of 'spiritual cross-training' to foster emotional maturity. The conversation explores integrating the shadow self, emphasizing self-awareness in personal challenges. Diane shares insights on the importance of intention setting and ethical actions within community dynamics. Her practical tools advocate for embracing emotional experiences rather than suppressing them, promoting personal growth and deeper relationships.
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INSIGHT

Spiritual Cross-Training

  • Spiritual cross-training combines waking up (expanding self-awareness) with growing up (developing interpersonal skills).
  • It addresses the issue of undeveloped emotional/interpersonal skills hindering the enactment of spiritual insights.
ADVICE

Starting Meditation

  • Start with concentration practices like focusing on breath to stabilize the mind in meditation.
  • If you get lost or confused during meditation, seek guidance from a teacher.
ADVICE

Finding Meditation in Everyday Life

  • Recognize that meditation is a natural state of mind accessible through everyday activities.
  • Extend moments of presence found in activities like watching sunsets or petting animals into short meditation sessions.
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