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Mentioned in 21 episodes

The four tendencies

Book • 2017
Gretchen Rubin's "The Four Tendencies" introduces a personality framework categorizing individuals into four tendencies: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels.

Understanding these tendencies helps explain how people respond to inner and outer expectations, impacting their decision-making, habit formation, and relationships.

The book provides self-assessment tools and practical advice for leveraging each tendency's strengths and navigating its challenges.

It offers insights into personal productivity, communication, and conflict resolution.

Ultimately, it promotes self-awareness and improved relationships.

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Mentioned in 21 episodes

Mentioned by Steph Smith in relation to an article about remote work and how personality types influence behavior.
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Mentioned by Mike Schmitz as a book he wasn't a fan of due to a mismatch in mission and cartographer's perspective.
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113: The Great Mental Models Volume 1 by Rhiannon Beaubien and Shane Parrish
Mentioned by Bev from Lancaster, Pennsylvania as a framework for understanding how people respond to expectations.
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484 | Conflict Frequencies
Mentioned by Reshma Saujani as a source of understanding the Four Tendencies framework.
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Mentioned by Dan Harris as the subject of the podcast episode, focusing on her framework called the Four Tendencies.
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Mentioned by Jenny as a writer who studies happiness and habits and has published a book about how people respond to expectations.
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Mentioned by Diann Wingert as a book she uses in her coaching practice, to give clients an exercise based on the Four Tendencies.
How to Stop People Pleasing and Manage ADHD Rejection Sensitivity at Work
Mentioned by Catherine as a book exploring the four tendencies framework for understanding personal accountability.
Episode 356 – Fall Back Plan – Part 1
Mentioned by Gretchen Rubin as a personality framework that explains differences in how people form habits.
360 Gretchen Rubin - The secret to happiness in a cluttered world
Mentioned by Zibby Owens as one of Gretchen Rubin 's blockbuster New York Times bestsellers.
More Happier: Gretchen on Totally Booked with Zibby Owens
Recommended by Eric Tivers as a resource for understanding personality types.
289 | Sex, Intimacy and ADHD with Ari Tuckman
Mentioned by Rangan Chatterjee as an insightful book that helps understand personality profiles and improve life.
How Understanding Your Personality Will Make Your Life Better with Gretchen Rubin #181
Mentioned by Mike Schmitz in comparing the approach of "A Minute to Think" to the Four Tendencies.
131: A Minute to Think by Juliet Funt

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