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Mentioned in 16 episodes

It's not you, it's me

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Mentioned in 16 episodes

Mentioned by Mel Robbins as the expert for the episode, highlighting her work on narcissism and difficult personalities.
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How to Deal With Difficult People: One Trick to Live a More Peaceful & Fulfilled Life
Mentioned by Sabrina Zohar as a book co-authored with her partner, offering insights into relationship dynamics.
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112: Why Emotional Unavailability Feels Safe: Understanding the 'Not Enough' Wound With Vanessa Bennett
Mentioned by Andy Tegel and Marielle Segarra as co-authors of "It's Not Me, It's You", offering insights into relationship dynamics and household labor.
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Stuck doing all the household chores? This practical guide can help
Mentioned by Rangan Chatterjee as the author's latest book, offering guidance on identifying and healing from narcissistic people.
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How To Spot A Narcissist, The Impact of Toxic Relationships & Building Healthy Boundaries with Dr Ramani Durvasula #428
Mentioned by Mel Robbins as her new book, containing new research and insights on narcissism.
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Signs You’re Dealing With a Narcissist (New Research From World-Leading Expert Dr. Ramani)
Recommended by Lewis Howes as a groundbreaking guide for understanding and recovering from narcissistic relationships.
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World’s #1 NARCISSIST Expert: THIS Is How You IDENTIFY & HEAL From Toxic People | Dr. Ramani
Mentioned by Ed Mylett as a new book offering relationship advice.
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Blueprint For Better Relationships w/ John Kim
Mentioned by John Kim , highlighting Vanessa's contribution to the book's content on codependency.
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Blueprint For Better Relationships w/ John Kim
Mentioned by Vanessa as a book they wrote together, discussing love languages.
The New Epidemic - She’s Touched Out. He Wants More Sex
Mentioned as a nominee for Best Picture in the Brody Awards.
Richard Brody Presents the 2025 Brody Awards
Mentioned by Jordan Harbinger as a resource for understanding and healing from narcissistic relationships.
1006: Dr. Ramani | Surviving and Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse
Mentioned by Jordan Harbinger as a book that explores narcissism and its impact on relationships.
954: Dr. Ramani | Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
Mentioned by Dave Asprey and John Kim as a book that helps break the blame cycle in relationships.
How to Drop Happily Ever After and Do Relationships Better! – John Kim, LMFT : 1077
Mentioned by Matthew Hussey while discussing narcissistic relationships.
Crafting Lasting Love in Your Relationships w/ Matthew Hussey
Recommended by Dave Asprey as a book that offers a raw and honest approach to dissecting relationship dynamics.
How to Drop Happily Ever After and Do Relationships Better – John Kim, LMFT : 973
Mentioned by Dr. Karen Messina as a self-help psychoanalytic book about narcissism and projective identification.
Misogynoir and the Psychic Life of Race: Projective Identification, Cultural Authority, and the Black Feminine
Mentioned by Emma Gunavardhana as her latest book on narcissism, offering guidance on identifying and healing from narcissistic people.
Dr Ramani Durvasula | How to Survive a Narcissist.
Mentioned by Dr. Karyne E. Messina as one of her own books.
James Baldwin’s Use of Mechanisms of Defense in this Story “Going to Meet the Man”

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