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Mentioned in 16 episodes
It's not you, it's me
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Mentioned in 16 episodes
Mentioned by
Steven Bartlett as her most recent book, focusing on identifying and healing from narcissistic people.


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The Narcissism Doctor: "1 In 6 People Are Narcissists!", "Are Narcissists Better In Bed?", "Can A Narcissist Change? - Dr. Ramani Durvasula
Mentioned by
Mel Robbins as the expert for the episode, highlighting her work on narcissism and difficult personalities.


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How to Deal With Difficult People: One Trick to Live a More Peaceful & Fulfilled Life
Mentioned by Sabrina Zohar as a book co-authored with her partner, offering insights into relationship dynamics.

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112: Why Emotional Unavailability Feels Safe: Understanding the 'Not Enough' Wound With Vanessa Bennett
Mentioned by
Andy Tegel and Marielle Segarra as co-authors of "It's Not Me, It's You", offering insights into relationship dynamics and household labor.


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Stuck doing all the household chores? This practical guide can help
Mentioned by
Rangan Chatterjee as the author's latest book, offering guidance on identifying and healing from narcissistic people.


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How To Spot A Narcissist, The Impact of Toxic Relationships & Building Healthy Boundaries with Dr Ramani Durvasula #428
Recommended by
Lewis Howes as a groundbreaking guide for understanding and recovering from narcissistic relationships.


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World’s #1 NARCISSIST Expert: THIS Is How You IDENTIFY & HEAL From Toxic People | Dr. Ramani
Mentioned by Vanessa as a book they wrote together, discussing love languages.

The New Epidemic - She’s Touched Out. He Wants More Sex
Mentioned as a nominee for Best Picture in the Brody Awards.

Richard Brody Presents the 2025 Brody Awards
Mentioned by
Jordan Harbinger as a resource for understanding and healing from narcissistic relationships.


1006: Dr. Ramani | Surviving and Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse
Recommended by
Dave Asprey as a book that offers a raw and honest approach to dissecting relationship dynamics.


How to Drop Happily Ever After and Do Relationships Better – John Kim, LMFT : 973
Mentioned by Dr. Karen Messina as a self-help psychoanalytic book about narcissism and projective identification.

Misogynoir and the Psychic Life of Race: Projective Identification, Cultural Authority, and the Black Feminine
Mentioned by Emma Gunavardhana as her latest book on narcissism, offering guidance on identifying and healing from narcissistic people.

Dr Ramani Durvasula | How to Survive a Narcissist.
Mentioned by Dr. Karyne E. Messina as one of her own books.

James Baldwin’s Use of Mechanisms of Defense in this Story “Going to Meet the Man”