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Mentioned in 16 episodes

It's not you, it's me

Book •

Vanessa Bennett

Mentioned by

Steven Bartlett

Rangan Chatterjee

Jordan Harbinger

Dr. Karen Messina

Emma Gunavardhana

Mentioned in 16 episodes

Mentioned by

Steven Bartlett

as her most recent book, focusing on identifying and healing from narcissistic people.

The Narcissism Doctor: "1 In 6 People Are Narcissists!", "Are Narcissists Better In Bed?", "Can A Narcissist Change? - Dr. Ramani Durvasula

Mentioned by

Mel Robbins

as the expert for the episode, highlighting her work on narcissism and difficult personalities.

How to Deal With Difficult People: One Trick to Live a More Peaceful & Fulfilled Life

Mentioned by

Sabrina Zohar

as a book co-authored with her partner, offering insights into relationship dynamics.

112: Why Emotional Unavailability Feels Safe: Understanding the 'Not Enough' Wound With Vanessa Bennett

Mentioned by

Andy Tegel

and Marielle Segarra as co-authors of "It's Not Me, It's You", offering insights into relationship dynamics and household labor.

Stuck doing all the household chores? This practical guide can help

Mentioned by

Rangan Chatterjee

as the author's latest book, offering guidance on identifying and healing from narcissistic people.

How To Spot A Narcissist, The Impact of Toxic Relationships & Building Healthy Boundaries with Dr Ramani Durvasula #428

Mentioned by

Mel Robbins

as her new book, containing new research and insights on narcissism.

Signs You’re Dealing With a Narcissist (New Research From World-Leading Expert Dr. Ramani)

Recommended by

Lewis Howes

as a groundbreaking guide for understanding and recovering from narcissistic relationships.

World’s #1 NARCISSIST Expert: THIS Is How You IDENTIFY & HEAL From Toxic People | Dr. Ramani

Mentioned by

Ed Mylett

as a new book offering relationship advice.

Blueprint For Better Relationships w/ John Kim

Mentioned by

John Kim

, highlighting Vanessa's contribution to the book's content on codependency.

Blueprint For Better Relationships w/ John Kim

Recommended by

Matthew Hussey

as an expert resource on narcissism.

(Matt Monday): Why It Feels Nearly Impossible to Leave a Narcissist

Mentioned by Vanessa as a book they wrote together, discussing love languages.

The New Epidemic - She’s Touched Out. He Wants More Sex

Mentioned as a nominee for Best Picture in the Brody Awards.

Richard Brody Presents the 2025 Brody Awards

Mentioned by

Jordan Harbinger

as a resource for understanding and healing from narcissistic relationships.

1006: Dr. Ramani | Surviving and Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse

Mentioned by

Jordan Harbinger

as a book that explores narcissism and its impact on relationships.

954: Dr. Ramani | Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

Mentioned by

Dave Asprey

and

John Kim

as a book that helps break the blame cycle in relationships.

How to Drop Happily Ever After and Do Relationships Better! – John Kim, LMFT : 1077

Mentioned by

Matthew Hussey

while discussing narcissistic relationships.

Crafting Lasting Love in Your Relationships w/ Matthew Hussey

Recommended by

Dave Asprey

as a book that offers a raw and honest approach to dissecting relationship dynamics.

How to Drop Happily Ever After and Do Relationships Better – John Kim, LMFT : 973

Mentioned by

Dr. Karen Messina

as a self-help psychoanalytic book about narcissism and projective identification.

Misogynoir and the Psychic Life of Race: Projective Identification, Cultural Authority, and the Black Feminine

Mentioned by

Emma Gunavardhana

as her latest book on narcissism, offering guidance on identifying and healing from narcissistic people.

Dr Ramani Durvasula | How to Survive a Narcissist.

Mentioned by Dr. Karyne E. Messina as one of her own books.

James Baldwin’s Use of Mechanisms of Defense in this Story “Going to Meet the Man”

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