Order of Man VANESSA BENNETT | The Myths of Masculinity and Motherhood
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Sep 30, 2025 Vanessa Bennett, a licensed psychotherapist and author of 'The Motherhood Myth', dives deep into the misunderstandings between men and women. She explores how societal pressures shape relationships and the importance of emotional safety in attraction. They discuss the need for leadership over dominance and how effective communication fosters healthier partnerships. Vanessa emphasizes the significance of shadow work and personal integrity, urging individuals to own their roles in relationships while navigating desire versus need. It's a compelling look at modern masculinity and femininity.
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Roles Hide The Human
- Misunderstanding between men and women often stems from social blueprints that force roles and hide the human behind them.
- Vanessa says therapy work aims first to help people understand each other beyond those robotic roles.
The Pendulum Explains Cultural Swings
- The pendulum of cultural change swings extremes until society finds a new center over time.
- Vanessa argues recent feminist shifts pushed many women away from dependence, prompting a corrective swing toward balance.
Choose Instead Of Need
- Choose partners because you want them, not because you need them for survival.
- Vanessa says choosing raises relationship quality and motivates both parties to show up differently.
