

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Sep 17, 2025 • 1h 5min
What the Successful Know About Wealth, When to Invest, Why Own Rentals | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into the habits that set wealthy individuals apart from the average. Discover the essential difference between real and nominal gains in investing and why it matters. Explore the intricacies of renting versus buying and how timing impacts your financial decisions. Challenge the myth that wealth is tied to dishonesty, and learn how to leverage home equity for investment success. Plus, unlock the secrets of backdoor Roth IRAs for maximum financial growth. Equip yourself with actionable insights for smart wealth management!

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Sep 16, 2025 • 1h
JAY JAIRDULLO | Why Self-Image is Everything
In this conversation, retired police officer Jay Giardullo shares insights from his 25 years in law enforcement and coaching. He discusses the concept of self-image and its profound impact on personal identity. Jay breaks down the idea of 'false masculinity' while emphasizing the importance of core values and emotional intelligence, particularly in fatherhood. He advocates for building authentic male friendships and highlights the significance of loyalty and support in relationships, urging listeners to shift their focus from negativity to positivity for personal growth.

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Sep 12, 2025 • 24min
When Good Men Do Nothing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
The conversation dives into the alarming rise of political violence and the urgent need for men to take action. Four key actions are highlighted: protecting families, opposing harmful ideologies, stepping into influential roles, and nurturing strong brotherhoods. Ryan emphasizes financial security as a means of protection and discusses the power of community engagement. He calls on men to refuse silence and actively participate in shaping societal values. Personal stories and plans for local chapters add a motivating touch to the message.

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Sep 11, 2025 • 1h 4min
CHARLIE KIRK | Are Men the Enemy?
Charlie Kirk, a prominent political activist and founder of Turning Point USA, discusses pressing issues surrounding masculinity and responsibility. He emphasizes the dangers of an overly feminized education system and the impact of absent fathers on boys' development. The conversation urges for strong male role models and the importance of resilient parenting. Kirk also highlights the declining birth rates and their societal implications, calling for a focus on family values to combat cultural crises and misinformation.

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Sep 10, 2025 • 1h 4min
Work/Life Balance is a Myth, Re-Focusing Your Energy, and When Plans Go Wrong | ASK ME ANYTHING
In a lively discussion, the hosts tackle the myth of work-life balance, advocating for energy management instead. They highlight practical strategies for aligning daily actions with long-term goals and the perils of distractions that hinder productivity. Engaging family meetings are introduced as a way to set and track personal goals. The importance of resilience when plans go awry is emphasized, alongside tips for effective planning. Plus, updates on community support and tools for growth keep the conversation focused on a fulfilling, intentional life.

Sep 9, 2025 • 1h 13min
DAVID PISARRA | When Your Marriage Ends, Do This…
David Pissara, an attorney and men's advocate specializing in divorce and custody, shares crucial insights for navigating the tumultuous landscape of marriage breakdowns. He discusses emotional manipulation men often face and how to effectively confront it. Pissara highlights the importance of understanding legal rights during divorce and the potential biases in the family court system. He also explores indicators of impending divorce, personal responsibility in relationships, and how to turn the challenges of divorce into opportunities for personal growth.

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Sep 5, 2025 • 24min
How to Be Vulnerable Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
This captivating discussion challenges common perceptions of vulnerability in men. It suggests vulnerability is not just about being open but a strategic tool for personal growth. The importance of discernment before sharing experiences is emphasized, along with the need for goals that guide openness. Practical solutions should accompany vulnerability, promoting accountability in relationships. Listeners will find inspiration in encouraging honest self-reflection while building supportive communities for genuine connections.

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Sep 3, 2025 • 35min
Daily Efficiencies, Practices, Planning, and Systems | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into the world of daily efficiencies with insights on balancing flexibility and structure for a productive life. Discover the art of becoming an early riser and making planning a ritual. Learn practical tactics like using buffers, handling unexpected events, and categorizing your days to keep you on track. The conversation is packed with actionable strategies for enhancing routines and achieving personal growth. Whether you're working from home or pursuing long-term goals, these tips offer a roadmap to success.

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Sep 2, 2025 • 1h 12min
LARRY HAGNER | The "Dad Drift" and How to Beat It
Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge and author of 'The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood,' shares insights from over two decades of fatherhood. He delves into the concept of 'dad drift,' discussing how fathers can lose focus on their families amidst daily distractions. Larry highlights the importance of active engagement and open communication with spouses and children. He also emphasizes nurturing connections, combating complacency, and creating psychological safety to foster deeper relationships, all while navigating the challenges of parenting with authenticity and purpose.

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Aug 29, 2025 • 22min
How a Man Overcomes Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Discover how to confront and overcome betrayal in both personal and professional realms. The speaker shares personal anecdotes and practical strategies for navigating these challenges with respect and self-control. Emphasis is placed on learning valuable lessons, recognizing early red flags, and establishing strong boundaries. This discussion serves as an empowering call for resilience and growth, encouraging individuals to rise above hardship and foster healthier relationships moving forward.