

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Dec 26, 2025 • 30min
You Cannot Drift Your Way to Success | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Success is a choice, not a coincidence. Ryan Michler emphasizes that drifting leads to weakness and lost potential. He challenges listeners to confront distractions and choose their struggles intentionally. Emphasizing that chaos doesn't equate to productivity, he contrasts it with the freedom found in discipline and structure. Brotherhood plays a vital role in accountability, helping to combat isolation. By setting clear standards and taking immediate action in one drifting area, listeners can start steering their lives toward success.

Dec 24, 2025 • 50min
Men Carry Knives, Real Accountability, and Little Wins Matter | ASK ME ANYTHING
Join a lighthearted conversation that quickly dives into deeper topics. Discover why many men struggle to articulate their desires, influenced by early conditioning. Learn how opening up can lead to feeling shut down, and explore the balance between work, home, and community. They highlight the significance of finding meaning in daily moments and stress that purpose is built through action, not just contemplation. Enjoy insights on accountability, blending vision with character traits, and the value of presence in transforming the mundane.

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Dec 23, 2025 • 1h 7min
WIM HOF | Factory Reset: How Cold, Breath, and Solitude Rewire Your Brain
Join Wim Hof, the Dutch extreme athlete renowned for his breathwork and cold exposure techniques, as he explores the limits of the human mind and body. He shares insights on how cold exposure activates deep brain functions, reduces stress, and improves sleep. Wim highlights the importance of daily rituals combining cold and breath to achieve vitality. He contrasts modern comforts with ancient practices, advocating for a reconnection to our primal instincts. Experience how these methods can lead to clarity, purpose, and an invigorated life.

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Dec 19, 2025 • 19min
Audit Your Life | Cut the Crap | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Explore the detrimental effects of saying 'I'm fine' and how it leads to a drift in standards. Learn to conduct a no-nonsense audit of your body, relationships, and finances. Ryan emphasizes the importance of identifying weak spots and taking immediate action rather than waiting for a crisis. Discover the power of setting one non-negotiable standard in your life to foster real change. This is a call to accountability, pushing you to align your actions with your values and take charge of your future today.

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Dec 17, 2025 • 60min
How Inflation, Scarcity, and Vanity Destroy Your Wealth | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into the world of finances as Ryan and Kipp tackle the pressing issues of money management. They explore how a scarcity mindset can sabotage wealth and relationships, while offering insights into Dave Ramsey's baby steps. Learn the key differences between Roth and traditional IRAs, and challenges around popular budgeting rules. The duo emphasizes the importance of teaching kids financial discipline and maintaining a family-focused approach to wealth building. It's all about balancing abundance thinking and practical financial strategies!

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Dec 16, 2025 • 1h 19min
JACK DONOVAN| Why Outrage Culture Undermines Masculinity
Jack Donovan, an author and cultural critic renowned for his insights on masculinity, discusses the pitfalls of modern masculinity today. He argues that outrage culture undermines real progress, as hot takes and online debates often overshadow genuine accountability. Donovan emphasizes the need for men to adhere to a code of conduct while exploring how gossip can serve as both moral regulation and harmful division. He also highlights the importance of storytelling and integrity in fostering community and building a meaningful legacy.

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Dec 12, 2025 • 39min
Your Standards > Your Goals | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
A deep dive into why standards are more crucial than goals reveals that true identity shapes consistent behavior. Goals often crumble under pressure, but strong standards create stability and resilience. Ryan shares personal stories, including his recovery from a serious injury, to illustrate how living by non-negotiable standards drives transformation. He introduces a four-step framework for upgrading your identity and maintaining accountability. This enlightening discussion encourages listeners to take immediate action and elevate their standards for a better future.

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Dec 10, 2025 • 55min
Death of Loved Ones, Stop Seeking Validation, and Outsourcing Responsibility | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into the intricacies of discipline and motivation as the hosts tackle the journey of staying committed amid life’s heaviness. Discover the emotional landscape of processing grief after losing a loved one, alongside insights on forgiveness and moving forward. The discussion highlights why men often seek validation and the importance of personal responsibility over external approval. They also share impactful books that shaped their thinking this year, providing listeners with practical wisdom and relatable experiences.

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Dec 9, 2025 • 1h 9min
FATHER STEPHEN GADBERRY | The Muzzling of Humanity
Father Stephen Gadberry, a Catholic priest, U.S. Air Force veteran, and former American Ninja Warrior, explores how to communicate truth amidst societal pressures. He discusses the importance of authentic masculinity in leadership and why hard truths are essential for spiritual growth. Father Gadberry emphasizes the balance between speaking boldly and offering compassion, and he shares insights on discipline through small daily practices. He also reflects on Christian persecution and the call to defend the innocent, prioritizing discernment in challenging situations.

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Dec 5, 2025 • 33min
How Men Lost Their Voice (And, How to Get it Back) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this insightful discussion, Ryan dives into why many men struggle to assert themselves, exploring cultural conditioning that stifles confidence. He highlights the dangers of silence, such as resentment and unhealthy relationships. By framing self-advocacy as a vital leadership skill, he emphasizes that asking for needs is not selfish but a responsibility. Practical examples are provided for effective communication in personal and professional realms. Listeners are challenged to confront one difficult conversation and reclaim their voices.


