

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Oct 7, 2025 • 1h 8min
JACK CARR | Why Fiction Frees the Mind
Jack Carr, a New York Times bestselling author and former U.S. Navy SEAL, dives into the power of fiction and its role in self-development. He shares how reading fiction cultivates empathy and enhances creativity, arguing it can be more beneficial than nonfiction self-help. Jack also discusses the evolving landscape of publishing and how social media connects authors with readers. Drawing on his background, he emphasizes the importance of lifelong learning and the joys of storytelling, both on the page and through audiobooks.

Oct 3, 2025 • 25min
Meet Challenges Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan explores what it truly means to be a man and the challenges that define manhood. He emphasizes the importance of problem-solving and leadership, especially in tough situations. The conversation highlights the need for anticipation and situational awareness to avoid pitfalls. Emotional regulation is discussed as essential for providing security to others. Ryan encourages empowering those around you rather than rescuing them. Ultimately, he calls for men to develop strength across multiple domains and support each other through brotherhood.

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Oct 1, 2025 • 1h 6min
Multi-Dimensionality, People-Pleasing, and Stepping Into Masculinity | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into essential relationship-building tips, from communicating needs to recognizing when a bond no longer serves you. Discover strategies for reconnecting with children after absence and prioritizing time with family. Explore the importance of inner work to manage anger and navigate difficult conversations on politics and faith. Ryan's thrilling zipline rescue story underscores the importance of cherishing loved ones. This episode is packed with practical advice for men seeking to improve their personal lives and community connections.

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Sep 30, 2025 • 1h 17min
VANESSA BENNETT | The Myths of Masculinity and Motherhood
Vanessa Bennett, a licensed psychotherapist and author of 'The Motherhood Myth', dives deep into the misunderstandings between men and women. She explores how societal pressures shape relationships and the importance of emotional safety in attraction. They discuss the need for leadership over dominance and how effective communication fosters healthier partnerships. Vanessa emphasizes the significance of shadow work and personal integrity, urging individuals to own their roles in relationships while navigating desire versus need. It's a compelling look at modern masculinity and femininity.

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Sep 26, 2025 • 21min
A Man’s Guide to Taking Risk | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
This discussion delves into the crucial role of risk-taking for personal growth and leadership. It emphasizes the importance of understanding your motivations and weighing potential risks against rewards. Techniques for minimizing downsides and ensuring financial readiness are highlighted. The chat also explores using SWOT analysis for better decision-making and stresses the value of mentorship. Ultimately, it calls for men to embrace calculated risks as a moral duty, guiding them toward a purposeful and courageous life.

Sep 24, 2025 • 51min
The Power of Intention, High-Income Skills, and Overcoming Financial Hurdles | ASK ME ANYTHING
Explore the nuances of Roth versus traditional 401(k)s and discover why even late savers should get started immediately. Learn how to scale rental properties wisely by using equity without overextending. Dive into the challenges of starting a meat processing business, including pricing and customer experience. Understand the importance of high-income skills like sales and emotional management. Finally, navigate the complexities of debt culture and why it’s often better to hold investments rather than cashing them out for a low-rate mortgage.

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Sep 23, 2025 • 1h 31min
SHAWN STEVENSON | Using Bio Feedback to Fuel Your Body
Shawn Stevenson, a health and fitness expert and bestselling author, dives into the complexities of food and our relationship with it. He discusses how cultural shifts have impacted family meals and men’s health. The conversation covers the placebo effect’s surprising power, why not all calories are created equal, and the importance of gut microbiome diversity. Stevenson offers practical tips for using biofeedback in nutrition and training, and shares actionable advice for men over 40 on optimizing their health and vitality.

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Sep 19, 2025 • 30min
Nice Guys Never Win | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
This discussion dives into the pitfalls of 'Nice Guy Syndrome,' revealing how avoiding conflict and seeking approval harms relationships and careers. Discover the emotional costs such as confusion and resentment, and learn why living authentically is crucial. The host shares five powerful daily practices to foster decisiveness and build strong boundaries. It's a bold call for men to reject victimhood, embrace responsibility, and lead with confidence. Get ready to reclaim respect and authenticity!

Sep 17, 2025 • 1h 5min
What the Successful Know About Wealth, When to Invest, Why Own Rentals | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into the habits that set wealthy individuals apart from the average. Discover the essential difference between real and nominal gains in investing and why it matters. Explore the intricacies of renting versus buying and how timing impacts your financial decisions. Challenge the myth that wealth is tied to dishonesty, and learn how to leverage home equity for investment success. Plus, unlock the secrets of backdoor Roth IRAs for maximum financial growth. Equip yourself with actionable insights for smart wealth management!

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Sep 16, 2025 • 1h
JAY JAIRDULLO | Why Self-Image is Everything
In this conversation, retired police officer Jay Giardullo shares insights from his 25 years in law enforcement and coaching. He discusses the concept of self-image and its profound impact on personal identity. Jay breaks down the idea of 'false masculinity' while emphasizing the importance of core values and emotional intelligence, particularly in fatherhood. He advocates for building authentic male friendships and highlights the significance of loyalty and support in relationships, urging listeners to shift their focus from negativity to positivity for personal growth.