
Order of Man
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
Latest episodes

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Jun 6, 2025 • 30min
Your Integrity Gap is Destroying You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Explore the intriguing concept of the 'integrity gap'—the chasm between knowing what to do and actually doing it. Discover how this gap stifles personal growth, relationships, and results. Gain actionable insights through six reflective questions tailored for men. Learn to identify who you ideally want to be versus who you currently are, and what changes need to happen daily. Uncover the systems and information necessary to close this gap and step into your true potential.

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Jun 4, 2025 • 1h 15min
Regain Momentum, Be a Manly Man, and Overcome Your Heart at War | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this engaging discussion, the hosts dive into the complexities of forgiveness within family dynamics, emphasizing the balance between healing and personal boundaries. They explore the intertwining of confidence and humility as vital to growth, while also confronting the emotional aftermath of life’s challenges, including mortality and loss. Additionally, they tackle the nuances of masculinity, advocating for responsible fatherhood and the importance of resilience in achieving fulfillment. It's a compelling call to embrace true strength and purpose amidst adversity.

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Jun 3, 2025 • 1h 4min
ALEX GRENDI | Sex: How to Be Better at It and Get More of What You Want
In this engaging chat, Alex Grendi, a former professional soccer player turned certified men's sex coach, dives into the often-taboo subject of male sexuality. He discusses overcoming childhood shame and societal pressures surrounding sex. Alex offers insights on the impact of pornography on intimacy and the importance of open conversations about desires. Listeners will learn practical ways to ask for feedback and improve their sexual experiences, emphasizing the need for emotional connection and vulnerability in the bedroom.

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May 30, 2025 • 23min
What We Do Echoes in Eternity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Explore the thought-provoking notion that our actions leave a lasting impact, inspired by Gladiator and Marcus Aurelius. Discover the perils of short-term thinking and the importance of a long-term perspective in life. Learn three transformative strategies: pausing before reacting, applying the five-five-five rule, and focusing on enduring results. These insights guide listeners toward thoughtful decision-making, fostering healthier relationships and a legacy of growth. Embrace the challenge to make choices that resonate well beyond the present moment!

May 28, 2025 • 51min
Casting Vision, Revisiting the Past, and Accepting Responsibility | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this engaging discussion, the hosts tackle diverse themes, including the delicate balance between ambition and family life. They delve into the challenges of post-divorce dating and share insights on embracing personal growth. Listeners can glean advice on staying committed to fitness during summer and the importance of self-discovery in shaping one’s identity. The conversation also highlights financial preparedness for relationships and offers practical strategies for emotional healing after breakups. It's a treasure trove of actionable insights!

May 27, 2025 • 60min
CRAIG BALLANTYNE | The Dark Side of Discipline
In this engaging conversation, Craig Ballantyne, an entrepreneur and high-performance coach, unpacks the often misunderstood nature of discipline. He discusses how misapplied discipline can lead to frustration and suffering. The talk reveals the importance of focusing on 'level 10 problems' for personal growth and how to differentiate between standards and expectations. Craig also shares insights on breaking the 'doom loop' of negative behaviors, fostering community support, and developing effortless discipline systems for true fulfillment.

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May 23, 2025 • 21min
Do Not Grow Bitter | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Discover four powerful strategies to dodge bitterness amidst life's hurdles. Learn the importance of taking responsibility for your choices and reframing painful narratives into growth opportunities. Embrace discomfort as a vital part of personal development and harness gratitude as a transformative tool. With engaging stories and actionable insights, listeners are encouraged to rise above frustration and reach their full potential. It's all about turning challenges into stepping stones!

May 21, 2025 • 1h 5min
Self-Help Hangover, Jumpstarting Motivation, and The Crisis of Meaning | ASK ME ANYTHING
This episode dives deep into toxic leadership and the importance of empathy in the workplace. It offers practical tips for jumpstarting motivation and overcoming the 'self-help hangover.' The hosts explore the meaning crisis, urging a return to community and purpose beyond mere pleasure. They also share insights on writing and maintaining positivity through challenges. Lastly, the conversation touches on building relationships with stepkids and the significance of accountability in personal growth.

May 20, 2025 • 1h 15min
GARRETT UNCLEBACH | Why Men Require Purpose
Garrett Unclebach, a former Navy SEAL and leadership coach, dives deep into the critical role of purpose in men's lives. He explains how modern men often feel lost and aims to guide them towards reclaiming their identity. The conversation highlights the power of surrendering control, the significance of mentorship, and finding internal peace beyond external achievements. By sharing his experiences in training and community building, Garrett emphasizes that true fulfillment comes from aligning with one's passions and serving a greater purpose.

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May 16, 2025 • 21min
Options Equal Freedom | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Exploring the link between options and true freedom, the discussion emphasizes discipline as a cornerstone for personal sovereignty. Listeners discover four actionable strategies to expand choices, stress the importance of self-improvement, and maintain open-mindedness. The conversation urges individuals not to idolize others and to take charge of their lives. It also highlights the significance of individual sovereignty, cautioning against giving away control. This inspiring talk encourages a proactive approach to pursuing desired life paths.