The Mel Robbins Podcast Signs You’re Dealing With a Narcissist (New Research From World-Leading Expert Dr. Ramani)
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Feb 15, 2024 
Join Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a renowned expert on narcissism and seasoned clinical psychologist, as she unpacks the intricacies of dealing with narcissistic individuals. Discover the top ten traits that signal narcissism, the differences between love bombing and genuine affection, and practical strategies for managing relationships with narcissists. Dr. Ramani emphasizes the crucial link between childhood experiences and narcissistic behaviors, empowering listeners to recognize red flags and navigate these complex dynamics with clarity.
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Narcissism Defined
- Narcissism is a maladaptive personality style characterized by variable empathy, entitlement, and a need for validation.
- This rigidity stems from a core of insecurity and shame, making narcissists reactive to perceived criticism.
Vanity vs. Narcissism
- Vanity and superficiality differ from narcissism in the presence of entitlement and interpersonal antagonism.
- A vain person may crave attention but won't necessarily treat others poorly to get it.
No Healthy Narcissism
- Healthy narcissism doesn't exist; narcissism, by definition, harms relationships.
- Self-reflection and concern for others' feelings differentiate healthy self-advocacy from narcissism.
