
The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
Latest episodes

Jul 8, 2024 • 59min
Emotional Intelligence with Former Spy | Dave Fielding
Former US Army Green Beret and intelligence officer Dave Fielding discusses emotional intelligence, military life, and mental health struggles. He shares spycraft techniques for rapid rapport and overcoming suicidal thoughts. The podcast delves into building connections, understanding motivations, and embracing vulnerability in elite military communities.

Jul 1, 2024 • 1h 3min
Secrets to Building Habits That Stick | BJ Fogg
Renowned behavior scientist BJ Fogg discusses debunking habit formation myths, tiny habits for significant change, leveraging emotions, and creating positive habits effortlessly. Practical examples and strategies for building habits that stick and achieving goals.

Jun 24, 2024 • 1h 2min
How AI is Transforming Modern Dating | Liesel Sharabi
Join Liesel Sharabi, a relationship expert, as she discusses the impact of AI on modern dating. Learn about creating authentic online profiles, managing choice overload, and using AI to find meaningful connections. Discover the secrets to enhancing your online dating experience!

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Jun 17, 2024 • 49min
The High Value Effect | Toolbox
AJ and Johnny discuss high and low value behaviors, emphasizing honesty, generosity, and cooperation in relationships. They explore strategies to elevate social value, avoid pitfalls, and build strong connections. Learn how to balance cooperation without being taken advantage of and become a high value individual in all aspects of life.

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Jun 10, 2024 • 37min
Transform Low-Value Behaviors into High-Value Habits | Toolbox
AJ, a psychology of value and behavior expert, discusses identifying and avoiding low-value behaviors with Johnny. They explore supplicative and combative behaviors, the dangers of social media validation, and transitioning to high-value habits. The episode delves into the importance of attention, approval, and acceptance in human interactions, emphasizing personal growth and positive relationships.

Jun 3, 2024 • 45min
Ways To Win | Craig Robinson
Craig Robinson, distinguished college basketball coach, discusses leadership in coaching, following passion over financial concerns, and building empathy and resilience in sports. He shares insights on communication, team cohesion, and handling setbacks effectively.

May 27, 2024 • 1h 2min
The Laws of Connection | David Robson
Award-winning writer David Robson discusses the impact of social connections on health, overcoming the 'liking gap,' and rebuilding social skills post-pandemic. He shares strategies for creating shared realities, expressing appreciation, and strengthening relationships using the Benjamin Franklin effect.

33 snips
May 20, 2024 • 58min
3 Questions to Build Intimacy & Deepen Relationships | Topaz Adizes
Emmy award-winning director Topaz Adizes shares insights on the power of questions in building deep connections and enhancing relationships. He discusses creating space for intimate conversations, bringing logic into relationships, and developing emotional articulation with your partner. Discover how asking the right questions can unlock deeper bonds and improve communication skills.

29 snips
May 13, 2024 • 56min
3 Steps For Building Friendships As An Adult
AJ, Johnny, and Michael Herold discuss the challenges of making friends as adults, emphasizing the importance of propinquity and shared interests. They explore loneliness trends, remote work effects on relationships, and practical steps to build lasting friendships. Learn how to reduce friction in social interactions and leverage a social sales funnel to make new connections.

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May 6, 2024 • 55min
Avoid Regret and Find Your Alive Zones | Jodi Wellman
Former executive turned executive coach, Jodi Wellman, discusses the importance of quantifying remaining Mondays to infuse purpose into your career. Learn how facing mortality can inspire urgent career development and personal fulfillment. Gain insights on identifying 'dead zones' holding you back from success and how the pandemic influences our perception of time and opportunities for growth.