The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
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Mar 31, 2025 • 1h 6min
Validation Ladder: 8 Skills That Build Incredible Relationships | Dr. Caroline Fleck
Dr. Caroline Fleck is a licensed psychologist and corporate consultant, known for her expertise in validation techniques. She discusses the transformative power of validation in relationships, emphasizing understanding without agreement. Listeners learn practical communication strategies, such as mirroring body language and emotional intelligence, to foster connections. Fleck also highlights how to build vital networks during uncertain times and the importance of empathetic engagement in leadership, advocating for deeper emotional conversations to enhance relationships.
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Mar 24, 2025 • 58min
9 'Bad' Traits That Get You Promoted | Jenny Wood
Jenny Wood, a career coach and former Google executive, discusses her journey of rising through the ranks at Google and debunks myths about career success. She encourages embracing so-called 'bad' traits like being shameless and weird as catalysts for growth. Jenny highlights the importance of visibility and strategic self-promotion, sharing effective networking strategies inspired by military intelligence. She underscores the value of authenticity in professionalism, urging listeners to prioritize their personal goals over societal expectations.
Mar 17, 2025 • 1h 2min
How to Win Without Burning Out | Steve Magness
This conversation features Steve Magness, a world-renowned expert on human performance and resilience. He discusses the downsides of an outcome-obsessed mindset that can lead to burnout. Steve reveals how shifting from performance to a quest-driven approach can unlock fulfillment and sustainable success. He also dives into the impact of uncertainty on mental health, offering insights from elite athletes on managing anxiety and navigating life's challenges with a focus on personal growth. Tune in for valuable strategies to thrive!
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Mar 10, 2025 • 1h 5min
Handle the Pressure and Avoid These 3 Leadership Traps | Sabina Nawaz
Joining the conversation is Sabina Nawaz, CEO of Nawaz Consulting and author of "You're the Boss." She reveals why promotions can be perilous, shedding light on the hidden pressures that can impact leadership effectiveness. Sabina emphasizes the importance of balancing positive and corrective feedback, introducing the powerful 5-to-1 rule. Listeners will learn quick communication tips, such as the impact of asking "Say more" to enhance dialogue. The discussion delves into overcoming common leadership pitfalls while fostering trust and collaboration.
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Mar 3, 2025 • 58min
Avoid The High Achiever’s Trap | Dr. Mary Anderson
Join Dr. Mary Anderson, a licensed psychologist and author of "The Happy High Achiever," as she reveals the psychology behind high achievement. She discusses why successful individuals often feel unfulfilled and the self-sabotaging behaviors they encounter. Dr. Anderson introduces the S.E.L.F. Formula, a framework for sustainable success, and dives into the detrimental effects of perfectionism and cognitive distortions. Learn how to embrace imperfection, cultivate self-compassion, and transform your mindset to break free from burnout and thrive.
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Feb 24, 2025 • 1h 5min
Managing Up: 10 Conversations with Your Manager | Melody Wilding
Melody Wilding, an executive coach and author of "Managing Up," specializes in helping high-achievers conquer self-doubt. She shares strategies for overcoming hesitations in difficult conversations with bosses and the importance of aligning goals with management. Melody emphasizes the necessity of setting work boundaries and effectively communicating feedback to showcase commitment. Additionally, she discusses securing support from multiple leaders to safeguard career progression and the significance of building trust for professional success.
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Feb 17, 2025 • 1h
How to Be Super Psyched: The Formula for Connection | Dr. Adam Dorsay
Join Dr. Adam Dorsay, a licensed psychologist and TEDx speaker, as he dives into the art of authentic connection and overcoming imposter syndrome. He discusses how high achievers often feel disconnected despite their success and shares the FEED framework for finding true passions. Discover the Driveway Test to evaluate energizing relationships and the concept of ikigai for personal fulfillment. With insights on embracing discomfort and enhancing conversations, Dr. Dorsay equips listeners to nurture genuine relationships and reignite their purpose.
Feb 10, 2025 • 58min
Nonverbal Secrets to Building Trust | Dr. Abigail Maroño
Dr. Abbie Maroño, a leading expert in social influence and body language, delves into the fascinating world of nonverbal communication and trust-building. She reveals that first impressions are formed in just 33 milliseconds and explores how hidden cues can dictate perceptions of safety or threat. Discover why consistent body language is crucial and how a single misstep can unravel months of trust. Abbie emphasizes that cooperative leaders achieve greater success than those relying on manipulation, highlighting trust as a more powerful force than competition.
Feb 3, 2025 • 59min
The Science of Exploration |Alex Hutchinson
In this captivating discussion, Alex Hutchinson, an award-winning journalist and expert in endurance and neuroscience, dives into the science behind human curiosity and exploration. He reveals the psychological and biological drivers that inspire individuals to embrace challenges. Modern technology's impact on our innate exploratory instincts is examined, along with strategies to enhance creativity and career growth. Alex emphasizes the importance of accepting uncertainty for personal development and the profound significance of struggle in achieving meaning and happiness.
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Jan 27, 2025 • 1h 4min
The Science Of Conflict Resolution | Dr. Jim Guinn
Dr. Jim Guinn, a renowned mediation expert and president of the Resolution Resource Group, shares valuable insights on conflict resolution. He delves into the emotional dynamics that derail rational discussions, emphasizing the importance of understanding different conflict styles. Dr. Guinn introduces practical techniques like the 'voice technique' and 'detour technique' to manage high-stakes disagreements. He highlights how recognizing core issues and adapting communication styles can transform personal and professional relationships, fostering collaboration and win-win outcomes.
