

The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm
The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
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Aug 5, 2024 • 51min
Building Trust In A Cynical World | Jamil Zaki
Dr. Jamil Zaki, a Stanford psychology professor and director of the Social Neuroscience Laboratory, discusses the rise of cynicism in society. He shares strategies to combat personal cynicism and promote hope. The differences between healthy skepticism and harmful cynicism are explored in depth. Dr. Zaki emphasizes the importance of fostering genuine connections to improve trust and relationships. He also highlights the crucial role of community in rebuilding social trust post-pandemic, drawing from insights in his upcoming book.

Jul 29, 2024 • 58min
3 Powerful Tips to Boost Your Social Health | Kasley Killam
Kasley Killam, a social health expert with over a decade of experience, shares her insights on the crucial role of social connections in our lives. She discusses the complexities of evaluating social health and introduces the '531 guideline' for meaningful interactions. Kasley emphasizes the importance of quality over quantity in relationships and addresses the loneliness paradox in our tech-driven society. Lastly, she offers practical strategies for nurturing social health and building stronger connections in an increasingly individualistic world.

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Jul 22, 2024 • 1h 3min
The Art of Negotiation: The Balcony and The Bridge | Dr. William Ury
Dr. William Ury, negotiation expert, shares insights on conflict resolution and high-stakes negotiation. Topics include building a 'golden bridge,' preparing for tough negotiations, and transforming difficult relationships into productive partnerships. Learn key strategies for successful negotiations and avoiding common pitfalls.

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Jul 15, 2024 • 1h 11min
Accelerate Your Career & Grow Your Network | Dr. Tessa West
Join for an insightful conversation with Dr. Tessa West, a leading expert in interpersonal communication and psychology at NYU. Discover how to handle difficult coworkers, network effectively, negotiate salaries, and find fulfilling work. Unpack the top 5 career frustrations, leverage your network in salary negotiations, and craft a cohesive career narrative. Learn about the psychological tensions at work, fear of uncertainty, and maximizing networking opportunities for business growth.

Jul 8, 2024 • 57min
Emotional Intelligence with Former Spy | Dave Fielding
Former US Army Green Beret and intelligence officer Dave Fielding discusses emotional intelligence, military life, and mental health struggles. He shares spycraft techniques for rapid rapport and overcoming suicidal thoughts. The podcast delves into building connections, understanding motivations, and embracing vulnerability in elite military communities.

Jul 1, 2024 • 1h 1min
Secrets to Building Habits That Stick | BJ Fogg
Renowned behavior scientist BJ Fogg discusses debunking habit formation myths, tiny habits for significant change, leveraging emotions, and creating positive habits effortlessly. Practical examples and strategies for building habits that stick and achieving goals.

Jun 24, 2024 • 60min
How AI is Transforming Modern Dating | Liesel Sharabi
Join Liesel Sharabi, a relationship expert, as she discusses the impact of AI on modern dating. Learn about creating authentic online profiles, managing choice overload, and using AI to find meaningful connections. Discover the secrets to enhancing your online dating experience!

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Jun 17, 2024 • 49min
The High Value Effect | Toolbox
AJ and Johnny discuss high and low value behaviors, emphasizing honesty, generosity, and cooperation in relationships. They explore strategies to elevate social value, avoid pitfalls, and build strong connections. Learn how to balance cooperation without being taken advantage of and become a high value individual in all aspects of life.

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Jun 10, 2024 • 37min
Transform Low-Value Behaviors into High-Value Habits | Toolbox
AJ, a psychology of value and behavior expert, discusses identifying and avoiding low-value behaviors with Johnny. They explore supplicative and combative behaviors, the dangers of social media validation, and transitioning to high-value habits. The episode delves into the importance of attention, approval, and acceptance in human interactions, emphasizing personal growth and positive relationships.

Jun 3, 2024 • 45min
Ways To Win | Craig Robinson
Craig Robinson, distinguished college basketball coach, discusses leadership in coaching, following passion over financial concerns, and building empathy and resilience in sports. He shares insights on communication, team cohesion, and handling setbacks effectively.