Negotiate Anything
Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.
Transform your relationships. Speak your truth. Get what you deserve—with Kwame Christian as your guide. This is the #1 negotiation podcast in the world with over 15 million downloads, but it’s about so much more than that.This isn’t about manipulation or domination—it’s about showing up more powerfully, leading with authenticity, and speaking your truth with more clarity. Whether you’re leading a team, parenting through stress, or learning to speak up without fear, the skills you’ll build here will transform how you show up in every area of your life. Kwame doesn’t just teach strategy—he teaches transformation, helping you become the kind of person who moves through life with more clarity, courage, and compassion. Every episode is rooted in empathy, psychology, and Kwame’s signature warmth, blending real-world stories, expert guests, and practical frameworks so you can break through the fears that have been holding you back. Join millions of listeners who’ve discovered that the best things in life really are on the other side of difficult conversations. Ready to level up at work and at home?About the Host: Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A.Kwame Christian the founder and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute. He's known for his viral TEDx Talk, “Finding Confidence in Conflict,” and is a bestselling author of two books:• How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race (2022)• Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life (2020)As a degrees in law, psychology, and public policy, Kwame brings a wealth of knowledge to every episode. He’s also a LinkedIn instructor with over 2.3 million learners, making complex negotiation concepts accessible to everyone.Why This Podcast?At the American Negotiation Institute, we believe that the best things in life are on the other side of difficult conversations. Our mission is to empower you to negotiate anything, anywhere. Whether you’re a seasoned negotiator or just starting, our podcast equips you with the tools and confidence to navigate any conversation.Tune in to Transform Your Life:Join millions of listeners who have already unlocked the power of negotiation. Subscribe now and start mastering the skills that will transform your professional and personal life. Watch our episodes on YouTube for more visual insights and tips.Connect with Us:• Website: American Negotiation Institute• Email: simon@negotiateanything.com• LinkedIn: Kwame Christian• YouTube: Negotiate AnythingProduced by the American Negotiation Institute
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Apr 10, 2025 • 33min
The One Thing Smart Leaders Miss About AI: Professor Hise Gibson
Hise Gibson, a professor at Harvard Business School and a retired military colonel, sheds light on the often-overlooked human factors in AI integration. He argues that leadership failures, rather than technology, hinder successful adoption. Trust between leaders and teams is crucial, especially post-pandemic, where interpersonal skills have declined. Gibson emphasizes humility in leadership and the importance of effective communication to navigate challenges in an evolving workplace. His insights could reshape how leaders think about their roles in driving change.
Apr 9, 2025 • 22min
Feel Underpaid? Here’s the Truth About Getting a Raise (with The Naked Negotiator)
Michael W. Phillips, a veteran consultant and author of The Naked Negotiator with 30 years of experience in procurement, shares crucial insights on negotiating raises. He emphasizes that hard work alone isn't enough; a strategic approach is key. Listeners will learn how to replace 'fair' with 'reasonable' in negotiations and the importance of confidence. Phillips also addresses why many don’t initiate salary discussions and how proper preparation can shift the power dynamic to ensure a successful outcome.
Apr 8, 2025 • 53min
Hard Work Isn’t Enough—You Have to Manage Up! - with Melody Wilding
In this insightful conversation, Melody Wilding, an executive coach and author of Managing Up, shares strategies for taking control of your career. She explains how being a 'team player' can hinder your reputation and offers practical advice on setting boundaries without creating conflict. Melody emphasizes the importance of managing up—not to flatter, but to influence and thrive. Listeners will gain tools for improving workplace dynamics, mastering negotiation, and enhancing their professional presence to overcome self-doubt.
Apr 7, 2025 • 27min
How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty – A Masterclass in Boundaries with Eliana Goldstein
In this enlightening discussion, career coach Eliana Goldstein focuses on the importance of setting boundaries to avoid burnout, especially for Gen Z and millennials. She emphasizes the pitfalls of excessive people-pleasing and offers tips on saying no without guilt. Eliana shares how acknowledging personal emotions can lead to a more fulfilling professional life and highlights the role of self-awareness in establishing clear communication. Plus, she provides valuable insights on navigating career transitions while maintaining a solid sense of self.
Apr 6, 2025 • 34min
Why Most People Fail to Persuade — And What to Do Instead — with Omar M. Khateeb
Join persuasion expert Omar M. Khateeb, a medtech strategist, as he delves into the art and psychology of persuasion. He uncovers why many fail to persuade effectively, discussing the crucial difference between ethical persuasion and manipulation. Learn about the 'Present Pain, Future Fear' framework and how emotional triggers influence decision-making. Omar also explores the role of trust in corporate negotiations and the impact of AI on persuasive strategies. This conversation is packed with practical tips for anyone looking to enhance their influencing skills!
Apr 5, 2025 • 26min
From Fear to Influence: The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything
Maha Abouelenein, a strategic communications executive with a rich background at Google and Netflix, shares her expertise in this engaging dialogue. She discusses the importance of transitioning from fear to influence in communication. Key topics include mastering storytelling for authentic connections and the role of personal branding in negotiations. Maha emphasizes the need for value creation in relationships, urging listeners to prioritize empathy and understanding. Her actionable tips are invaluable for anyone looking to boost their negotiation and communication skills.
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Apr 4, 2025 • 49min
The FBI’s Top Hostage Negotiator Reveals What Actually Works in Negotiation – with Gary Noesner
Gary Noesner, a retired chief of the FBI Crisis Negotiation Unit with three decades of experience, shares gripping tales from high-stakes negotiations, including Waco. He highlights the crucial role of emotional intelligence, genuineness, and active listening in fostering trust during negotiations. Noesner emphasizes the parallels between law enforcement and business negotiations, advocating for authentic relationships. Listeners learn valuable life lessons about curiosity, patience, and the art of connection, vital for both personal and professional success.
Apr 3, 2025 • 57min
Why You’re Not Being Heard—And How to Change That Through Assertiveness
In this episode, Ivna Curi, an expert in empowering professionals and women, dives into the nuances of assertive communication. She explores the four essential components of assertiveness, debunks common myths, and discusses how to balance assertiveness with warmth. Listeners learn to replace negative communication habits with solution-focused approaches. Ivna shares practical insights on navigating difficult conversations and provides actionable strategies to enhance workplace interactions, fostering respect and understanding among team members.
Apr 2, 2025 • 29min
The Silent Mistake Brilliant People Make When the Pressure’s On
Matt Abrahams, a communication expert and lecturer at Stanford, shares his insights on effective communication under pressure. He emphasizes the significance of mindset, audience understanding, and empathy. Abrahams discusses common pitfalls and provides strategies to improve spontaneous communication, encouraging listeners to view difficult interactions as opportunities. Techniques like paraphrasing and focusing on connection over perfection help foster authenticity. This conversation inspires listeners to engage more authentically in both personal and professional interactions.
Apr 1, 2025 • 32min
Never Lead Alone: Keith Ferrazzi on the Mindset Behind Exceptional Teams
Join high-performing teams coach Keith Ferrazzi as he dives into the transformative shift from traditional leadership to teamship. He shares practical strategies for building trust and enhancing peer accountability within teams. Keith emphasizes the importance of open communication and operationalizing team dynamics through social contracts. Listeners will discover actionable techniques to overcome trust deficits and promote ownership, ultimately fostering a more collaborative and dynamic organizational culture.
