
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone breaks down the centuries of sexist socialization that causes us to struggle with self-doubt, burnout, and anxiety.
Hosted by Master Feminist Coach Kara Loewentheil, J.D., founder of The School of New Feminist Thought and author of Take Back Your Brain (Penguin 2024), each episode teaches you how to turn down the noise of societal expectations, turn up the volume on what YOU really want in life, and change your thinking to make sure you go get it.
This podcast is an essential resource for anyone eager to embrace a life free from limiting beliefs and societal constraints.
If you ever find yourself asking questions like…
*Why am I so anxious about stuff that isn’t a big deal?
*How can I stop overthinking everything?
*Am I selfish for wanting my life to look different?
*Will I ever feel comfortable in my body?
*Am I a bad parent?
*How can I ask for more money at work?
*Can I stop people-pleasing?
*How can my partner and I communicate better?
… then you won’t want to miss an episode.
Visit schoolofnewfeministthought.com to learn more about The School of New Feminist Thought and more.
Latest episodes

Sep 28, 2023 • 50min
309. Coaching and Therapy Through a Feminist Lens: A Conversation with ACFC Alumni Jen Fadden, Osaru Anyumba, Nicolassa Galvez, and Rachelle Siebke
Explore the power of coaching and therapy through a feminist lens with alumni of Advanced Certification in Feminist Coaching. They discuss empowering work and solidified self-identity, questioning established norms, benefits of feminist coaching for men, and the importance of an intersectional feminist analysis in therapy.

Sep 21, 2023 • 47min
308. When to Listen to Your Financial Fears: An Interview with Farnoosh Torabi
We all feel fear in our lives for all sorts of different reasons. Some fear can be useful and some fear can be unproductive. Regardless of whether your fear is useful or unproductive, it’s important to listen to it, not to give into it but to better understand its source. Tune in this week to my conversation with author, personal finance expert and host of the So Money podcast, Farnoosh Torabi, as we discuss the role fear plays as a natural instinct, how you can differentiate between useful and unproductive fear, what role fear plays in financial anxiety, the impact of fear on ambition, embracing a balanced perspective, and more.Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/308

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Sep 14, 2023 • 21min
307. Feminist Marriage Brain Part 2 — Marriage Ambivalence
Exploring the historical and cultural origins of marriage, including its patriarchal nature and the theories behind its creation. The role of women in marriage throughout history and the inequities that still exist in contemporary marriages. The challenge of resolving ambivalence towards marriage and embracing ambiguity when making decisions influenced by socialization. Discussion on not beating yourself up for thoughts and feelings, and the announcement of a private podcast on coaching from a feminist lens.

Sep 13, 2023 • 8min
BRAND NEW PODCAST for Coaches and Cognitive-Based Therapists - Subscribe to Access!
Most coaching certification and therapy programs don’t teach how to look at socialization and the way it impacts women’s brains and the way they think about themselves in the world. So I’ve created a brand new, free private podcast called How to Coach Like a Feminist: Adding A Feminist Lens to Coaching or Cognitive-Based Therapy. In this limited series starting September 18, you’ll learn about marketing and selling, the client/coach relationship, how to set your client goals, the feminist coaching lens, and more. If you want to learn how adding a feminist lens to your work can completely change your coaching, text your email address to +1 347 997 1784 and enter the keyword COACH when prompted or visit unfuckyourbrain.com/coach.

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Sep 7, 2023 • 21min
306. Feminist Marriage Brain Part 1 — Engagement Expectations
Explore the societal expectations and historical significance of engagements and proposals in shaping modern relationships. Challenge traditional gender roles and examine your own expectations for romantic gestures. Learn about societal beliefs tied to elaborate proposals and the importance of examining deep socialization. Discover a new private podcast focused on coaching with a feminist lens called 'How to Coach Like a Feminist'.

Aug 31, 2023 • 38min
305. Negotiation & Collaboration for Professional Women of Color (and Everyone Else): A Conversation with Executive Coach Jamie Lee
In this episode, guest Jamie Lee, an executive coach, discusses how to ask for and advocate for what you want in your professional life. The conversation explores the significance of thought work, the impact of social conditioning on professional women, shifting perspectives and visualizations, changing coaching approaches, and negotiating and collaborating in the workplace.

Aug 24, 2023 • 17min
304. Your Life GPS — What Is Your Setting?
Explore the concept of a 'life GPS' and how it impacts decision-making and outcomes. Learn how to consciously set your GPS for a fulfilling life and align it with purpose and values. Discover the importance of setting goals and priorities intentionally and how societal conditioning affects individuals, particularly women.

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Aug 17, 2023 • 29min
303. Conscious Uncoupling: A Conversation with Ali Ryan
Ali Ryan, fellow coach, joins the podcast to talk about using thought work to navigate breakups, divorce, and separation. They discuss how breakups can be transformative experiences, societal expectations and relationship stigma, the power of having a happy ending in a breakup, and the concept of conscious uncoupling for personal growth.

Aug 10, 2023 • 18min
302. How to Enjoy Your Vacation No Matter What
Vacations. Most of us can’t wait to get away and just chill out. You might imagine yourself in a gorgeous location, eating delicious food, seeing beautiful sights, lounging by the pool or at the beach, feeling rested and happy. Or maybe you find yourself dreading it because you’re already counting the things that are sure to go wrong. So, how can you prepare for the disappointment that may come with a perfectionist fantasy like scenario one? And how can you avoid letting difficult or frustrating circumstances, like scenario two, ruin your entire trip? Tune in this week to find out how you can enjoy your vacation no matter what happens.Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/302

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Aug 3, 2023 • 52min
301. UnF*ck Your Time: A Conversation with Vikki Louise
Every one of us has received social messages not only about how we should spend our time, but also what kind of morality is attached to how we spend it. Women have an added layer of time socialization on top of this, because we’re socialized to believe that we exist for the purpose of doing things for others. It’s no wonder many women in today’s world feel like they never have enough time.This week I’m having a conversation about women and time with the host of the Feminist Time, Productivity, & Rest podcast, Vikki Louise. We discuss why waking up one hour early isn’t going to solve your time problems, how the existing time structure was not created with women in mind, and how your thoughts can be the biggest time suck.Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/301