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355. The Role of Urges in Parenting & Being Parented
Aug 15, 2024
Parenting dynamics shift as children grow into their independence. The urge to control and guide doesn't fade easily, affecting relationships with both children and parents. Exploring these emotional responses reveals how personal values can inform parenting decisions. The complexities of unsolicited advice between parents and adult children highlight the need for conscious communication. Strategies are discussed to manage these urges, fostering healthier interactions and incorporating feminist perspectives into parenting.
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- Parents often struggle to relinquish control as children gain independence, leading to potential conflict and strained relationships.
- Understanding the distinction between instinctual urges and the actual value of advice can foster healthier parent-child interactions.
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The Evolution of Parenting Dynamics
As children grow, the dynamic between parent and child naturally shifts from one of constant guidance to a more autonomous relationship. In early parenting, parents are the primary authority figures, instructing their children on basic tasks and decisions. This pattern creates habits in the brain where parents feel compelled to maintain their authoritative role even as their children become more independent. Consequently, parents may experience conflict or alienation when their children resist unsolicited advice or input as they transition into adulthood.
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