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Never split the difference: negotiating as if your life depended on it by Chris Voss

Sep 1, 2024
Chris Voss, a former FBI hostage negotiator with two decades of crisis experience, reveals his unique negotiation insights. He discusses the importance of tactical empathy and emotional intelligence, emphasizing how these skills can transform high-stakes discussions into collaborative dialogues. Voss shares gripping stories from real hostage situations, highlighting the power of listening and the strategic use of 'no' to foster trust. Tune in for practical techniques that can enhance everyday negotiations and turn conflict into cooperation.
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INSIGHT

Great Negotiators Stay Flexible

  • Great negotiators suspend assumptions and keep multiple hypotheses in mind.
  • This flexibility helps them actively test and discover which assumptions hold true during negotiation.
ADVICE

Use Calm ‘DJ’ Voice

  • Use the late-night FM DJ voice to exude calm and control.
  • This soothing tone reduces panic and helps keep counterparts talking.
ADVICE

Master Mirroring Technique

  • Practice mirroring by repeating the last 1-3 critical words someone says.
  • This technique builds rapport and encourages the other party to elaborate.
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