Fucking Cancelled

Nobody's Getting Cancelled: Breakups in the Age of Cancel Culture

Feb 26, 2022

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Are You in an Abusive Relationship?

03:36

Why You Shouldn't Want Control and Punish Your X

01:35

Attachment Theory and the Nervous System

03:47

Introduction

2min

Slash Bucking Cancelled

2min

Are False Accusations Really Rare?

3min

Are You Being Abused?

2min

I Call My Axs Abusive When They Were Not

2min

Why You Shouldn't Want Control and Punish Your X

2min

Attachment Theory and the Nervous System

4min

Is There a Short Cut to Controlling Your Own Internal State?

6min

Do You Know if You Have Experienced Abuse?

5min

10.

You Know, It's Abuse, You Know?

5min

11.

Trying to Control the Attachment

3min

12.

Domestic Violence Relationships

4min

13.

Is There a Difference Between Domestic Violence and Domestic Abuse?

6min

14.

Cancelling Your Acts Is Not Very Different From Other Kinds of Relational Abuse

2min

15.

What Is the Emotional Baggage of the Word Abuse?

3min

16.

The Social Isolation of Abuse Victims

2min

17.

Cancellation Campaigns

3min

18.

Dating in Sex Life After the Relationship

2min

19.

Cancel Campaigns

2min

20.

Cancel Culture

2min

21.

The Belief Survivor's Axiom

2min

22.

You Must Believe Survivor's Axis Within the Nextis

2min

23.

I Was Abused, I'm Actively Being Abused Right Now, Right?

4min

24.

Are You a Survivor of Abuse?

4min

25.

The Nextis and the Nextisi

2min

26.

Conflict Is Not Ofbuse by Sara Shoman

5min

27.

You Shouldn't Just Go to Boyfriend or Ever

2min

28.

Are You in an Abusive Relationship?

4min

29.

I Don't Know What to Do About This Kind of Abuse

3min

30.

Cancel Campaigns Against Your S Are Not Abuse

4min

31.

Cancel Campaigns Are Not Helpful for Survivors of Domestic Violence

3min

In Episode 26, we discuss breakups in the age of cancel culture. We ask what happens when we think of cancellation as a form of intimate partner abuse, talk about why it is that some people can feel the need to control their ex-partners, and investigate how the Nexus promotes and protects this type of behaviour. Finally, we talk about some things we can do instead of cancelling our exes.

Part of the Nobody’s Getting Cancelled series.

Show Notes

Episode 6 - Refusing to be Accountable: Responsibility, Boundaries, Intervention and Punishment

Episode 16 - Fucking Feelings: Attachment Theory and the Nexus

The Five Stages of Grief

Conflict is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair, by Sarah Schulman

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Mixing and editing by Charlotte Dora.

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