Are You a Survivor of Abuse?

i don't want to say that most people who make accusations of abuse are doing it for that reason. I do think that a people know on some level that like being able to mobilized discourses of like believe survivors, and therefore you have to believe me is one more notch of social capital within the next as well. And so i honestly think that there are some people who find this sort of behaviour very distasteful because they're afraid their ax is going to be used against them. But if we're honest,  most of us have not acted 100 % perfectly in our relationships, but that doesn't mean that we're abusers.