Is There a Difference Between Domestic Violence and Domestic Abuse?

i think that any one who has been in a relationship that is severely abusive will understand and remember that the abuser very often does feel victimized, and very often justifies their behavior by framing themselves as the victim. In my case, you know, he felt that me ing had a bunch of sexual partners before i was in relationship with him was like demeaning to him,. He would lash out by trying to control. And so even though we might find, i mean, i am sure that everyone who 's listeng to the spy cast finds his ideological framing repugnant and upsetting - that's what i'm trying to get at.