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Mentioned in 17 episodes
Trick Mirror
Reflection on Self-delusion
Book • 2019
Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion is a New York Times-bestselling book of essays by Jia Tolentino.
The book delves into various aspects of modern life, including identity, culture, and the human condition.
Tolentino examines topics such as the sexual revolution, social media, and the complexities of personal identity, offering insightful and thought-provoking reflections on the world we live in today.
The book delves into various aspects of modern life, including identity, culture, and the human condition.
Tolentino examines topics such as the sexual revolution, social media, and the complexities of personal identity, offering insightful and thought-provoking reflections on the world we live in today.
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Mentioned in 17 episodes
Recommended by 

as a good nonfiction book.


Grace Beverley

259 snips
How To Build A Multi-Million Dollar Empire In Your 20s - Grace Beverley
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in a discussion about the distorting effects of social media.

Eugene Wei

233 snips
11: Eugene Wei - Amusing Each Other to Death
Mentioned by 

as the book written by his guest, 

, who is a writer at The New Yorker and a screenwriter.


Adam Grant


Jia Tolentino

148 snips
WorkLife: The dangers of identity capitalism with Jia Tolentino
Mentioned by 

as the book written by his guest, 

, which reflects on self-delusion.


Adam Grant


Jia Tolentino

63 snips
WorkLife: The dangers of identity capitalism with Jia Tolentino
Mentioned by 

as a book about the commodification of personal data, using a different approach than 'The Age of Surveillance Capitalism'.


Elizabeth Cox

43 snips
#208 – Elizabeth Cox on the case that TV shows, movies, and novels can improve the world
Recommended by 

as a great piece of work.


Chris Hayes

38 snips
“My Brain Finally Broke” with Jia Tolentino
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as a book of essays that she loves.

Katie Gatti-Tossan

36 snips
'Rich Girl Nation' AMA: Answering Your Burning Questions About My First Book
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in relation to Instagram's impact on beauty standards.

Leigh Stein

35 snips
Ep. 49: The best time to be a writer is NOW ft. Leigh Stein
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as a New York Times bestseller.


Glennon Doyle

18 snips
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)
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as Gia Tolentino's essay collection.

Hrishikesh Hirway

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Key Change: Jia Tolentino on "I Love You Always Forever"
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as a life-changing book that discusses self-delusion and social issues.

Kristen Lee

Microdosing Bravery with Kristen Lee
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as a book related to the themes of the conversation.


Ezra Klein

A mind-bending, reality-warping conversation with John Higgs
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as the author of the New York Times bestselling essay collection.

Sam Fragoso

A New Year with Writer Jia Tolentino (‘Trick Mirror’)
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in a discussion about body image and American culture.

Saeed Jones

The Call Is Coming From Inside the House
Mentioned by Sam Sanders in a conversation about the cyborgification of popular culture.

Into It: A Portrait of Artist as Taylor Swift
Recommended by Dan Matthews to 

, describing it as clever and fun to read.


Janet Wang

Episode 19: How To Be Alone Without Being Lonely
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as a book about internet culture, written by Gia Tolentino.


Theo Von

E359 Ari Shaffir
Mentioned by the host in the episode description as a comparable title to ![undefined]()

's 'Jesusland'.

Joelle Kidd

Joelle Kidd, "Jesusland: Stories from the Upside Down World of Christian Pop Culture" (ECW Press, 2025)
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as the author of "Trick Mirror", a book of essays about life in the internet age.


Ezra Klein

Amelia Dimoldenberg Can Teach You How to Flirt
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as a brilliant book of essays about the internet and its impact on identity, politics, and culture.


Ezra Klein

Jia Tolentino on what happens when life is an endless performance