Bare Marriage

Joanna Sawatsky, a data analyst focused on relationship stats, and Rebecca Lindenbach, daughter of Sheila Rae Gregoire, dive into the complexities of balancing marriage and motherhood. They stress that prioritizing time together can enhance connection, challenging the notion that only grand gestures matter. The duo discusses the significance of shared bedtimes for intimacy and the need for couples to work as a team amid parenting pressures. Their insights aim to alleviate guilt and redefine roles, suggesting a more harmonious approach to family dynamics.

Compromise in marriage may not always lead to fairness, especially when partners contribute unequally. The discussion dives into the importance of shared responsibilities and emotional support to cultivate intimacy. The 'Marriage Hierarchy of Needs' model emphasizes fulfilling basic needs before personal growth can occur. Miscommunication, often rooted in traditional gender roles, can create resentment, making mutual respect essential. Ultimately, the focus is on fostering equitable partnerships for a thriving marriage.

Cynthia Long Westfall, a Professor of New Testament at McMaster Divinity School, dives into the dynamics of marriage rooted in teamwork. She shares compelling data linking teamwork to marital satisfaction, intimacy, and conflict resolution. Westfall challenges traditional hierarchical views, arguing they often lead to negative outcomes. She emphasizes the need for shared decision-making and mutual respect, redefining marital roles to foster equality over dominance. Their engaging discussion underscores how partnership can transform relationships positively.

Discover the pitfalls of traditional evangelical marriage advice, which often leads to dissatisfaction. The discussion challenges harmful gender roles and stereotypes that hinder healthy relationships. Personal stories reveal the negative impact of unrealistic expectations. Delve into the importance of setting boundaries and mutual respect, especially in unhealthy dynamics. The hosts advocate for evidence-based insights and a reevaluation of outdated teachings, promoting genuine intimacy and emotional fulfillment in marriage.

Rebecca Lindenbach, co-author of 'The Marriage You Want', and data expert Joanna Sawatsky challenge the longstanding notion that men need respect while women need love in relationships. They use data from 20,000 women, revealing flaws in traditional views on marital dynamics. The duo discusses how emotional needs are more complex than previously thought, emphasizing that both genders desire love and respect equally. They encourage a shift away from rigid gender roles, promoting mutual support for healthier, more satisfying marriages.

Dive into a captivating discussion about dismantling toxic beliefs in evangelicalism and the historical contexts behind harmful ideologies. The hosts emphasize the importance of critical thinking and discerning manipulative rhetoric in faith communities. They challenge traditional gender roles by contrasting societal norms from 1964 to 2024 and explore the complexities of modern platforms. With a focus on personal growth, they critique quick-fix solutions and advocate for genuine transformation, all while preparing for a healthier New Year ahead!

Excitement brews as groundbreaking research on purity culture influences marital and sexual satisfaction among white Christian women. The discussion critiques evangelical marriage dynamics, emphasizing the need for ethical research. Myths surrounding women's sexuality are humorously debunked, while misconceptions about DNA in relationships are challenged. Celebrating a successful peer-reviewed paper, the speakers look to enhance understanding of women's health in the church. They also explore community engagement initiatives, all while sharing sweet treats and festive anecdotes.

Send us a textAdvent is normally a time of hopeful expectation. But what does it mean when our hopes have been dashed in the past? Stephanie Duncan Smith shares her stories of miscarriages and losses—as well as great celebrations, and what it means to embrace a life that is really messy. And we look at how we can celebrate the Incarnation by being Jesus’ hands and feet, seeing the work fighting sex trafficking that The Well House is doing. It’s the Christmas season, everyone! Stocking Stuffers:Check out our biblical womanhood line of merch, or our Prayer and Tent Pegs lines! They're wonderful with mugs, notebooks, stickers, tshirts and more!TO SUPPORT USJoin our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join our email list!THINGS MENTIONEDFind Even After EverythingDonate to The Well HouseDonate to the work we do! Help us meet our 2025 goals. Get a tax-deductible receipt for donations within the USOr, if you’d rather, join our Patreon and support us that way, while getting access to an exclusive Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Dive into the critique of Jimmy Evans' 'Marriage on the Rock,' uncovering troublesome ideas about obligation in intimacy and the burden placed on women. Explore the harmful messages often hidden in popular marriage advice and the realities of navigating abuse within relationships. The discussion challenges traditional gender roles while advocating for mutual emotional connection and shared responsibilities. It also highlights the perils of spiritual bypassing in counseling and the critical need for informed, research-backed guidance in marriage.

Send us a textEver feel like your body is a stranger to you? Like you’re plagued with insecurity, can’t find peace in your relationships? What if it’s because we’re running away from part of who we are, and we haven’t been able to honor who God made us to be? Christy Bauman, a licensed therapist, noticed in her counseling that her clients often didn’t have a clear identity or were able to articulate who they were. So she invites us on a journey of recovering rites of passage—where we honor sacred moments in our lives, honor our birthright, honor who God made us to be. We honor the good and the bad; we lament what is lost but we celebrate what we’ve achieved. And when we’re able to do these things, we can finally be comfortable in our own skin! Join us for this deep and personal conversation. OUR SPONSOR:Ever, AJ: Uniquely crafted vegan leather Bible cases. These Bible Cases are GORGEOUS and FUNCTIONAL! Use it as a traditional case, or you can also buy purses and wristlets. Makes a great gift too!TO SUPPORT USJoin our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join our email list!Things Mentioned in the Podcast:Christy Bauman’s book Her RitesFind Christy, her book, and the songsGreat Sex Rescue is on for under $10 on Amazon right now! (who knows how long that will last?)Our peer reviewed article in the Sociology of Religion journalSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.