Bare Marriage Episode 283: When the Church Stole Your Sex Life
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May 15, 2025 Dr. Andrew Bauman, a licensed therapist and expert on men's sexuality, joins the discussion to unpack the complexities of how church environments can stifle sexual expression. He shares insights from his book, 'Safe Church,' revealing the damaging effects of purity culture and systemic sexism in faith communities. Listeners hear compelling personal stories that highlight the need for accountability and open conversations about intimacy and mutual respect. The episode challenges the blame placed on women and advocates for healthier relationships, sexual autonomy, and healing.
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Sexism in Evangelical Churches
- Andrew Bauman's 5-year survey revealed widespread sexism and abuse in evangelical churches.
- He highlights how many women workers experience a stained glass ceiling and lack of respect.
Modesty Messages Enable Abuse
- Modesty teachings often shift responsibility for men's sinful desires onto women, enabling abuse.
- The church's weaponization of forgiveness and blaming women protects abusers and deepens harm.
Modeling Equality in Family Life
- Andrew Bauman and his wife model mutual submission and shared household responsibilities for their children.
- Their example teaches kids equality and challenges damaging traditional gender roles.
