Bare Marriage Episode 286: Our Best Christian Dating Advice--that you've all been asking for!
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Jun 5, 2025 The hosts dive into the complexities of dating and singleness, urging a shift from passive waiting to proactive engagement. They critique common advice about patience in favor of innovative strategies like the 'Burn the Haystack Method'. Highlighting the need for self-awareness and compatibility, they discuss the hard truths about red flags and the importance of recognizing personal worth. The conversation also emphasizes effective communication and socializing as key elements in finding quality relationships, while advocating for a reflective approach to partner selection.
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Stop Spiritualizing Singleness
- Stop blaming singleness on God teaching patience, dating is a numbers game.
- Actively participate in dating rather than waiting for a perfect partner to appear.
Weekly Dates Find Fiancé
- A woman dated weekly for two years, going on over 100 dates before finding her fiancé.
- She treated dating like a part-time job and prioritized it actively.
Burn The Haystack Method
- Use the 'Burn the Haystack' method: repel unsuitable matches to avoid wasting time.
- Be clear about your values upfront so incompatible people self-select out.