Bare Marriage Episode 280: The Problems with the Book The Love Dare--And How It Papers Over Real Problems
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Apr 24, 2025 The discussion critically examines the popular book The Love Dare, arguing it perpetuates harmful marriage myths. It highlights how reliance on unrealistic advice can blind couples to deeper issues, particularly in abusive situations. The hosts advocate for open communication and accountability instead of superficial solutions. They explore the complexity of selfishness and the dangers of misinterpreting intentions in relationships. Emphasizing the need for genuine intimacy and self-reflection, they encourage couples to seek healthier guidance in their marriage.
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Love Dare's Recycled Advice
- The Love Dare book largely recycles traditional evangelical marriage advice without offering anything new or helpful.
- It focuses on preserving the marriage at all costs rather than addressing real issues or fostering intimacy.
Marriage Preservation Over Health
- The Love Dare values marriage success by preservation, not by the health or safety of the people involved.
- It encourages ignoring or gaslighting problems instead of facing them.
God Is No Marriage Crutch
- Suggesting God replaces a spouse’s love or attention is disrespectful and enables unhealthy relationships.
- Using God as a crutch for a bad marriage avoids addressing real marital problems.
