Relationship Advice

Money is one of the biggest causes of relationship conflict and divorce. Money can also be a personal strain that causes a great deal of stress and anxiety. Listen to today's show to learn how to get your finances in order and gain a deeper understanding of your relationship to money. In this episode with Ben Hockema we discuss relationship advice topics that include: The different ways we think about money and the importance of understanding this for yourself and your partner Why we create different money mindsets and the biases we carry around money Creating agreements around money that work for your relationship Why some people look at money to increase security and others want to use it for experiences How to create real systems for your money management Understanding and communicating your goals around money And much more! SponsoredAmazfit is your own personal health management expert on your wrist. Head over to AMAZFIT.COM/IDO to get 15% off with the promo code "IDO"Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Bruce Chalmer, a relationship expert, delves into the challenging themes of betrayal and forgiveness. He explains why forgiveness is often difficult and shares strategies for managing the initial shock of betrayal. The conversation highlights the importance of self-forgiveness and practical approaches to rebuild trust. Chalmer also discusses the emotional complexities of healing and the role of faith, emphasizing that pain can coexist with love as individuals navigate their path to recovery.

Our childhood, religion, culture and many other factors all influence how we view sex and relationships as adults. Listen to today's show to better understand how these things have impacted your views so that you can take an informed approach to improving your sex and relationships. In this episode with Ann Russo we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Religions impact on how we think about relationships How to understand our past and get to our authentic sexual selves Unpacking the cultural and religious messaging that women are not sexual Why we've been taught that women's sexuality is dangerous Promiscuity biases between men and women Shame around sex and how to create empowerment How to cultivate a flexible mindset and change your mind about sex and other relationship topics And much more! SponsoredBetterHelp is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/IDO.Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nneka Symister, a seasoned New York-based clinician with over two decades of experience in trauma and couples work, shares invaluable insights on managing expectations in relationships. She discusses the negative impact of social media on our perceptions and the importance of understanding personal desires. Nneka emphasizes the necessity of creating agreements with partners and accepting that unintentional hurt is part of relationships. Her advice highlights self-awareness and clear communication as keys to fostering deeper emotional connections.

Molly Fletcher, a former sports agent and keynote speaker, shares her expertise on leading a purpose-driven life and aligning it with relationships. She inspires listeners to perform an 'alignment audit' to uncover their core values. Fletcher emphasizes living authentically and avoiding complacency while highlighting the importance of anticipating a partner’s needs. She also encourages reflection on the legacy one wishes to leave behind, making it clear that intentional living can transform both life and relationships.

Relationship expert Hilary Silver discusses embodying radical responsibility in relationships, setting clear boundaries, and the importance of self-reflection. She emphasizes the role of communication, addressing conflict, and nurturing friendships outside of romantic relationships for personal growth and healthier connections.

There are many factors that influence how you will show up in a relationship. One factor is your relationship with gender, masculinity and femininity. It's important to understand all aspects of yourself in order to show up as the best version of yourself and experience the best relationship possible. Listen to today's show to learn more!In this episode with Dr. Jo-Ann Finkelstein we discuss relationship advice topics that include: The importance of understanding the gender narratives that may be influencing you How both genders may want to give and receive both masculine and feminine traits Why it's valuable to stop thinking about the masculine and feminine in a binary way How to communicate with your partner around gender topics What to do if you feel that you don't have a voice in your relationship How to talk to kids to reinforce positive self esteem And much more! SponsoredHero Bread is team of bread-heads who believe that everyone should have the freedom to eat and enjoy foods we love most, without negative health consequences. Go to HERO.CO and get your healthy bread!Manscaped was created to provide efficient and effective men's grooming tools for wherever you need it. Get 20% off + free shipping with the code "IDO" at MANSCAPED.COM. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex can become deprioritized as a relationship progresses. Less sex may be a result of many different factors that if they are left unaddressed, can lead to relationship dissatisfaction and even breakup. Listen to today's show to learn more about how to improve your sex life starting today!In this episode with Dr. Nazanin Moali we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to creatively make sex a priority in your relationship again Addressing sexual dysfunction in a safe and productive way if it's present Should you be scheduling sex? Understanding your own relationship with sex and deeper conditioning that may be present How to get to know your erotic mind What to do if resentment from rejection builds up When porn may create issues in a relationship And much more! SponsoredSpark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Greg Hammer delves into the power of acceptance in relationships, emphasizing mindfulness, sitting with discomfort, and differentiating between changeable and unchangeable aspects. Learn how acceptance can reduce suffering and improve connections.

Relationship expert Chris Rackcliffe discusses navigating relationship anxiety by addressing anxious patterns, self-abandonment, nervous system regulation, diversifying connections, codependency, fears of abandonment, self-worth, and healing traumas for healthier relationships.