

Relationship Advice
Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
Relationship Advice helps listeners uncover the stuck spots in their relationships by taking expert advice from three licensed professional counselors and boiling it down into digestible tips and tools. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren help people to see that the first step to connecting with somebody else is by connecting with you. They focus their show on understanding and navigating the cycles that couples face, how to practice individuation, and staying in an emotionally regulated state. Just them each week as they come with a jam packed agenda to help you thrive in your relationships.Looking for old episode from "Relatable"? Click here.
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Oct 9, 2024 • 43min
478: Learn Nervous System Regulation And Improve Your Life
In this engaging conversation, Karden Rabin, an expert in nervous system regulation and a contributor to the Trauma Research Foundation, delves into the importance of body awareness in personal growth. He shares fascinating insights on transforming your fight or flight response with practical embodiment exercises. Karden emphasizes the need to recognize signs of cumulative stress and offers strategies to break free from overactive defense mechanisms. Discover how approaching healing through the body rather than just the mind can lead to deeper emotional connections.

Oct 2, 2024 • 39min
477: Early Relationship Stages And Getting Your Needs Met
Relationships develop in stages and understanding how we show up in each stage is a valuable tool for relationship success. Understanding our needs and how to get them met is also incredibly important for relationship satisfaction. Listen to today's show for valuable information about both of these topics and much more!In this episode with Thais Gibson we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Why we sometimes betray ourselves because of infatuation with another person
The stages of dating and the subconscious mind
How to understand, communicate and get your needs met in relationships
The importance of meeting your own needs sometimes
The biggest factor for why people cheat
How to understand the area our subconscious mind is running things
And much more!
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Sep 25, 2024 • 42min
476: How To Not Settle In Your Relationship
Penny McGoey, a relationship expert, shares valuable insights on keeping long-term relationships vibrant. She discusses the tendency for people to change without communicating, and how journaling can uncover relationship dynamics. The importance of clear communication about needs is emphasized, alongside nurturing gratitude and creating shared experiences. Penny also reflects on her own positive mindset with her partner, showcasing how curiosity and making plans together can prevent complacency and foster a deeper connection.

Sep 18, 2024 • 44min
475: Dealing With Infertility And Sexual Health Challenges
Gabriela Rosa, an expert in infertility and sexual health challenges, joins the discussion to provide insightful strategies for couples facing these hurdles. They explore the emotional complexities of infertility and how it can affect intimacy. The conversation highlights the importance of clear and healthy communication about family planning. Gabriela emphasizes distinguishing between venting and problem-solving conversations, and the need for empathy to navigate these sensitive topics together. Tune in for valuable advice on strengthening relationships during tough times!

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Sep 11, 2024 • 45min
474: Communication Hacks And Embracing Criticism
Dr. Warren Farrel, a relationship expert and author of 'Rolemate to Soulmate', shares valuable insights on navigating communication and embracing criticism in relationships. He emphasizes how to remain open and non-defensive when receiving feedback. Dedicated communication time is highlighted as vital for intimacy. Farrel also discusses the necessity of effort from both partners and explores the concept of a conflict-free zone to enhance love. Journaling is suggested as a tool for processing emotions before discussions, ensuring healthier conversations.

Sep 5, 2024 • 41min
473: Dealing With Dating Anxiety
Dating can feel overwhelming and challenging for many people. Navigating dating anxiety and fears can be easier when you have the right tools and awareness. Listen to today's show to learn the tools to date better while managing your anxiety and fears. In this episode with Alistair Wolfe we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Recognizing our innate desire for connection while not losing yourself while dating
Early steps for dating success and important questions to ask yourself
Setting realistic expectations for what dating and relationships should look like
What to do if you feel there is a lack of effort when you're dating
The importance of being honest with yourself during the different stages of dating
And much more!
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Aug 28, 2024 • 36min
472: How To Get Your Finances In Order For Peace Of Mind
Money is one of the biggest causes of relationship conflict and divorce. Money can also be a personal strain that causes a great deal of stress and anxiety. Listen to today's show to learn how to get your finances in order and gain a deeper understanding of your relationship to money. In this episode with Ben Hockema we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The different ways we think about money and the importance of understanding this for yourself and your partner
Why we create different money mindsets and the biases we carry around money
Creating agreements around money that work for your relationship
Why some people look at money to increase security and others want to use it for experiences
How to create real systems for your money management
Understanding and communicating your goals around money
And much more!
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Aug 21, 2024 • 41min
471: Betrayal And Forgiveness
Dr. Bruce Chalmer, a relationship expert, delves into the challenging themes of betrayal and forgiveness. He explains why forgiveness is often difficult and shares strategies for managing the initial shock of betrayal. The conversation highlights the importance of self-forgiveness and practical approaches to rebuild trust. Chalmer also discusses the emotional complexities of healing and the role of faith, emphasizing that pain can coexist with love as individuals navigate their path to recovery.

Aug 14, 2024 • 37min
470: Religion, Culture And Views On Sex
Our childhood, religion, culture and many other factors all influence how we view sex and relationships as adults. Listen to today's show to better understand how these things have impacted your views so that you can take an informed approach to improving your sex and relationships. In this episode with Ann Russo we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Religions impact on how we think about relationships
How to understand our past and get to our authentic sexual selves
Unpacking the cultural and religious messaging that women are not sexual
Why we've been taught that women's sexuality is dangerous
Promiscuity biases between men and women
Shame around sex and how to create empowerment
How to cultivate a flexible mindset and change your mind about sex and other relationship topics
And much more!
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Aug 7, 2024 • 33min
469: Getting Realistic To Improve Your Life
Nneka Symister, a seasoned New York-based clinician with over two decades of experience in trauma and couples work, shares invaluable insights on managing expectations in relationships. She discusses the negative impact of social media on our perceptions and the importance of understanding personal desires. Nneka emphasizes the necessity of creating agreements with partners and accepting that unintentional hurt is part of relationships. Her advice highlights self-awareness and clear communication as keys to fostering deeper emotional connections.