

Relationship Advice
Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
Relationship Advice helps listeners uncover the stuck spots in their relationships by taking expert advice from three licensed professional counselors and boiling it down into digestible tips and tools. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren help people to see that the first step to connecting with somebody else is by connecting with you. They focus their show on understanding and navigating the cycles that couples face, how to practice individuation, and staying in an emotionally regulated state. Just them each week as they come with a jam packed agenda to help you thrive in your relationships.Looking for old episode from "Relatable"? Click here.
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Jun 13, 2024 • 1h 9min
461: Healing Our Past To Create More Love Now
Expert Christina Rasmussen discusses healing past traumas and relationships in this episode. Topics include understanding grief's impact, shifting from surviving to thriving, proving worth to loved ones, invisible losses, triggers, and overcoming fear and anger for a more loving present.

Jun 6, 2024 • 42min
460: Creating A Values Driven Relationship
Understanding our values and communicating them with our partner is an important exercise to create a thriving relationship. Listen to today's episode to learn more about creating a values driven relationship. In this episode with Colter Bloxom we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The important difference between values and goals
How to clarify your values and communicate them with your partner
What to do when your values don't align with your partner's
Understanding and clarifying your non-negotiable values
When what we think we want is not what is really best for us
The importance of diversifying your values
And much more!
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May 29, 2024 • 41min
459: Using Polarity To Improve Your Relationship
Understanding gender polarity and gender roles is a great way to improve the health and happiness of your relationship. Listen to today's show to learn how to apply this knowledge and start improving your relationship today!In this episode with Magda Kay we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Why romantic desire requires polarity and how to create it
Why you need to be communicating about roles in your relationship
Understanding your ideas about gender roles and applying this knowledge to your relationship
Moving between polarity and familiarity to create a loving and fulfilling relationship
How energy flows differently between the masculine and feminine
And much more!
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May 22, 2024 • 39min
458: When Expectations Are Not Met
We all have expectations for our lives and relationships. When our expectations are not met is usually when we are most disappointed, upset, angry, insert negative emotion here. So what do we do? A good place to start is to learn what realistic expectations are for your relationship and learn how to ask for what you need. Listen to today's episode to get these tips and tools and start applying them to your relationship today!In this episode with Talia Bombola we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Establishing your expectations for a relationship and how to determine if they are realistic or not
How to consciously get your wants and needs met in a relationship
Communication tips to get your relationship needs fulfilled
The importance of of not only pointing out the negative in your relationship
Confronting the fact that your partner will disappoint you
And much more!
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May 15, 2024 • 39min
457: Hard Relationship Truths You Need To Hear
Todd Baratz, a relationship expert, shares gritty truths about love and partnerships. He discusses how societal ideals often mislead our expectations and emphasizes that partners will inevitably frustrate us. Love, he explains, is conditional in adult relationships. The conversation dives into attachment theory, the end of the honeymoon phase, and declining sexual desire. Todd also highlights the significance of understanding each other's triggers and the importance of open communication to foster stronger connections.

May 8, 2024 • 45min
456: Moving Through Challenges
Throughout our lives we will be challenged with relationships, jobs and family among other things. Cultivating a positive mindset with tools to navigate these challenges is an important part of living a more joyful life. Listen to today's show to learn more about the tools to help move through all of life's challenges. In this episode with Tammy Mastroberte we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
How to cultivate spirituality and how to interpret signs the universe may be showing you
What to do when you feel like you're stuck in your life or relationship
How to integrate acceptance and surrender into your life
Exercises to cultivate more gratitude in your relationship
How to infuse your life with more joy
And much more!
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May 1, 2024 • 38min
455: How To Deal With Anxiety And Overthinking
Former critical care nurse turned therapist Denise Schonwald discusses how to deal with anxiety and its physical impacts. Topics include interrupting anxiety patterns, supporting an anxious partner, and the manifestation of negative mental health patterns in the body.

Apr 24, 2024 • 45min
454: Shifting From Default Monogamous Relating
Dr. Joli Hamilton, relationship advice expert, discusses tips for successful non-monogamous relationships, navigating jealousy, and unpacking narratives around jealousy. They also explore transitioning from monogamous to non-traditional relationships and the importance of open communication in non-monogamous dynamics.

Apr 17, 2024 • 41min
453: Improve Your Mental Health, Improve Your Relationship
Loving someone better starts with loving ourselves better. Self awareness, understanding our childhood and being present are just some of the tools to help ourselves along this path. Listen to today's show to learn how to love ourselves and others better. In this episode with Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Mohammad we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Internal acceptance and the "I love you test"
How to increase your self esteem and self compassion
Tests and questions to help unpack the trauma we may have experienced as a child
What to do if your partner does not want to do the work to improve the relationship
The importance of leaving more space for pleasure in the relationship over performance and perfection
And much more!
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Apr 12, 2024 • 47min
[BONUS] Four Ways To Spark Your Relationship
Exciting Announcement: We're having a FLASH SALE on our online course, Spark My Relationship, ! Learn more and enroll here: SparkMyRelationship.com and use the code FLASH24 at checkout! Available until April 13th at midnight!Spark My Relationship is designed to infuse your life and relationship with fresh passion, skills and wisdom. This self-paced journey is perfect for turning up the heat, having some fun together and revolutionizing your intimacy and communication.We’ve collaborated with 15 psychologists and therapists to create a comprehensive relationship course that not only teaches you the skills needed to create a successful and lasting relationship, but the tools to execute it.In this episode, we interview Dr. Debra Campbell about four important ways to keep the spark alive in our relationship. What Dr. Deb teaches us in this episode is just a glimpse of what is covered in the course. 🙂Dr. Deb recommends some helpful and practical exercises to help our relationships improve in general happiness and in the bedroom. Here are just a couple of our favorites from the episode:
Look at your everyday life with your partner, outside of the bedroom, as foreplay.
This allows you to see, from a different perspective, how everything you do and say can help to build up to your next erotic connection with your partner. For example, if you are criticizing your partner during the day, they aren’t going to be easily turned on in the evening. This helps to keep your attention on making your partner feel good and can lead to better sex.
Figure out what turns you on.
By finding out what helps you transition into feeling intimate, you can talk to your partner and plan to make your next connection more pleasurable. This could be taking a bath, playing certain music – you could even make a special playlist, or setting your bedroom up with luxurious sheets and good lighting to help you get in the mood.
In this episode we also discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The importance of eliminating unhelpful old habits that can lead to friction and unhappiness
Healthy and successful communication tools
The biggest struggles couples have when reigniting their sex life, plus tips to spice things up
The importance of mindfulness to improve stress management
Why having shared dreams and desires can be so beneficial for celebrating our “couple culture” now and in the future.
And much more!
Dr Debra Campbell is a author, psychologist, university lecturer and couple therapists based in Melbourne Australia. Dr. Debra has consulted on everything from panic to depression, parenting, grief and relationships. Her book Lovelands has become an Amazon bestseller, combining self-help with the deeply personal memoir of a psychologist.Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples ChallengeDo you want to hear more on this topic? Do you want to learn more ways to spark your relationship? If so, you’re not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love TribeEpisode LinksDr. Debra’s WebsiteEpisode 68: Mindfulness and Emotional IntelligenceLovelands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices