
Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice helps listeners uncover the stuck spots in their relationships by taking expert advice from three licensed professional counselors and boiling it down into digestible tips and tools. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren help people to see that the first step to connecting with somebody else is by connecting with you. They focus their show on understanding and navigating the cycles that couples face, how to practice individuation, and staying in an emotionally regulated state. Just them each week as they come with a jam packed agenda to help you thrive in your relationships.Looking for old episode from "Relatable"? Click here.
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Nov 7, 2024 • 46min
482: The Evolution Of Your Relationship, Social Media And More!
Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus, a relationship expert and sociologist, sheds light on the evolution of relationships and the often-overlooked impact of social media. She discusses the allure of the early romance phases versus the complexities of long-term commitment. Dr. Jenn encourages listeners to evaluate their social media habits, suggesting unfollowing exes to promote emotional well-being. She also offers advice on fostering vulnerability and initiating difficult conversations with partners, equipping listeners with practical tools for deeper connections.

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Oct 30, 2024 • 43min
481: Healing Codependency In Relationships
Dr. Nicholas Jenner, a relationship therapist specializing in codependency, shares vital insights into healing unhealthy relational patterns. He discusses the various traits and types of codependency, exploring how childhood trauma plays a role in these dynamics. Listeners learn the importance of setting boundaries, achieving personal autonomy, and fostering self-love. Dr. Jenner emphasizes connecting with one’s inner child and offers tools for recognizing codependency behaviors, making the journey to healthier relationships feel attainable.

Oct 23, 2024 • 38min
480: Creating Intimacy With Your Partner
In a deep dive into intimacy, Dr. Joy Berkheimer, a sexologist and therapist focused on perfectionism's impact on relationships, shares powerful insights. She discusses overcoming perfectionist blocks to intimacy and offers communication tips for a fulfilling sex life. The conversation addresses feelings of desire, normalizing sexual behaviors, and the importance of exploring intimacy through conscious touch. Listeners leave equipped with actionable strategies to enhance connection and pleasure in their relationships.

Oct 16, 2024 • 47min
479: Sexuality And Beyond
There are many factors that influence how we think, act and feel about sexuality. Understanding these factors can help us improve our relationships with our own sexuality and those we are intimate with. Listen to today's show for valuable insights and actionable tips!In this episode with Danielle Savory we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Understanding what is going on in your brain around sexuality
Deconstructing the 'should' of sex and other cultural misinformation
How to communicate and deal with if you or your partner are "too tired to have sex"
Why you should start planning and scheduling sex with your partner
How to be OK with disappointing your partner or others
Standing up for yourself if you're a people pleaser
And much more!
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Oct 9, 2024 • 45min
478: Learn Nervous System Regulation And Improve Your Life
In this engaging conversation, Karden Rabin, an expert in nervous system regulation and a contributor to the Trauma Research Foundation, delves into the importance of body awareness in personal growth. He shares fascinating insights on transforming your fight or flight response with practical embodiment exercises. Karden emphasizes the need to recognize signs of cumulative stress and offers strategies to break free from overactive defense mechanisms. Discover how approaching healing through the body rather than just the mind can lead to deeper emotional connections.

Oct 2, 2024 • 41min
477: Early Relationship Stages And Getting Your Needs Met
Relationships develop in stages and understanding how we show up in each stage is a valuable tool for relationship success. Understanding our needs and how to get them met is also incredibly important for relationship satisfaction. Listen to today's show for valuable information about both of these topics and much more!In this episode with Thais Gibson we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Why we sometimes betray ourselves because of infatuation with another person
The stages of dating and the subconscious mind
How to understand, communicate and get your needs met in relationships
The importance of meeting your own needs sometimes
The biggest factor for why people cheat
How to understand the area our subconscious mind is running things
And much more!
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Sep 25, 2024 • 44min
476: How To Not Settle In Your Relationship
Penny McGoey, a relationship expert, shares valuable insights on keeping long-term relationships vibrant. She discusses the tendency for people to change without communicating, and how journaling can uncover relationship dynamics. The importance of clear communication about needs is emphasized, alongside nurturing gratitude and creating shared experiences. Penny also reflects on her own positive mindset with her partner, showcasing how curiosity and making plans together can prevent complacency and foster a deeper connection.

Sep 18, 2024 • 46min
475: Dealing With Infertility And Sexual Health Challenges
Gabriela Rosa, an expert in infertility and sexual health challenges, joins the discussion to provide insightful strategies for couples facing these hurdles. They explore the emotional complexities of infertility and how it can affect intimacy. The conversation highlights the importance of clear and healthy communication about family planning. Gabriela emphasizes distinguishing between venting and problem-solving conversations, and the need for empathy to navigate these sensitive topics together. Tune in for valuable advice on strengthening relationships during tough times!

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Sep 11, 2024 • 47min
474: Communication Hacks And Embracing Criticism
Dr. Warren Farrel, a relationship expert and author of 'Rolemate to Soulmate', shares valuable insights on navigating communication and embracing criticism in relationships. He emphasizes how to remain open and non-defensive when receiving feedback. Dedicated communication time is highlighted as vital for intimacy. Farrel also discusses the necessity of effort from both partners and explores the concept of a conflict-free zone to enhance love. Journaling is suggested as a tool for processing emotions before discussions, ensuring healthier conversations.

Sep 5, 2024 • 43min
473: Dealing With Dating Anxiety
Dating can feel overwhelming and challenging for many people. Navigating dating anxiety and fears can be easier when you have the right tools and awareness. Listen to today's show to learn the tools to date better while managing your anxiety and fears. In this episode with Alistair Wolfe we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Recognizing our innate desire for connection while not losing yourself while dating
Early steps for dating success and important questions to ask yourself
Setting realistic expectations for what dating and relationships should look like
What to do if you feel there is a lack of effort when you're dating
The importance of being honest with yourself during the different stages of dating
And much more!
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