AuDHD Flourishing

Coping mechanisms can be a pathologizing term. What's the difference between coping mechanisms and intensity or interests?This episode also touches back to the interview on sobriety with Amy in ep. 92. As well as this note on a positive AA experience from a listener.Resources:Transcript DocEmail Newsletter: Nothing Wrong With UsLike Your Brain community space (Patreon) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Thanks Eric Tivers for interviewing me & allowing me to share the full episode here as well. His show notes:In this episode of ADHD reWired, Eric Tivers is joined by Mattia Maurée, an award-winning composer, poet, and host of the AuDHD Flourishing Podcast. Mattia shares their insights into the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent (ND) individuals, particularly those with ADHD and autism, as they navigate trauma, self-expression, and what they describe as “attention tunnels.”Mattia opens up about their personal journey, discussing the impact of complex PTSD, disordered eating, and their late diagnoses of ADHD and autism. They explain how monotropism—having a narrower field of focus—shapes their experience as a ND person. Through the lens of monotropism, Mattia explores how being stuck in an attention tunnel can make transitioning to different tasks or social situations feel overwhelming and distressing.Eric and Mattia dive deep into the intersections of trauma and neurodivergence, examining how ND brains may be more easily traumatized, especially in environments that fail to meet their unique needs. They discuss the profound impact of ND parents raising ND children and the challenges of navigating systems that don’t support their differences.This conversation also highlights the importance of self-expression in healing and flourishing. Mattia explains how self-expression, rather than achievement, has become central to their definition of success, emphasizing the importance of creating work that resonates emotionally, even if it doesn’t fit the traditional metrics of success.Other topics discussed include:The connection between hyperfocus and monotropism in ADHD and autismHow Mattia balances creativity, self-care, and flourishing as a ND individualThe complexity of navigating trauma in ND familiesThe importance of community and support systems for ND creatives and entrepreneursThis episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the complex interplay of trauma, neurodivergence, and flourishing. Whether you identify as ND or are simply curious about these experiences, this conversation offers valuable insights into the importance of creating space for self-expression, healing, and growth.Resources:Transcript DocEmail Newsletter: Nothing Wrong With UsLike Your Brain community space (Patreon) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this engaging discussion, Amy Knott Parrish, an experienced sobriety advocate with a gifted background, shares her transformative journey. She reflects on the challenges of traditional recovery models, particularly for those with ADHD and autism. Amy emphasizes the need for personalized approaches and critiques conventional support groups that often fall short. She bravely explores her early encounters with alcohol and the complexity of addiction, advocating for deeper understanding and authenticity in the healing process for neurodivergent individuals.

This discussion dives deep into the unique challenges of being both gifted and neurodivergent. It explores the emotional and social complexities faced by these individuals, emphasizing the need for community support. The hosts reflect on early signs of giftedness and the tension between perfectionism and self-acceptance. They advocate for a broader understanding of giftedness beyond academic achievements, inviting listeners to reframe their experiences. The conversations in the community highlight the importance of shared insights in navigating this intricate identity.

Explore the unique intersection of giftedness, autism, and ADHD, revealing the challenges of feeling like an outlier. Dive into how traditional IQ metrics fail to capture the complexities of neurodiversity and the emotional weight of gifted trauma. Discover the struggles of effective communication and the impact of socioeconomic factors on development. Learn about existential challenges in educational settings and the vital role of community for those navigating these experiences. The music analogy highlights the intricate relationship between curiosity and communication in gifted individuals.

Emily Kircher-Morris, host of The Neurodiversity Podcast and author of 'Neurodiversity-Affirming Schools,' offers invaluable insights on supporting neurodivergent learners. She highlights the need for inclusive teaching practices that embrace diverse learning styles. The conversation touches on the challenges of traditional assessments for ADHD students and advocates for engaging, personalized evaluations. Kircher-Morris also discusses the importance of community and self-advocacy, as well as navigating adulthood's complexities for neurodivergent individuals.

Chris Wells, an advocate for Dabrowski's theory of positive disintegration, invites listeners into a transformative discussion on mental health and giftedness. They share their journey of overcoming challenges while exploring how perceived mental illnesses can lead to personal growth. Topics include the complexities of being gifted and neurodivergent, the impact of societal labels, and the importance of embracing one's uniqueness. Wells also emphasizes the power of supportive communities and accurate language in navigating these intricate emotional experiences.

Sheldon Gay shares about giftedness, in particular the intersections of being late-identified as a Black man. He hosts the I Must Be BUG'N podcast (Black, Underrepresented/Unidentified, Gifted and otherwise Neurodivergent).I absolutely love his term of having a sparkly mind! We weave through many topics, including education and melanated & marginalized kids not having their needs met.This is the first of 5-6 upcoming episodes on gifted neurodivergent experiences.p.s. that "or, but anyway" that I didn't finish was that people experience my intensity as seeming like mental illness.Mentioned in episode & connect with Sheldon: Sheldon's websiteI Must Be BUG'N podcastOur Wild Minds (community for Black gifted adults)Dr. Joy Lawson Davis is a friend & mentor whom Sheldon would like to mention & point toward her website for her work with Black/BIPOC gifted advocacy: https://drjoylawsondavis.com/Living With Intensity book (affiliate link)Resources:Transcript DocEmail NewsletterLike Your Brain community space (Patreon) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Delve into the importance of mutual aid and community support in combating poverty. Discover strategies for improving digital privacy and emotional resilience in a chaotic world. Learn about the power of achieving relaxed brain states for enhanced focus and managing chronic pain. Discuss the critical need for skepticism towards media and scientific claims to protect mental health. Plus, uncover the significance of collective action in addressing systemic injustices and fostering emotional well-being.

Dive into the complex world of intrusive thoughts and their connection to ADHD. Discover how monotropic thinking can lead to thought loops and emotional responses. The speaker shares personal revelations on boredom as a spark for creativity, emphasizing the role of dopamine. With humor and honesty, they explore the challenges faced by those on the autism spectrum and highlight the importance of seeking help when intrusive thoughts become distressing. A refreshing take on understanding the mind's quirks!