AuDHD Flourishing 127 Diagnosed After My Kid with Julie M Green
Jan 17, 2026
Julie M. Green, author of *Motherness: A Memoir of Generational Autism, Parenthood, and Radical Acceptance*, discusses her journey as a late-diagnosed autistic parent. She shares insights on navigating early motherhood challenges, advocating for her child's education, and exploring their gender identity together. Julie emphasizes the importance of individualized support over traditional methods, unlearning perfectionism, and the humor found amidst struggles. Her story highlights radical acceptance and the unique experiences of parenting an autistic child.
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Writing To Make Sense Of Diagnosis
- Julie M. Green wrote to process and understand her late autism diagnosis and her child's overlapping but different autism experiences.
- She structured Motherness by comparing and contrasting events across their lives to make sense of generational autism.
Gender Journeys Evolve Over Time
- Gender journeys evolve and look different across generations and individuals, especially within autistic communities.
- Julie emphasizes giving space for exploration because identities often shift over time.
Support Exploration, Don't Rush Decisions
- Do affirm and support trans or gender-exploring youth and avoid forcing premature medical or social decisions on them.
- Recognize that uncertainty is normal and parental support improves mental health outcomes.
