

Healing Honeys (formerly OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball)
Louise Rumball
Healing Honeys is your modern guide to wellness and healing. This is *the* podcast for girls with big dreams who are trying to balance it all and heal along the way. Join Louise Rumball—serial entrepreneur, fiery Sagittarius, type-A overachiever, healing girlie, holistic wellness coach, and relationship expert (someone once called her the "Jesus of modern dating" so you know this is going to be fun).Louise’s healing journey has been anything but calm. Think: savage dating stories, harrowing breakups, 20 cigarettes a day, daddy issues, an anxious attachment style, and even an autoimmune disorder too. Fast forward to today, after spending thousands on healing and therapy, she’s here to guide you, love you, and laugh with you as she shares the tips, tricks, and rituals that saved her—and that ACTUALLY work.With new episodes every Wednesday, expect girl talk, psychology, nervous system insights, and conversations about love, sex, dating, wellness, fitness, a touch of business, and a sprinkle of spirituality too. So, get in, honey—we’re balancing healing, hustling, and life, and trust us, the best is yet to come!
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Jun 19, 2023 • 44min
97 - Why do people cheat (Part 1) ft. Dr Tari Mack
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Is everyone who cheats cold-hearted and narcissistic? In today's episode, Louise and clinical psychologist Dr. Tari Mack sit down to discuss the topic of cheating in relationships. This is the first part of a two-part episode where they delve into the question: why do people cheat?
Join Louise and Tari as they discuss the following topics:
The distinction between macro and micro cheating
Starting conversations about boundaries and cheating
Understanding the behavior of repeat and serial cheaters
Cheating driven by ego and feelings of inadequacy
The importance of open dialogue, establishing boundaries, and seeking professional help in dealing with cheating
Proactive measures to avoid infidelity through radical transparency in relationships
They also explore how witnessing infidelity in childhood can shape individuals, as well as the impact of personality disorders such as NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder).
⭐ Therapy E-Guide 'They Cheated On Me, Should I Stay Or Should I Go: The 10 crucial questions to ask after infidelity ft. Dr Tari Mack, clinical psychologist ⭐
⭐ Therapy E-Guide 'Are They Cheating or Am I Paranoid? How to Unveil the Truth and How To Move Forward ft. Dr Tari Mack, clinical psychologist ⭐
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Jun 12, 2023 • 45min
96 - Jealously + them liking other girls instagram photos
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Here's the 4-part framework to guide you through this confusing situation. In this special solo episode of HOMETRUTH, Louise delves into the common issue of partners liking other people's Instagram photos, unraveling whether it's a them problem or a you problem.
Learn how to navigate this dilemma with confidence and clarity. Louise takes you through the following steps:
Step 1: Character Assessment: Determine if they are a respectful king or queen, a red flagger, or a previous offender by examining their past behavior and intentions behind their Instagram activity.
Step 2: Assess The Activity. Consider the nature of the content being engaged with on Instagram, including its harmlessness, relation to romance, and the individuals involved.
Step 3: Assess The Impact On You. Reflect on the emotions triggered by their behavior, such as feelings of abandonment, rejection, or insecurity. Understanding your own feelings helps differentiate between a you problem and a them problem.
Step 4: Communication is crucial. Louise provides guidance on initiating conversations tailored to the identified categories: respectful king/queen, red flagger, or repeat offender.
Join Louise as we explore this complex issue, gain a deeper understanding of your relationship dynamics, and uncover whether it's a you problem or a them problem.
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💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
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HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
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Jun 9, 2023 • 35min
95 - Should we stop hating on the avoidantly attached
Explore the reasons behind demonizing the avoidantly attached. Learn about their underlying fears and the impact they can have in our lives. Should you date someone with an avoidant attachment style or steer clear? Discover the importance of empathy and compassion in healing attachment injuries. Get guidance on ending relationships with emotionally unavailable individuals. Reflect on attachment styles and join the Open House Premium for bonus episodes and community engagement.

Jun 2, 2023 • 59min
94 - Understanding the Emotionally Unavailable Man
Dr. Tari Mack joins Louise Rumball to unravel the enigma of emotional unavailability. They discuss the meaning of emotional availability, the link between avoidant attachment and emotional unavailability, and the impact of childhood experiences on emotional expression. They also explore common fears associated with emotional unavailability and signs that may indicate one's own emotional unavailability.

May 29, 2023 • 52min
93 - Nutrition and mental health ft. Kimberley Wilson
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Can the food we eat make you a healthier, less toxic individual? (+ help you live longer)? Do prisoners commit crimes because of what they eat? Is the food we are eating fuelling a mental health crisis?
In today’s episode, Louise is joined by Kimberley Wilson, chartered psychologist and author of 'Unprocessed: How The Food We Eat is Fuelling our Mental Health Crisis' . Prepare to be amazed by the intricate web of connections between nutrition, behavior, and mental health. As Louise and Kimberley navigate through the diverse topics discussed, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the critical role that food plays in shaping our well-being. The pair discuss:
The impact of nutritional deficiencies in early life
The connection between prisoners, aggression, and mineral and vitamin deficiencies
The limited genetic influence on Alzheimer's disease risk
The early onset of Alzheimer's and its hidden progression
Mexico's obesity rates surpassing the United States and the link to Coca Cola
The importance of incorporating more beans into our diet (yes, really)
Louise also shares her own personal experience around how being a ‘bad’ vegan led her to getting her gut tested using an Organic Acid Test at a biohacking clinic in London. It helped her understand how the food she was eating wasn’t providing her with the right building blocks to create dopamine. Cue: depression.
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https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/
https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_
https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/
💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up
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May 25, 2023 • 39min
92 - ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT: How to heal (Pt. 4)
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100,000 people have streamed our anxious attachment episodes! To celebrate the one year mark, we bring you a magic moment, asking if an anxious attachment just a superpower to sniff out danger? In this magic moment, join Louise & Sarah Murphy, the ultimate biology of trauma expert, as she unravels the mysteries of why our anxious attachment style causes us so much grief.
The pair explore:
The origins of anxious attachment styles and their wild adventures in babyhood.
Neuroception: The super skill of scanning for danger that we're all born with.
How caregivers hold the keys to shaping our nervous system and why they should be crowned the rulers of neurobiology
The consequences of even the tiniest disruptions in caregiver responsiveness.
The rollercoaster of nervous system dysregulation: Overreacting and underreacting
The link between maternal stress levels during pregnancy and our stress hormone saga.
The concept of self-soothing
We also chat tips and tricks to help you start to understand how to unpick and unravel your anxious attachment style at the biological level.
Louise also shares her experience of how her ex reaching out to her after two years impacted her on a VERY interesting biochemical level.
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ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT DOWNLOADS
⇢The Ultimate Guide - How to navigate & heal your anxious attachment style when dating - A 26 page PDF guide created by clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack & Louise Rumball - linked HERE
⇢The Ultimate Script - How to communicate your anxious attachment style when dating - a 14 Page Script PDF - linked HERE
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This episode is sponsored by Lilybod. To redeem your 40% off click here, using code ⭐ OPENHOUSE40 ⭐ at check out:
AU: https://lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE
UK: https://uk.lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE
Louise selects:
Sam Shelf Bra - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/lilybod-sam-shelf-bra-top-tarmac-black-lc95-tb
Sam Shelf Shorts - https://uk.lilybod.com/products/lilybod-sam-shelf-short-tarmac-black-ls24-tb?_pos=4&_sid=65a3ab4cc&_ss=r
Astrid Sports Bra - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-sports-bra-astrid-tarmac-black?_pos=1&_sid=f23f65ea9&_ss=r
Harmony Ribbed Tank - https://lilybod.com/products/core-collection-top-harmony-ribbed-tank-white?_pos=2&_psq=ribbed%20tank%20white&_ss=e&_v=1.0
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💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
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May 22, 2023 • 43min
91 - Mommy Issues + the connection to body issues
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Did your mom shape your eating habits and relationship with yourself? Today, we unveil her powerful influence on YOU. Join us for Part 2 as we delve into the forbidden realms of the Mother Wound. Louise & Stephanie explore the drivers behind the controlling mother, the suppressed mother, enmeshment, body image, and beyond. They also get into the concepts of:
Unmasking Mom's hidden control tactics
When your identity can threaten your Mom
Navigating enmeshment between Mother and Daughter
How we can get caught in the crossfire of our parent's marriage
How Mom's influence shapes our eating habits
Unveiling the roots of emotional eating
Why eating is often a bid for connection
And more.
Louise also shares a funny story about a Mom becoming the third part in her friend’s relationship, cue: a throuple.
Other recommended listening episodes to supplement exploring the Mother Wound:
Episode 89 - Mother Wound Pt. 1 - The Toxic, Attacking or ‘Tidy’ Mom
Stream the full OPENHOUSE catalog here on Spotify and here on Apple Podcasts.
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40% OFF YOUR HEALING GIRL OUTFIT WITH LILYBOD
This episode is sponsored by Lilybod. To redeem your 40% off click here, using code ⭐ OPENHOUSE40 ⭐ at check out:
AU: https://lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE
UK: https://uk.lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE
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🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍
https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys
https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/
https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_
https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/
💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up
✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 15, 2023 • 1h 2min
90 - Healing Loneliness: The 3 Relationships That Matter Most
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Join Louise Rumball on another highly requested, always entertaining solo episode as she provides you with some quality time. In her well-known "voice notes from Lu" style episodes, she shares her personal journey and reveals what has been happening in the past few months since her return to Tulum with her boyfriend. Take a break from your therapy journey and have some fun as Louise explores the following topics:
The unfiltered reality of loneliness and her own personal experience with it (and why it's not commonly discussed)
The three essential types of relationships we all need, and the crucial missing piece that often goes unnoticed
A sneak peek into Louise's exciting summer plans
AND
The burning question: Will Louise's boyfriend relocate to Europe, or is their future uncertain?
40% OFF YOUR HEALING GIRL OUTFIT WITH LILYBOD
This episode is sponsored by Lilybod. To redeem your 40% off click here, using code ⭐ OPENHOUSE40 ⭐ at check out:
AU: https://lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE
UK: https://uk.lilybod.com/discount/OPENHOUSE
Louise selects:
Baseline Legging - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-leggings-baseline-black?_pos=1&_sid=aba8df7b0&_ss=r
Sam Shelf Bra - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/lilybod-sam-shelf-bra-top-tarmac-black-lc95-tb
Astrid Sports Bra - https://lilybod.com/products/c12-sports-bra-astrid-tarmac-black?_pos=1&_sid=f23f65ea9&_ss=r
Harmony Ribbed Tank - https://lilybod.com/products/core-collection-top-harmony-ribbed-tank-white?_pos=2&_psq=ribbed%20tank%20white&_ss=e&_v=1.0
Layla Sweater - https://lilybod.com/collections/tops/products/c14-tops-jackets-layla-obsidian-gray
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🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍
https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys
https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/
https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_
https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/
💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up
✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 8, 2023 • 40min
89 - Mommy Issues / The Mother Wound (Part. 1) ft. Stephanie Therapy
Louise and Stephanie discuss the mother wound, exploring its deep roots through generations and how it manifests as toxic, critical, or OCD mothers. They also touch on the connection between identity and motherhood, addressing the topics of forgiveness and when it is the right route of action. The significance of the mother wound is emphasized in shaping self-esteem, body image, and relationships, highlighting the need to address toxic parent relationships. This often overlooked topic explores its impact on self-connection and relationships with others, and how it is intimately connected to the father wound.

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Apr 30, 2023 • 53min
88 - Why healthy relationships feel boring
Sarah Murphy, biology of trauma expert, discusses the biology of attraction, why we attract the same type of people, and why stable relationships can feel boring. They also explore the concept of the 'ick' in relationships, the connection between the nervous system and relationships, and the importance of therapy and supplements for mental health.