Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled
JLML Press
In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting approach, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics.Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love.Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse and JanetLansbury. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or wherever you buy your books.Featured in The New Yorker, recommended 'Best Parenting Podcast' by The Washington Post, The New York Times, USA Today, The Cut, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more.Please note: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The views and advice presented on this podcast by Janet Lansbury and her guests are based on their training and experience. Opinions are offered in good faith but do not constitute professional, psychiatric, or medical advice, neither are they intended to be. You do not have to use this information, and it should not be substituted for qualified medical expertise.Copyright JLML Press (2025) All Rights Reserved
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Jul 15, 2020 • 42min
The Power of Bias and How to Disrupt It in Our Children (with Dr. Jennifer Eberhardt)
Dr. Jennifer Eberhardt, a Stanford professor and MacArthur Fellow, dives into the intricacies of racial bias and its effects on children. She explains how biases form and their impact on schools and justice systems. As a mother, she shares personal insights on helping kids navigate societal perceptions of race. The discussion highlights the need for open conversations about bias and offers practical strategies for parents. Jennifer emphasizes that early experiences shape children's views, making parental guidance essential in fostering equity.
Jul 1, 2020 • 18min
How to Make No Mean No
In this engaging conversation, parenting expert Janet offers invaluable insights for frustrated parents grappling with their child's relentless requests. She emphasizes the importance of establishing firm boundaries while recognizing children's emotional needs. Janet discusses how allowing kids to express disappointment can be a crucial part of their growth. By sharing personal anecdotes and strategies, she guides parents toward fostering healthy dynamics where assertiveness meets empathy.
Jun 24, 2020 • 22min
It's Not Regression
A parent describes the stress her family has been experiencing over the past several months and believes her 4.5 year old son has been particularly affected. “He was in Montessori and becoming very independent. Little by little, we’ve seen a huge regression in his behavior.” She describes a number of issues where she sees her son regressing, including hitting, kicking and throwing things; disrespecting her body with unwanted touching; and an unwillingness to wipe himself after using the toilet. This last issue recently caused a physical altercation which this mom truly regrets. She wants to know how to encourage her son’s developing independence “without resorting to negative and hurtful parenting tactics.” Janet offers her advice.For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ.Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble and Apple Books.Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com).Our Sponsors:* Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jun 10, 2020 • 34min
Raising Anti-Racist Children - A Holistic Approach (with Kristen Coggins)
Kristen Coggins, a respiratory therapist and positive discipline educator, shares her firsthand insights on empowering parents to raise anti-racist children. The conversation highlights the importance of self-reflection and compassion for fostering empathy. Kristen emphasizes the role of open dialogues about race within families and modeling positive values. She also discusses balancing personal grief with parenting, showcasing the necessity of self-care. Additionally, the duo explores children’s learning processes for creating inclusive environments.
Jun 2, 2020 • 30min
How Self-Care and Boundaries Work Together
Janet, a consultant specializing in parental guidance, addresses the challenges faced by parents working from home. She shares insights on establishing structured routines and the importance of self-care amidst chaos. Janet discusses creating meaningful moments with children, balancing personal time with parenting duties, and the necessity of setting boundaries. She emphasizes that prioritizing self-care not only benefits parents but also enhances family well-being, encouraging open communication and clarity in navigating parenting dilemmas.
May 19, 2020 • 21min
Is It Too Late to Set Limits with My Strong-Willed Child?
This discussion dives into the challenges of setting boundaries with strong-willed children. A mother shares her struggles with her explosive four-year-old son, revealing her hesitation in enforcing limits early on. The conversation offers valuable tools for communication and discipline. It highlights the balance between supporting emotional expression and establishing necessary boundaries. Parents are reminded of the importance of self-care amidst the complexities of parenting strong-willed kids.
May 12, 2020 • 22min
Stop Worrying About Your Preschooler's Education (with Teacher Tom)
Tom Hobson, widely known as Teacher Tom, is an early childhood educator famous for promoting the joy of organic learning outside traditional classrooms. He discusses the significance of trusting children’s innate abilities and prioritizing quality family time over conventional educational pressures. Tom emphasizes the art of observing children, fostering self-directed exploration, and nurturing social skills through community interactions. He highlights the joy children experience during challenging moments and the value of real-world learning, encouraging parents to engage in everyday activities with their kids.
Apr 28, 2020 • 44min
Raising Emotional Intelligence and Resilience for a Meaningful Life (with Susan David)
In this enlightening discussion, psychologist Susan David, a renowned expert on emotional intelligence, shares insights on helping children navigate their emotions. She emphasizes that discomfort is essential for a meaningful life, guiding parents to instill resilience and confidence in their kids. Susan suggests fostering emotional agility by allowing children to feel and express a full range of emotions. She also touches on parental guilt and the vital need for compassionate communication, promoting healthier family dynamics through emotional awareness.
Apr 20, 2020 • 20min
5 Ways Parents Can Make Their Lives Easier Right Now
Janet Lansbury, an expert in parenting and child development, shares insightful strategies to ease the daily pressures of caregiving. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-care and adjusting expectations in a social media-driven world. By empowering children to take responsibility for their schoolwork and play, parents can foster independence. Janet also discusses how to embrace children's emotions while setting necessary boundaries, promoting resilience in a nurturing environment. Her practical tips aim to help parents navigate their challenges with confidence and grace.
Apr 7, 2020 • 18min
Repeating Yourself Won't Help (What to Do Instead)
A parent in lockdown struggles with her 3-year-old's defiant behavior, feeling exhausted and guilty. Janet advises on effective communication and understanding children's stress responses. Exploring the 'downstairs brain' concept in children, offering tips on supportive parenting and reducing impulsive behavior.
