In response to a parent’s question about her 4-year-old’s habit of appropriating toys and clothing that don’t belong to her, Janet illuminates the underlying causes for some other troubling -- but common -- childhood behaviors. This mom writes that she has tried to explain to her daughter why the behavior is wrong and has been hoping that she will outgrow it, but it has only gotten worse. “I know it’s not about the things,” she writes. “She rarely cares about the thing once she’s brought it home.” This mom believes there must be underlying feelings motivating the behavior, but she doesn’t know what they are, so she’s hoping Janet can offer some insight.For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ.Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon.Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com).Our Sponsors:* Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The podcast discusses a parent struggling to acknowledge her child's big feelings, seeking concrete examples. Janet provides insights on supporting children's emotional expressions and the importance of validating their feelings. The episode also mentions resources like audiobooks for children and parenting encouragement.

Family counselor Susan Stiffelman and best-selling parenting author Maggie Dent join Janet to discuss addressing children's troubling behaviors, understanding their deeper messages, accepting their uniqueness, navigating rejection and conflict resolution, and exploring the challenges and rewards of raising children.

A parent seeks advice on their 4-year-old's fixation with dark and negative scenarios, wondering if it's normal exploration. Janet Lansbury discusses how to navigate a child's interest in morbid topics and violent pretend play, emphasizing parental support and setting boundaries.

Dr. Mona Delahooke, a pediatric psychologist, discusses children's behaviors as signals of underlying issues. She emphasizes the importance of compassion and understanding in addressing challenging behaviors. The podcast explores brain science and empathy in parenting, highlighting the impact of emotional states on behavior.

The podcast delves into the concept of self-directed learning in children through play, emphasizing the importance of observing their interests and innate abilities. It challenges traditional teaching methods and promotes building a strong foundation for lifelong learning through trust and personalized discovery.

The podcast explores challenges parents face when kids misbehave in situations where physical intervention is limited. Strategies include prevention, empathy, and creating a safe emotional environment. Advice is given on handling behavior when hands are full, and promoting helpful parenting resources like books and exclusive audio series.

A parent wonders if the praise her children are receiving is unproductive and could make them feel pressured to "meet the expectations of whatever a compliment implies.” While this mom acknowledges she’s dealing in subtleties, she’s wondering if Janet has any insights.For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ.Paperbacks and e-books are available at Amazon.Also, Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com).Our Sponsors:* Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The podcast explores managing an energetic child's erratic behavior, offering strategies for calming him down and understanding his emotional needs. It emphasizes creating a supportive environment for children to express their emotions freely and advocates for empathizing with their sensitivities to address disruptive behavior.

The podcast discusses how parents can balance allowing children independence in urban environments while still providing support. It emphasizes the importance of guiding children through social struggles and teaching them etiquette with shared equipment. Fostering natural social interactions for children's growth is highlighted, with practical advice and resources offered.