Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

My Child Says No to Everything

Mar 3, 2021
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INSIGHT

Understanding "No"

  • The word "no" is powerful for children because they sense its power when parents use it to stop them.
  • As toddlers, they use "no" to assert autonomy, a positive expression of self.
INSIGHT

"No" as Overwhelm

  • Children, especially sensitive ones, can feel overwhelmed by life changes like a new sibling or a parent's illness.
  • Their "no" expresses emotional struggles and difficulty with self-regulation, not defiance.
ADVICE

Accepting the "No"

  • Accept and acknowledge the child's "no" as an emotional response rather than a directive.
  • This helps the child feel understood, even in unsettling situations like school transitions.
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