Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

A single mother grapples with her strong-willed toddler's tantrums and seeks effective strategies for calmer mornings. The conversation highlights the emotional toll of meltdowns and the importance of self-acceptance for parents. With insights into navigating public outbursts, the discussion emphasizes the need for understanding and connection between parent and child. The speakers share personal experiences and advice on fostering emotional security while encouraging independence, ultimately advocating for a relaxed parenting style.

Sibling rivalry gets a fresh perspective as a parent grapples with her son's obsessive jealousy towards his younger sister. The discussion dives into emotional acceptance and the importance of acknowledging feelings to improve sibling dynamics. Strategies empower parents to foster open communication, allowing children to express their emotions safely. By navigating these complex feelings, families can cultivate healthier relationships and reduce conflict, making way for love amidst the chaos.

Loryn Brantz is an Emmy-winning author, illustrator, and mom of two, who once built puppets for Sesame Street. Loryn joined Janet on a previous episode of "Unruffled" to talk about parenting a child with disabilities, sharing the joys and challenges of her journey with honesty and her signature warmth and wit. Her new book "Poems of Parenting" is a funny, touching, and totally relatable collection about her ups and downs raising kids, the awkward and sometimes difficult moments she's come to cherish, and ultimately how she's come to embrace her role as a parent. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse.com.Please support our sponsors.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Join Dr. William Stixrud, a clinical neuropsychologist and co-author of 'The Self-Driven Child', as he shares insights from his extensive experience in child development. He emphasizes the importance of giving children autonomy to foster self-confidence and intrinsic motivation. The conversation highlights how parents can be a 'non-anxious presence' to help kids navigate their emotions and build resilience. Stixrud discusses balancing support and independence, letting children pursue their passions, and the transformative power of trusting their decisions.

Discover effective strategies for respectful discipline that transforms parenting challenges into successes. Personal anecdotes highlight triumphs over disobedience, tantrums, and bedtime struggles. Learn how setting boundaries nurtures self-care and fosters family respect. Emphasizing emotional acknowledgement during outbursts can lead to stronger connections. Parents share their journeys of reframing discipline as guidance, enhancing their relationships and emotional resilience. Experience the uplifting shift from frustration to confidence in parenting!

The podcast dives into the common challenge of childhood screaming, especially when it becomes a default reaction. A parent shares her struggle with her daughter’s excessive screaming, which is tied to her own upbringing. Emotional responses from both child and parent are explored, providing insights on staying calm. Practical strategies are offered to help manage these behaviors effectively, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying triggers. It's a relatable journey into navigating the ups and downs of parenting.

Dr. Tina Payne Bryson, an expert in child development and co-author of bestsellers like The Whole Brain Child, delves into the transformative power of play in parenting. She emphasizes how engaging in child-led play fosters emotional regulation, self-confidence, and social skills. During their discussion, they share practical strategies for guiding children's play without taking control and address how play can help manage aggressive behaviors in young kids. Listeners gain insights on integrating meaningful play into daily routines to strengthen bonds and emotional understanding.

Separation anxiety can be tough for both kids and parents. One mom feels overwhelmed by her four-year-old's extreme demands for closeness, while another worries about her two-year-old's tears when she leaves. The discussion revolves around finding the balance between comforting kids and fostering their independence. Janet offers insights on compassionate communication and setting healthy boundaries, aiming to help parents nurture their children's emotional growth and resilience during transitions.

Enrichment classes, lessons, sports, Sunday school, and community events like Library Story Time can benefit our kids in many ways, but what do we do if our kids won't cooperate or participate? What if they seem okay with it at first, but then later want to quit? The questions raised by a parent's letter in this podcast are common ones: If our child is clearly distressed by an activity or outright rejecting it—even if they agreed to it to begin with—is it okay to let them stop? Will quitting set a negative precedent? What if we believe the activity is teaching important skills? Whose decision is it? Janet shares her perspective on the subject and offers guidelines for helping parents navigate this puzzling and often frustrating conundrum.Learn more about Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" at: NoBadKidsCourse.com.Please support our sponsors and take advantage of their special offers.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Janet is joined by inner child healing expert Lavinia Brown, whose previous appearance on "Unruffled" prompted a listener to write in to describe how she's struggled to control her angry and physically punitive responses to her three-year-old son's behavior. Raised in an authoritarian household in which she was spanked whenever she disobeyed, this mom has bravely started making changes. "I'm now convinced that spanking should never be an option," she writes. "I'm also seeing that all of these terrible parenting techniques are not working with my son. If anything, he has learned that it is acceptable to vent his frustrations by trying to hit me, kick me or scratch me." She desperately hopes she can heal her relationship with her son, who lately she noticed flinching in fear, but she worries, "Is it too late?" She also wonders how to get her husband on the same page. He tries to respect her choices but still believes that spanking can be effective. Lavinia and Janet offer their perspectives, suggestions, hope, and assurance that it's never too late for this parent or any parent to make positive, lasting changes in their relationships with their children.  Learn more about Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" at: NoBadKidsCourse.com.Please support our sponsors and take advantage of their special offers.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.