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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

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Feb 18, 2025 • 27min

Mean Kids

A mother struggles with her 4-year-old son's sudden unkind behavior, leaving her heartbroken and confused. The impact of a new sibling and possible bullying at school are explored as key influences. Practical strategies are discussed to navigate these challenges, emphasizing the importance of emotional safety and nurturing relationships. The conversation highlights the critical role of adult supervision in peer interactions and the need for authentic emotional connections to support children's development.
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Feb 11, 2025 • 39min

The Joy in Letting Babies Move Freely (with Elsa Chahin)

Elsa Chahin, President/CEO of Pikler/Loczy USA, is dedicated to promoting respectful relationships between children and adults, following the vision of Dr. Emmi Pikler. She shares the transformative benefits of allowing babies to develop motor skills naturally, fostering physical competence and emotional health. Elsa and Janet discuss how trusting this process can ease parenting, emphasizing the importance of 'yes spaces' for exploration. They also highlight the role of tummy time in self-awareness and encourage parents to learn directly from their child's unique journey.
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Feb 4, 2025 • 25min

Too Needy, Too Stubborn, Too Emotional, Too Bossy, Too...

Parents often worry that their children's traits, like sensitivity or bossiness, are negative. Instead, these behaviors can be seen as strengths that foster emotional depth and social skills. Embracing a child's emotional expressions promotes healthier peer relationships and provides crucial social learning opportunities. This discussion emphasizes the importance of viewing these traits with an open mind, enhancing parent-child connections and trust in the child's growth journey.
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Jan 28, 2025 • 27min

I Don't Like My Kids, and That Breaks My Heart (A Parent Consultation)

A parent grapples with overwhelming feelings of irritation and guilt while loving her kids. The discussion emphasizes the crucial role of boundaries, suggesting that sometimes a softer approach can yield better results. Funny anecdotes about chaotic mornings highlight the challenges of sibling rivalry. Strategies for maintaining composure amidst disruptions are shared, advocating for light-heartedness in tough moments. Ultimately, the conversation encourages self-forgiveness and understanding, paving the way for a more harmonious family dynamic.
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Jan 21, 2025 • 30min

If Consequences Aren't Working, Try This Instead

A concerned dad feels overwhelmed as his four-year-old uses ultimatums in response to attempted boundaries. He struggles with guilt and fears damaging the trusting bond he has with his kids. Janet emphasizes the importance of understanding emotions and fostering open communication. Practical strategies for setting boundaries without escalating conflict are discussed, along with the value of allowing children to experience their feelings. Tips for promoting healthier family living post-holidays also add a refreshing twist.
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Jan 14, 2025 • 27min

Resolving Our Kids' Annoying Behaviors

Parents share their struggles with kids' annoying behaviors, from constant yelling to the physical antics of toddlers. Insights on gaining perspective reveal how empathy and emotional well-being can shift dynamics. The challenges of sibling relationships and boundary-setting are examined, especially when a new child enters the family. Humor is encouraged to alleviate disruptive behaviors and foster connection. Janet offers a fresh approach, empowering parents to regain confidence and effectively address these common issues.
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Jan 7, 2025 • 24min

Crying, Screaming, Resisting, Sadness - Your Best Responses to Kids' Emotions

Explore the journey of recognizing small victories in parenting that build confidence and growth. Hear heartfelt stories on tackling children's emotional outbursts with compassion and understanding. Discover the importance of co-regulation and reframing parental roles to support emotional development. Learn how acknowledging feelings fosters deeper connections and safe spaces for open expression. Reflecting on emotional complexities can lead to rewarding moments that strengthen bonds between parents and children.
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11 snips
Dec 31, 2024 • 20min

Be Careful What You Teach - It Might Interfere With What They Are Learning

Explore effective strategies for teaching the alphabet while respecting children's emotional readiness. Discover how play enhances self-directed exploration and nurtures innate interests. Learn the value of self-discovery and problem-solving in fostering independence. Understand the importance of creating a trust-filled environment for meaningful learning experiences. Embrace authenticity in parenting to build trust and promote relaxed interactions, empowering both parents and children.
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7 snips
Dec 24, 2024 • 20min

Dear Parents: You Are Not Failing

A mother grapples with her twins' intense emotions, leading her to feel overwhelmed and in tears. The discussion delves into the complexities of navigating emotional outbursts while maintaining family harmony. It highlights the significance of imaginative play in child development, fostering problem-solving skills. Insights on managing stress during challenging transitions, especially with learning differences, empower parents to approach their children's behaviors with understanding and resilience. Embracing these challenges can lead to healthier family dynamics.
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Dec 17, 2024 • 35min

Embrace the Privilege of Parenthood (With Neha Ruch)

Neha Ruch, a passionate writer and speaker on parenting, women, work, and identity, is the founder of Mother Untitled, a community for parents exploring career breaks. In this discussion, she redefines parenthood as a meaningful pause, encouraging parents to embrace personal growth. Neha shares the significance of maintaining identity while navigating parenting challenges and highlights the importance of support networks. Her insights emphasize that nurturing oneself can enhance family dynamics, ultimately leading to a more fulfilled parenting experience.

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