Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled Validating Feelings Isn't Working
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Jul 29, 2025 Discover the power of acknowledging, rather than just validating, children's feelings. This approach can create a sense of safety and help children express pent-up emotions. The discussion dives into why this method might be frustrating for some parents. Insights on embracing imperfection in parenting emphasize self-compassion and intentionality. Learn how better communication can enhance your relationship with your child during emotional moments.
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Acknowledge, Don't Validate Feelings
- Acknowledging rather than validating child's feelings is more doable for parents.
- We acknowledge feelings without judging their validity or jumping to validate them.
Intention Makes Acknowledgment Work
- Use acknowledging feelings to make parenting easier, not as a moral obligation.
- The intention behind acknowledgment matters more than the words used.
Avoid Labeling Emotions
- Keep acknowledgement specific to facts you know, avoid labeling emotions.
- Avoid telling children how they feel; instead, reflect observable specifics or use questions.
