I Have ADHD Podcast

Specializing in healing from attachment wounds and trauma, Danica Harris, Ph.D, SEP discusses complex trauma, attunement, somatic experiencing, and identifying triggers. The speakers also explore the disconnect between brain and body in individuals with ADHD and complex trauma, as well as the importance of creating safe spaces for adults with ADHD and recognition of trauma responses in relationships.

Sue Peters shares her journey of being diagnosed with ADHD in her mid-twenties and the challenges she faced with ignorant professionals. The podcast explores the connection between trauma, emotional wounds, and physical health. Sue emphasizes the importance of therapy and coaching sensitive to ADHD. The discussion also delves into dealing with chronic pain, finding resilience, and the power of community support.

Christine Hargrove, a PhD candidate specializing in ADHD and finances, discusses the intersection of ADHD and financial therapy. They explore the impact of ADHD on self-efficacy and making grounded financial decisions. The importance of recognizing the connection between financial and overall wellbeing is emphasized. Additionally, they touch on organizational plans for individuals with ADHD and the role of ADHD in couples and finances.

Michael Johnson, an ADHD coach, shares his journey with ADHD, emotional regulation, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of emotional regulation, the impact of self-judgment, and self-soothing in unhealthy ways. They explore the significance of emotional safety in relationships and becoming a safe person. The podcast also emphasizes the importance of self-care and choosing an ADHD-friendly coaching program. The chapter on the power of emotions in coaching highlights the role of emotions in achieving success.

Maggie Patterson, vocal advocate for humane business practices, talks about self-help, MLMs, scammy online business practices, and Steven Hassan's BITE model of culty practices. They discuss how to avoid getting scammed and how to be ethical. They also explore toxic masculinity in leadership and the issue of payment plans in the industry. The podcast emphasizes the importance of trust and transparency in selling and the need for regulations and standards in the coaching industry.

Guest expert Kimberley Quinlan, licensed marriage and family therapist, specializes in anxiety, OCD and related disorders. They discuss the overlap between OCD and ADHD, the challenges of differentiating between the two, and the importance of validation and reassurance. The podcast covers topics such as the overlap between OCD, ADHD, anxiety, depression, and eating disorders, treatment for OCD, differences between normal behaviors and OCD compulsions, treating OCD in adults, treatment duration for adult patients with OCD, and the accessibility of OCD treatment.

This episode is a rare treat as I chat with a current FOCUSED client of mine, Jason Rowlett, @JDouglasRowlett who shares his experience of identifying and leaving a toxic work environment.I decided to do an episode with Jason on this topic as I watched him navigate this situation in real-time and recognized this as something that likely happens to many adults with ADHD.While ADHD can certainly manifest in our work performance and social behavior, we shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells at all times, worried about inconveniencing or frustrating our colleagues. Sometimes our work environments are just bad, and it has nothing to do with us and nothing to do with ADHD. But we often get accustomed to accepting blame and believing we’re the problem if we had a history of being treated this way as children or young people with ADHD. This can cloud our judgment and cause us to stay in toxic situations longer than we should.Jason and I discuss in depth what toxic workplaces look and feel like. Are you receiving misassigned blame and spending significant time analyzing situations to understand where things went wrong and why you were treated negatively? Are you receiving constructive criticism or personal put-downs?Have a listen, share with a friend, and if you’d like to see what Jason’s up to now, you can find his podcast and other content HERE.

Minaa B. is a licensed social worker, writer, and author of Owning Our Struggles. She is also the founder of Minaa B. Consulting, a mental health consulting practice that helps organizations develop psychological safety and promote mental health inclusivity. In this heartfelt episode, Kristen and Minaa discuss:Psychological safety in the workplaceBullyingSystematic traumas that we face daily The nuance of boundaries in relationshipsRecognizing when you ARE the problemHealing through communityMinaa is an expert in her field, serving on the Mental Health Advisory Committee for Wondermind, a mental fitness company co-founded by Selena Gomez. She has been featured in various media outlets, such as Red Table Talk, Peace of Mind With Taraji, BBC, and Essence. Minaa resides in New York City, and you can learn more about her by visiting www.minaab.com.Minaa's book Owning Our Struggles can be Pre-Ordered HERE.

My regular listeners will know that I’ve been talking about my ADHD coaching certification program for the past couple of weeks. But this episode was so much fun because I had the pleasure of interviewing four of my trained coaches from the last term.The roll call includes:Jacoba Lilius - a professor of organizational psychology that plans to pair coaching with academia. Find Jacoba on LinkedIn.Laura Gaynon - a professional musician and teacher with strong intuition and a holistic approach to coaching others to honor who they are. You can find Laura on Instagram.Emily Weinberg - a former teacher turned stay-at-home mom that greatly benefitted from FOCUSED coaching and realized that she had the skills and the time to commit to a new career. Find Emily at ADHDwithemily.comSteev Hodgson - is a software sales professional who was diagnosed with ADHD later in life and is now passionate about helping others. Find Steev at damnhealthydose.com. One thing that all of these new coaches have in common is being diagnosed with ADHD later in life. After receiving support through my adult group coaching program FOCUSED, they answered the call to become coaches themselves and successfully passed my certification training!If you’re considering applying to this program, or are considering joining FOCUSED, this is a great episode to listen to in order to get a clear and honest picture of what both experiences are really like.

Everything and everyone has a limited capacity.The world may try to tell us how much we should be able to handle and accomplish throughout the day. But, friend, no one can determine that except you.If you are more concerned about maintaining your phone’s battery charge than your own, it’s time to focus on accepting the limits of your capacity.If you want to avoid burnout and feel a sense of balanced accomplishment everyday, you won’t get there by pushing yourself to do more. In this week’s episode, I share how under-parenting could have caused those of us with ADHD to ignore our limitations. You’ll learn about the chronic pain “spoon theory” and how to know where to draw the line for yourself. Your capacity level is as unique as your fingerprint, and the sooner we can learn about it, the sooner we can manage our own expectations and channel our limited energy to where it’s needed the most.If you’re a member of my group coaching program FOCUSED and are feeling drawn to become a coach like me to help others, check out and apply to my FOCUSED ADHD Coach Certification training.Come hang out with my on Instagram HERE.