

I Have ADHD Podcast
Kristen Carder
The I Have ADHD Podcast is a clear, concise, and FUN podcast for adults with ADHD. Listen to learn about how ADHD impacts every area of your life from the boardroom to the bedroom...and how you can begin to overcome your symptoms by accepting who you are, flaws and all. Host Kristen Carder is a dually certified coach who has supported thousands of of people with ADHD worldwide. Kristen's extensive experience working with ADHDers began in 2012, and she now leads a global community of adults with ADHD in her coaching program, FOCUSED. ****OBVIOUSLY the content in this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for medical advice. Kristen Carder is not a medical professional.
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Sep 12, 2023 • 52min
228 How to Create a Picture & Take Charge of Your Life
Discover how to be proactive and make purposeful decisions in order to move forward with your dreams and goals. Learn how to create a vision, make a plan, drop the drama around timeframes, and set priorities. Explore strategies for staying determined and maintaining independence. Find out the importance of having a clear vision for your day and month, and how to make your vision enjoyable. Check out the host's coaching program called Focused for more support.

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Sep 7, 2023 • 1h 48min
Maybe I'm Not the Problem with Complex Trauma Expert Danica Harris, Ph.D, SEP
Specializing in healing from attachment wounds and trauma, Danica Harris, Ph.D, SEP discusses complex trauma, attunement, somatic experiencing, and identifying triggers. The speakers also explore the disconnect between brain and body in individuals with ADHD and complex trauma, as well as the importance of creating safe spaces for adults with ADHD and recognition of trauma responses in relationships.

Sep 5, 2023 • 55min
227 Dealing With ADHD and Chronic Pain with FOCUSED Member Sue Pieters
Sue Peters shares her journey of being diagnosed with ADHD in her mid-twenties and the challenges she faced with ignorant professionals. The podcast explores the connection between trauma, emotional wounds, and physical health. Sue emphasizes the importance of therapy and coaching sensitive to ADHD. The discussion also delves into dealing with chronic pain, finding resilience, and the power of community support.

Aug 29, 2023 • 54min
226 What Do Finances, Relationships, and ADHD Have in Common? with Financial Therapist Christine Hargrove
Christine Hargrove, a PhD candidate specializing in ADHD and finances, discusses the intersection of ADHD and financial therapy. They explore the impact of ADHD on self-efficacy and making grounded financial decisions. The importance of recognizing the connection between financial and overall wellbeing is emphasized. Additionally, they touch on organizational plans for individuals with ADHD and the role of ADHD in couples and finances.

Aug 22, 2023 • 54min
225 FOCUSED Member Chat: Emotional Regulation with Michael Johnson
Michael Johnson, an ADHD coach, shares his journey with ADHD, emotional regulation, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of emotional regulation, the impact of self-judgment, and self-soothing in unhealthy ways. They explore the significance of emotional safety in relationships and becoming a safe person. The podcast also emphasizes the importance of self-care and choosing an ADHD-friendly coaching program. The chapter on the power of emotions in coaching highlights the role of emotions in achieving success.

Aug 17, 2023 • 1h 46min
Maybe I'm Not the Problem: Maggie Patterson @bsfreebusiness
Maggie Patterson, vocal advocate for humane business practices, talks about self-help, MLMs, scammy online business practices, and Steven Hassan's BITE model of culty practices. They discuss how to avoid getting scammed and how to be ethical. They also explore toxic masculinity in leadership and the issue of payment plans in the industry. The podcast emphasizes the importance of trust and transparency in selling and the need for regulations and standards in the coaching industry.

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Aug 15, 2023 • 55min
224 Can OCD Overlap With ADHD? with Guest Expert Kimberley Quinlan
Guest expert Kimberley Quinlan, licensed marriage and family therapist, specializes in anxiety, OCD and related disorders. They discuss the overlap between OCD and ADHD, the challenges of differentiating between the two, and the importance of validation and reassurance. The podcast covers topics such as the overlap between OCD, ADHD, anxiety, depression, and eating disorders, treatment for OCD, differences between normal behaviors and OCD compulsions, treating OCD in adults, treatment duration for adult patients with OCD, and the accessibility of OCD treatment.

Aug 8, 2023 • 1h 5min
223 How to Leave a Toxic Work Environment
This episode is a rare treat as I chat with a current FOCUSED client of mine, Jason Rowlett, @JDouglasRowlett who shares his experience of identifying and leaving a toxic work environment.I decided to do an episode with Jason on this topic as I watched him navigate this situation in real-time and recognized this as something that likely happens to many adults with ADHD.While ADHD can certainly manifest in our work performance and social behavior, we shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells at all times, worried about inconveniencing or frustrating our colleagues. Sometimes our work environments are just bad, and it has nothing to do with us and nothing to do with ADHD. But we often get accustomed to accepting blame and believing we’re the problem if we had a history of being treated this way as children or young people with ADHD. This can cloud our judgment and cause us to stay in toxic situations longer than we should.Jason and I discuss in depth what toxic workplaces look and feel like. Are you receiving misassigned blame and spending significant time analyzing situations to understand where things went wrong and why you were treated negatively? Are you receiving constructive criticism or personal put-downs?Have a listen, share with a friend, and if you’d like to see what Jason’s up to now, you can find his podcast and other content HERE.

Aug 3, 2023 • 1h 29min
Maybe I'm Not the Problem: Minaa B. @minaa_b
Minaa B. is a licensed social worker, writer, and author of Owning Our Struggles. She is also the founder of Minaa B. Consulting, a mental health consulting practice that helps organizations develop psychological safety and promote mental health inclusivity. In this heartfelt episode, Kristen and Minaa discuss:Psychological safety in the workplaceBullyingSystematic traumas that we face daily The nuance of boundaries in relationshipsRecognizing when you ARE the problemHealing through communityMinaa is an expert in her field, serving on the Mental Health Advisory Committee for Wondermind, a mental fitness company co-founded by Selena Gomez. She has been featured in various media outlets, such as Red Table Talk, Peace of Mind With Taraji, BBC, and Essence. Minaa resides in New York City, and you can learn more about her by visiting www.minaab.com.Minaa's book Owning Our Struggles can be Pre-Ordered HERE.

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Aug 1, 2023 • 1h 17min
222 Chatting With Kristen’s FOCUSED ADHD Certified Coaches
My regular listeners will know that I’ve been talking about my ADHD coaching certification program for the past couple of weeks. But this episode was so much fun because I had the pleasure of interviewing four of my trained coaches from the last term.The roll call includes:Jacoba Lilius - a professor of organizational psychology that plans to pair coaching with academia. Find Jacoba on LinkedIn.Laura Gaynon - a professional musician and teacher with strong intuition and a holistic approach to coaching others to honor who they are. You can find Laura on Instagram.Emily Weinberg - a former teacher turned stay-at-home mom that greatly benefitted from FOCUSED coaching and realized that she had the skills and the time to commit to a new career. Find Emily at ADHDwithemily.comSteev Hodgson - is a software sales professional who was diagnosed with ADHD later in life and is now passionate about helping others. Find Steev at damnhealthydose.com. One thing that all of these new coaches have in common is being diagnosed with ADHD later in life. After receiving support through my adult group coaching program FOCUSED, they answered the call to become coaches themselves and successfully passed my certification training!If you’re considering applying to this program, or are considering joining FOCUSED, this is a great episode to listen to in order to get a clear and honest picture of what both experiences are really like.