Shan Boodram

Shan Boodram, a certified sex educator and intimacy expert, shares her insights on making sex education engaging. She discusses the exoticism of nationalities and how they perceive intimacy. Shan emphasizes the importance of open communication about desires and addresses the orgasm gap, highlighting the benefits of being direct in relationships. They explore the relationship between societal norms and sexual behavior while advocating for self-exploration and pleasure mapping, all delivered with humor and relatable anecdotes.

Join Shan Boodram, the brilliant host of Crash Course Sex Ed and a renowned expert on relationships, as she and John Green tackle compelling questions about love and grief. They discuss how to navigate complex social dynamics, including whether or not to reveal a roommate’s infidelity, and share creative breakup remedies. Dive into the challenges of decorating with a partner when aesthetic preferences clash, and explore the emotional nuances of grief, including how to cope with a beloved pet still in your life. Perfect for anyone seeking relatable advice!

Shan Boodram, a sex and relationship expert known for her Lovers and Friends podcast, dives deep into the world of crushes. She explores the rollercoaster of emotions tied to unrequited love and how past crushes shape our present. Shan delves into the complexities of dating when one partner may relocate, emphasizing the need for open communication. The conversation also tackles the ethical dilemmas of developing feelings for a friend's significant other, stressing honesty and self-respect in navigating these delicate situations.

Shan Boodram, a certified sex educator and relationship expert, dives deep into the dynamics of intimacy and relationships. She discusses why intimacy can sometimes lead to feelings of being ghosted or friend-zoned. Listeners learn how to navigate mismatched libidos and the importance of clearly communicating boundaries. Shan explores the tempting allure of toxic relationships and offers practical tips to reignite passion in long-term partnerships. Her insights aim to foster healthier romantic connections and enhance emotional security.

This week, Shan Boodram, an ASEC-certified sex educator and media presence, dives deep into the complexities of horniness. She explores how cultural factors and social media shape our desires and the feelings of shame that often accompany them. Discussion highlights include the impact of isolation on intimacy, the biological drivers of libido, and the ways different types of sex drives manifest. Shan also provides practical tips for aligning with one’s natural desires and navigating mismatched libidos in relationships.

What Is Your Love Story? Not the one that you’re in per se, but the one that subconsciously, you’ll move mountains or reality, to live inside? Psychologists have identified 26 kinds of stories that people commit to BEFORE committing to their romantic partner so, which one is yours?Our starring guest Raven Ross who you can recall from Netlfix’s reality series, Love is Blind Season 3. She is also a pilates instructor nearly a 2 million followers on social media. Raven went through one of the messiest Tik Tok cheating scandals last year with her ex-fiancee. Now, she’s ready to love out loud again plus wants to share with you how, why, and maybe even who.. A love story is a frame of reference for how you believe love works or should work. Kind of like how your political beliefs describe how you think a group of people should be governed. Now, as I mentioned off the top, in my fav book, the new psychology of love, there are 26 different common stories that people can subscribe to. Addiction - we have an intense first connection and from then on we need each other and create a dynamic based around the fear of parting waysAudition - you gotta win the part and keep proving you love me and if you forget the lines or go too far off scriptArt - my partner looks good and they make me look good because I own something beautifulBusiness - our union is designed to give us more money, power and respect from othersCookbook - love has a recipe and instruction list, if we forget ingredients or steps our love won’t be as goodFantasy - save me, marry me, and happily ever after me. Game - love is a sport with a winner and a loser or if we’re on the same team there’s still a captain and a bench playerGardening - love is something that has to grow and it takes time, awareness of the environment, plus continuous tending to in order to flourish. For more on this, see my episode where I explain the difference between a fruit and a fruit treeHistory - in our relationship you are who you were, there’s only past you and future you. Think of it like the difference between “I’ll believe it when I see it” and “let’s just see!”Horror - relationships are scary and the scarier it is, the more real it isHumor - love is a joke, some people get the joke early, some later, but sooner or later everyone gets humbledMystery - you don’t need to know everything about each other because maintaining the mystery is more important than discovering yourselves through uncovering one anotherPolice - you gotta place rules and boundaries on your partner because people are only as good as you’ll allow them to beReligion - love is in service of the LordSacrifice - love is just as much about what you give as what you’re willing to give up to demonstrate devotion to the otherScience - love can be studied and explained through scientific theory just like anything elseWar - love is a power struggle ruled by The other ones are: recover, science fiction, sewing, theater, travel, war, student-teacher, and a few more.Conversation starter packWhat story of love are you currently subscribing to?Which ones are you aspiring to?What narratives are you trying to stay clear of and why?What love story was modeled for you growing up?Thanks to the sponsors of this episode!www.hungryroot.com/LOVERS for 30% off your first delivery and your free veggies. http://www.carawayhome.com/lovers for 10% offwww.betterhelp.com/lovers for 10% off your first month www.zocdoc.com to download the free appFollow Shan:https://www.instagram.com/shanboodramhttps://www.tiktok.com/@shanboodyhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qngloversfriendspodcast@gmail.comFollow Raven: https://www.instagram.com/pilatesbodyravenwww.pilatesbodyraven.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@pilatesbodyravenSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Shan Boodram, a renowned sexuality educator and certified sexologist, brings her vibrant expertise to the discussion. She shares insights on redefining intimacy and discusses reclaiming pleasure through innovative jewelry designs. The conversation highlights the importance of flirting as playful communication and introduces her unique 'sexy eye triangle' technique. Shan also addresses societal shifts in sexual education and the evolving nature of passion in long-term relationships, encouraging a fresh perspective on sexuality and connection.

Shan Boodram, an AASECT certified sex educator and host of Lovers by Shan, dives deep into enhancing intimacy. She discusses the importance of tailored sex positions and prioritizing women's pleasure while encouraging listeners to embrace their unique desires. Shan shares insights from the Kama Sutra, tips for transitioning to a more empowered sexual experience, and introduces her erotic jewelry line. With her energetic approach, she inspires everyone to explore and elevate their sex lives, revealing exciting secrets along the way.

Shan Boodram, a certified sex educator and host of Lovers by Shan, dives into the world of seduction, intimacy, and self-confidence. She shares insights on reigniting chemistry in long-term relationships and cutting through the cringe when flirting. Discover practical seduction tools from her MasterClass that empower self-expression and genuine connections. Shan emphasizes the significance of balancing confidence and vulnerability, reclaiming sexiness post-motherhood, and finding joy in dating apps. Embrace your feminine energy and flirt with life!

In this engaging discussion, certified sexologist and intimacy expert Shan Boodram shares her insights on romance and relationships. They dissect the key ingredients of healthy relationships and differentiate between intensity and intimacy. Shan encourages redefining Valentine’s Day, emphasizing personal love stories and self-reflection. They delve into the impact of societal norms, toxic masculinity, and the evolving dynamics of modern romance, promoting open communication and authenticity in dating. It's a fresh perspective on love that celebrates individual experiences!