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Getting Curious with Jonathan Van Ness
How Can I Make Romance Work For Me?
Feb 12, 2025
In this engaging discussion, certified sexologist and intimacy expert Shan Boodram shares her insights on romance and relationships. They dissect the key ingredients of healthy relationships and differentiate between intensity and intimacy. Shan encourages redefining Valentine’s Day, emphasizing personal love stories and self-reflection. They delve into the impact of societal norms, toxic masculinity, and the evolving dynamics of modern romance, promoting open communication and authenticity in dating. It's a fresh perspective on love that celebrates individual experiences!
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- Healthy relationships are built on mutual progress, fair trade, and unconditional positive regard, which foster trust and support.
- True intimacy is achieved through vulnerability and personal connection, not merely through fleeting intensity or infatuation.
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Navigating Modern Relationships
The discussion emphasizes the evolving nature of relationships in contemporary society, particularly around Valentine's Day. The importance of recognizing love in various forms—whether single, coupled, or in a ‘situationship’—is highlighted, illustrating that everyone has experienced some form of romantic love. The need to embrace one’s unique relationship dynamics is stressed, moving away from traditional notions of romance which often focus solely on couplehood. Acknowledging and celebrating personal experiences, even when they deviate from the norm, fosters a healthier understanding of love and relationships.
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