#430 Pleasure, Positions, and Sex Appeal with Shan Boodram

Apr 22, 2025

Shan Boodram, an AASECT certified sex educator and host of Lovers by Shan, dives deep into enhancing intimacy. She discusses the importance of tailored sex positions and prioritizing women's pleasure while encouraging listeners to embrace their unique desires. Shan shares insights from the Kama Sutra, tips for transitioning to a more empowered sexual experience, and introduces her erotic jewelry line. With her energetic approach, she inspires everyone to explore and elevate their sex lives, revealing exciting secrets along the way.

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Sex Ed for Everyone

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Kama Sutra's True Meaning

Kama Sutra is mainly a guide to live a good, prosperous life, with a small section devoted to sex positions.
Its sex section emphasizes women's pleasure and living with intimacy, not just acrobatic sex acts.

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Are You Ready to Level Up Your Sex Life?

Join us in this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we sit down with the incredible Shan Boodram, AASECT certified sex educator, certified Sexologist, and host of the Lovers by Shan podcast. She also has an incredible MasterClass we love called The Art of Sex Appeal. With over 20 years of studying and experiencing sex, Shan is on a mission to guide and support those who are already on their sexual journey.

Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:

• How to navigate your unique body and desires to enhance your sex life

• The importance of sex positions tailored to your body and your partner's

• How to prioritize women's pleasure and create a more satisfying experience

• Tips and tricks from the Kama Sutra to live a more pleasurable and connected life

• How to transition from a novice to an "athlete" in the bedroom

• A sneak peek into Shan's erotic jewelry line, Kama, and her MasterClass, The Art of Sex Appeal

Shan's passion for modern intimacy and relationship education is contagious, and her expertise will leave you feeling empowered and inspired to take your sex life to the next level.

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So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to unleash your inner sex appeal. As Shan would say, "Let's get lit up and take it to the next level!" And, as a special treat, Shan shares a surprising secret about the cowgirl position... it's not just about bouncing up and down. Want to know the secret to making it more pleasurable? You'll have to listen to find out!

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