LOVERS by shan S1 Ep74: I Want You to Be Obsessed with Me - Raven Ross' Highs & Dangerous Lows Being a Hopeless Romantic
57:29
First Date Story
- Raven Ross shares the story of her first date with her current boyfriend, which started with a DM inspired by her Instagram story.
- They said "I love you" on the first date, after meeting her friends and castmates.
Daring to Love Again
- Raven Ross dared to love out loud again after a public breakup and cheating scandal.
- This demonstrates resilience and a belief in finding love.
Knowing Your Worth
- Raven Ross realized she deserves a fulfilling relationship without compromising her standards.
- She learned to recognize her worth and not settle for less.
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Introduction
00:00 • 4min
Some Love Stories That Are More Superior Than Others
03:58 • 3min
Raven Ross on Hungry Root's #1 Fan
07:01 • 4min
How I Survived Love Is Blind
10:43 • 2min
The Importance of Being Naive
12:24 • 2min
How to Date to Find Someone
14:39 • 3min
How to Carve Out Time for Your Best Girlfriends
17:13 • 6min
I Love You in the First Day
22:52 • 1min
The Importance of Confidence
24:21 • 2min
The Importance of Self-Talk in a Relationship
26:14 • 2min
The Importance of Being Close to Your Partner
28:36 • 3min
How to Keep Being Vulnerable With Someone Who's Hurting You
31:09 • 2min
The Importance of Honoring Your Relationship
33:03 • 2min
How to Change Your Love Story
35:30 • 3min
The Importance of Being Naive
38:12 • 2min
The Importance of Trusting Your Gut
40:14 • 2min
The Importance of Faith in Your Partner
42:42 • 2min
How to Meet in the Middle With Naiveness
44:57 • 2min
The Power of Self-Love
46:50 • 2min
The Importance of Self-Awareness
49:04 • 3min
The Importance of Reflection in Podcasting
52:11 • 3min
The Fast and Furious Story
55:08 • 2min
The Future Belongs to Everyone
56:39 • 2min
What Is Your Love Story?
Not the one that you’re in per se, but the one that subconsciously, you’ll move mountains or reality, to live inside? Psychologists have identified 26 kinds of stories that people commit to BEFORE committing to their romantic partner so, which one is yours?
Our starring guest Raven Ross who you can recall from Netlfix’s reality series, Love is Blind Season 3. She is also a pilates instructor nearly a 2 million followers on social media. Raven went through one of the messiest Tik Tok cheating scandals last year with her ex-fiancee. Now, she’s ready to love out loud again plus wants to share with you how, why, and maybe even who..
A love story is a frame of reference for how you believe love works or should work. Kind of like how your political beliefs describe how you think a group of people should be governed. Now, as I mentioned off the top, in my fav book, the new psychology of love, there are 26 different common stories that people can subscribe to.
Addiction - we have an intense first connection and from then on we need each other and create a dynamic based around the fear of parting ways
Audition - you gotta win the part and keep proving you love me and if you forget the lines or go too far off script
Art - my partner looks good and they make me look good because I own something beautiful
Business - our union is designed to give us more money, power and respect from others
Cookbook - love has a recipe and instruction list, if we forget ingredients or steps our love won’t be as good
Fantasy - save me, marry me, and happily ever after me.
Game - love is a sport with a winner and a loser or if we’re on the same team there’s still a captain and a bench player
Gardening - love is something that has to grow and it takes time, awareness of the environment, plus continuous tending to in order to flourish. For more on this, see my episode where I explain the difference between a fruit and a fruit tree
History - in our relationship you are who you were, there’s only past you and future you. Think of it like the difference between “I’ll believe it when I see it” and “let’s just see!”
Horror - relationships are scary and the scarier it is, the more real it is
Humor - love is a joke, some people get the joke early, some later, but sooner or later everyone gets humbled
Mystery - you don’t need to know everything about each other because maintaining the mystery is more important than discovering yourselves through uncovering one another
Police - you gotta place rules and boundaries on your partner because people are only as good as you’ll allow them to be
Religion - love is in service of the Lord
Sacrifice - love is just as much about what you give as what you’re willing to give up to demonstrate devotion to the other
Science - love can be studied and explained through scientific theory just like anything else
War - love is a power struggle ruled by
The other ones are: recover, science fiction, sewing, theater, travel, war, student-teacher, and a few more.
Conversation starter pack
What story of love are you currently subscribing to?
Which ones are you aspiring to?
What narratives are you trying to stay clear of and why?
What love story was modeled for you growing up?
Thanks to the sponsors of this episode!
www.hungryroot.com/LOVERS for 30% off your first delivery and your free veggies.
http://www.carawayhome.com/lovers for 10% off
www.betterhelp.com/lovers for 10% off your first month
www.zocdoc.com to download the free app
Follow Shan:
https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram
https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboody
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng
loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com
Follow Raven:
https://www.instagram.com/pilatesbodyraven
www.pilatesbodyraven.com
https://www.tiktok.com/@pilatesbodyraven
Not the one that you’re in per se, but the one that subconsciously, you’ll move mountains or reality, to live inside? Psychologists have identified 26 kinds of stories that people commit to BEFORE committing to their romantic partner so, which one is yours?
Our starring guest Raven Ross who you can recall from Netlfix’s reality series, Love is Blind Season 3. She is also a pilates instructor nearly a 2 million followers on social media. Raven went through one of the messiest Tik Tok cheating scandals last year with her ex-fiancee. Now, she’s ready to love out loud again plus wants to share with you how, why, and maybe even who..
A love story is a frame of reference for how you believe love works or should work. Kind of like how your political beliefs describe how you think a group of people should be governed. Now, as I mentioned off the top, in my fav book, the new psychology of love, there are 26 different common stories that people can subscribe to.
Addiction - we have an intense first connection and from then on we need each other and create a dynamic based around the fear of parting ways
Audition - you gotta win the part and keep proving you love me and if you forget the lines or go too far off script
Art - my partner looks good and they make me look good because I own something beautiful
Business - our union is designed to give us more money, power and respect from others
Cookbook - love has a recipe and instruction list, if we forget ingredients or steps our love won’t be as good
Fantasy - save me, marry me, and happily ever after me.
Game - love is a sport with a winner and a loser or if we’re on the same team there’s still a captain and a bench player
Gardening - love is something that has to grow and it takes time, awareness of the environment, plus continuous tending to in order to flourish. For more on this, see my episode where I explain the difference between a fruit and a fruit tree
History - in our relationship you are who you were, there’s only past you and future you. Think of it like the difference between “I’ll believe it when I see it” and “let’s just see!”
Horror - relationships are scary and the scarier it is, the more real it is
Humor - love is a joke, some people get the joke early, some later, but sooner or later everyone gets humbled
Mystery - you don’t need to know everything about each other because maintaining the mystery is more important than discovering yourselves through uncovering one another
Police - you gotta place rules and boundaries on your partner because people are only as good as you’ll allow them to be
Religion - love is in service of the Lord
Sacrifice - love is just as much about what you give as what you’re willing to give up to demonstrate devotion to the other
Science - love can be studied and explained through scientific theory just like anything else
War - love is a power struggle ruled by
The other ones are: recover, science fiction, sewing, theater, travel, war, student-teacher, and a few more.
Conversation starter pack
What story of love are you currently subscribing to?
Which ones are you aspiring to?
What narratives are you trying to stay clear of and why?
What love story was modeled for you growing up?
Thanks to the sponsors of this episode!
www.hungryroot.com/LOVERS for 30% off your first delivery and your free veggies.
http://www.carawayhome.com/lovers for 10% off
www.betterhelp.com/lovers for 10% off your first month
www.zocdoc.com to download the free app
Follow Shan:
https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram
https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboody
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng
loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com
Follow Raven:
https://www.instagram.com/pilatesbodyraven
www.pilatesbodyraven.com
https://www.tiktok.com/@pilatesbodyraven