Life Kit

Dear Life Kit: I can't stop thinking about my crush

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Jun 10, 2024
Shan Boodram, a sex and relationship expert known for her Lovers and Friends podcast, dives deep into the world of crushes. She explores the rollercoaster of emotions tied to unrequited love and how past crushes shape our present. Shan delves into the complexities of dating when one partner may relocate, emphasizing the need for open communication. The conversation also tackles the ethical dilemmas of developing feelings for a friend's significant other, stressing honesty and self-respect in navigating these delicate situations.
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ANECDOTE

Shan's Crushes

  • Shan Boodram describes herself as "boy crazy" since childhood.
  • She had intense crushes, including singing to a poster of the group Imagine.
ADVICE

Reconnecting with a Past Crush

  • Acknowledge your personal growth and frame reaching out as a way to understand the past.
  • Focus on self-development, not pressuring the other person.
ADVICE

Addressing Messiness

  • Address messiness directly and honestly with your partner.
  • Frame it as an objective area for improvement, not a personal attack.
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