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Life Kit

Dear Life Kit: I can't stop thinking about my crush

Jun 10, 2024
Sex and relationship expert Shan Boodram discusses managing unrelenting crush feelings and reconnecting with a past crush. The podcast delves into the complexities of adult attraction and offers advice on navigating messiness in new relationships.
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  • Embrace lingering feelings for past crushes as enjoyable memories; avoid pressuring for romantic outcomes.
  • Address cleanliness and compatibility issues openly in new relationships; communicate early to navigate lifestyle disparities.

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Crushes from the Past

Some individuals struggle with lingering feelings for past crushes, leading to a mix of emotions. Shan Boudram suggests embracing such sentiments as they can be enjoyable and valuable, while acknowledging that these crushes may just remain as pleasant memories without further pursuit. If contemplating reaching out to an old crush, Shan advises using a personal growth approach and focusing on understanding past interactions rather than pressuring for a romantic outcome.

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