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Sex After Baby, Unlearning Shame, And Finding Your Sexual Self With Shan Boodram

Jun 3, 2024
Shan Boodram, a world-renowned sexologist and professional sex educator, shares her transformative journey in sex education. She unpacks the societal shame surrounding intimacy and emphasizes the need for open dialogues about sexuality, particularly empowering parents to discuss these topics with their children. Shan tackles the balance between motherhood and sexuality, offering insights on reigniting intimacy postpartum. Listeners are encouraged to challenge internalized stigma and reshape narratives around intimacy for future generations.
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  • The discussion reveals that societal conditioning and purity culture contribute significantly to the shame surrounding sex, impacting individuals throughout their lives.
  • Shan emphasizes the necessity of comprehensive sex education to empower future generations with knowledge and vocabulary for navigating their sexuality confidently.

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The Challenge of Discussing Bodily Functions

Discussing natural bodily functions, particularly sex, is often met with discomfort due to societal conditioning instilled from a young age. As children, many are taught that functions like using the bathroom are 'gross' or 'yucky,' leading to a foundation of shame associated with these experiences. This same discomfort extends into adulthood, making conversations about sex feel taboo and awkward. The discomfort is further exacerbated by a lack of proper education on anatomy and bodily functions, resulting in many individuals not even knowing the correct terms for their body parts.

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