Ellen Hendriksen, a clinical psychologist and author, specializes in helping people combat perfectionism. In a candid discussion, she explores the emotional toll of striving for perfection, emphasizing that it often leads to feelings of failure and shame. Hendriksen shares practical strategies for fostering self-acceptance and healing from self-criticism. Listeners learn how to embrace vulnerabilities, rediscover joy in everyday activities, and shift their focus from rigid expectations to authentic self-worth.

Ellen Hendriksen, a clinical psychologist at Boston University's Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders and author of 'How to Be Enough,' dives into the complexities of perfectionism. She discusses its dual nature—how it fuels success yet can lead to dissatisfaction and strained relationships. Hendriksen shares insights on balancing high standards with self-care, the risk of growth stifled by fear, and the impact of perfectionism on collaboration in the workplace. Her practical advice encourages self-compassion and flexibility, promoting healthier professional dynamics.

We're often told that to succeed in the workplace, you need to bring your A game, play office politics, and network nonstop. But how do you do that when you suffer from social anxiety? Host Morra Aarons-Mele speaks with Ellen Hendriksen, a clinical psychologist, and Arvind Rajan, the CEO of Cricket Health and a former executive at LinkedIn, to discuss his journey with anxiety.

Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, a clinical psychologist specializing in anxiety and the author of 'How to Be Enough,' shares her wisdom on breaking free from the perfectionism trap. She discusses the impact of social media on self-worth and the need for compassion in overcoming harsh self-judgment. Ellen emphasizes the difference between constructive and harmful perfectionism, advocating for self-acceptance. Listeners learn the importance of embracing imperfection and pursuing personal values over societal approval for a more joyful and fulfilling life.

Today we have Dr. Ellen Hendriksen on the podcast. Dr. Hendriksen is a clinical psychologist who helps millions calm their anxiety and be there authentic selves through her award-winning Savvy Psychologist podcast, which has been downloaded over 5 million times, and at Boston University’s Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders. Her latest book is called “How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety.” What is your real self? What is social anxiety? What is the opposite of social anxiety? What’s the goal of therapy to treat social anxiety? How to be comfortable when you are “caught being yourself” The importance of self-compassion The difference between introversion and social anxiety Techniques to overcome social anxiety The Orchid-Dandelion Hypothesis The relationship between the highly sensitive person and openness to experience The importance of going out and living your life first, and letting your confidence catch up The importance of turning attention “inside out” How perfectionism holds us back The importance of “daring to be average” The myth of “hope in a bottle” Gender differences in the manifestation of social anxiety Thanks!! Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-psychology-podcast/supportSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Taming Anxiety Series - Episode 3: As we move into summer and more and more vaccines go into arms, your town or city (or state or country) may soon be opening back up, if it hasn’t already. Some of us are ecstatic. A lot of us are anxious. (And by the way, those are not mutually exclusive. It’s totally possible to be both.) If the thought of large crowds or even small dinner parties makes your palms sweat, don’t worry. You’re not alone. (And if this was true for you even before the pandemic, you’re not alone there, either.) Our guest today is here to help.  Ellen Hendriksen is a clinical psychologist who specializes in anxiety and social anxiety and serves on the faculty at Boston University's Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders. She is the author of How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety. In today’s episode she explains how to increase your tolerance for uncertainty; how and why social anxiety has gotten worse since the start of the pandemic; and, what you can do to face your own anxiety around social interactions, especially if you’re in a place that is reopening. She’ll also answer some questions from you, our listeners. In addition to this series on the podcast, we are launching a free Taming Anxiety Meditation Challenge in the Ten Percent Happier app, to help you practice what you’re learning. In this brand-new ten-day meditation challenge, we’ll be pairing a leading anxiety expert and a top-notch meditation teacher together to help you practice what we’re talking about on the show.  The free Taming Anxiety Challenge begins on Monday, June 21, and will run for ten days. Each day, you'll receive a video and you'll complete a short meditation. You'll also receive daily reminders to help keep you on track, and you can even invite your friends to join you. Join the Taming Anxiety Challenge by downloading the Ten Percent Happier app: https://10percenthappier.app.link/install. You should be prompted to join the Challenge after registering your account. If you've already downloaded the app, just open it up or visit this link to join: https://10percenthappier.app.link/TamingAnxietyChallenge. Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/ellen-hendriksen-357 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ellen Hendriksen offers strategies to overcome social anxiety, challenge negative thoughts, embrace emotions with self-compassion, create structure in social situations, and build strong connections. The podcast delves into the positive aspects of social anxiety, understanding the inner critic, the power of connections and quality sleep, and creating a hospitable inner environment.

Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, a Harvard Medical School psychologist and author of 'How To Be Yourself', shares her insights on social anxiety and personal battles with it. She discusses the prevalence of social anxiety, its emotional toll, and practical coping strategies. The conversation dives into the power of vulnerability in forming genuine connections and emphasizes the importance of empathy and self-compassion. Dr. Hendriksen also offers neuroscience perspectives on anxiety, reinforcing that overcoming these challenges is possible through practice and understanding.

Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, a clinical psychologist and author, delves into the pitfalls of perfectionism and imposter syndrome. She shares strategies for fostering self-acceptance while embracing our human flaws. The conversation highlights the difference between values and goals, emphasizing emotional insights for personal growth. With relatable anecdotes, she discusses the joy of learning and the importance of accepting imperfections in ourselves and others. Ellen’s insights provide a roadmap for shifting from self-criticism to self-compassion.

Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, clinical psychologist specializing in anxiety, discusses the relationship between anxiety and fear, the impact of perfectionism on social anxiety, and tools to manage anxiety. Topics also include understanding safety behaviors, building intimacy through disclosure, and practical tools for confronting fears and practicing mindfulness.