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Negotiate Anything

How to Discuss What Matters Most with Sheila Heen

Jan 19, 2025
Sheila Heen, a Harvard Law School professor and co-author of the bestselling 'Difficult Conversations,' shares her expertise on negotiation and conflict resolution. She discusses how negotiation techniques have evolved over the years. Sheila emphasizes the importance of shifting from blame to contribution in tough discussions, enabling better collaboration. They delve into understanding power dynamics, highlighting the role of vulnerability and receptivity in effective communication. Practical strategies abound for enhancing dialogue in both personal and professional settings.
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  • Shifting from blame to recognizing joint contributions in difficult conversations fosters more productive and collaborative discussions.
  • Understanding power dynamics, including the difference between positional and persuasive power, is crucial for effective negotiation and conflict resolution.

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The Evolution of 'Difficult Conversations'

The third edition of the book 'Difficult Conversations' reflects significant updates since its initial release in 1999. The author emphasized the need for this new edition to incorporate insights and examples that resonate with contemporary audiences and address prior limitations. The revised framework continues to uphold its core messages while introducing updates that enhance clarity and relatability. Importantly, the new edition also addresses the role of power dynamics in conversations, allowing readers to better navigate complex interactions.

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