Negotiate Anything
Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.
Transform your relationships. Speak your truth. Get what you deserve—with Kwame Christian as your guide. This is the #1 negotiation podcast in the world with over 15 million downloads, but it’s about so much more than that.This isn’t about manipulation or domination—it’s about showing up more powerfully, leading with authenticity, and speaking your truth with more clarity. Whether you’re leading a team, parenting through stress, or learning to speak up without fear, the skills you’ll build here will transform how you show up in every area of your life. Kwame doesn’t just teach strategy—he teaches transformation, helping you become the kind of person who moves through life with more clarity, courage, and compassion. Every episode is rooted in empathy, psychology, and Kwame’s signature warmth, blending real-world stories, expert guests, and practical frameworks so you can break through the fears that have been holding you back. Join millions of listeners who’ve discovered that the best things in life really are on the other side of difficult conversations. Ready to level up at work and at home?About the Host: Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A.Kwame Christian the founder and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute. He's known for his viral TEDx Talk, “Finding Confidence in Conflict,” and is a bestselling author of two books:• How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race (2022)• Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life (2020)As a degrees in law, psychology, and public policy, Kwame brings a wealth of knowledge to every episode. He’s also a LinkedIn instructor with over 2.3 million learners, making complex negotiation concepts accessible to everyone.Why This Podcast?At the American Negotiation Institute, we believe that the best things in life are on the other side of difficult conversations. Our mission is to empower you to negotiate anything, anywhere. Whether you’re a seasoned negotiator or just starting, our podcast equips you with the tools and confidence to navigate any conversation.Tune in to Transform Your Life:Join millions of listeners who have already unlocked the power of negotiation. Subscribe now and start mastering the skills that will transform your professional and personal life. Watch our episodes on YouTube for more visual insights and tips.Connect with Us:• Website: American Negotiation Institute• Email: simon@negotiateanything.com• LinkedIn: Kwame Christian• YouTube: Negotiate AnythingProduced by the American Negotiation Institute
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Oct 23, 2025 • 49min
The Hidden Cost of Leadership: Why Doing the Right Thing Still Hurts
Mahesh Guruswamy, Chief Product and Technology Officer at Kickstarter and author of *How to Deliver Bad News and Get Away with It*, shares profound insights on leadership. He discusses why the hardest decisions often lead to the greatest outcomes and the importance of authenticity over ambition. Mahesh emphasizes the emotional cost of leadership, recounting personal challenges and the necessity of tough conversations. He also explores how gratitude and perspective shape a meaningful career while advocating for risk-taking and learning from failure.
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Oct 20, 2025 • 1h 8min
Lisa Bilyeu: How to Silence Self-Doubt and Build Unstoppable Confidence
Lisa Bilyeu, co-founder of Quest Nutrition and bestselling author, shares her inspiring journey from shipping protein bars to leading a wellness empire. She reveals how to manage self-doubt by embracing discomfort and using it as a growth tool. Bilyeu emphasizes the importance of resilience and how bouncing back from failure gets easier with experience. She advocates for reframing internal criticism into empathy, turning limitations into discipline, and the power of intentional emotional shifts to build radical confidence.
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Oct 16, 2025 • 47min
The Hidden Cost of Being “Too Nice”
In this engaging discussion, self-esteem and relationship expert Natalie Lue reveals her journey from being a chronic people pleaser to a boundary-setting pro. She highlights how people-pleasing manifests in everyday life and its detrimental effects on relationships. Natalie teaches listeners to differentiate between actions driven by desire versus obligation, empowering them to reclaim their self-worth. She shares practical techniques for setting boundaries and emphasizes how saying no can enhance intimacy and respect in relationships.
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Oct 13, 2025 • 56min
The Unexpected Power of Admitting a Mistake - Reverse Interview by Lauren Sabo
In this fascinating discussion, Lauren Sabo, a former special education teacher turned attorney, shares her insights on managing difficult clients in the legal field. She highlights key traits that indicate trouble, such as unmet expectations, and suggests ways to align goals effectively. Strategies for setting clear boundaries and recognizing when to part ways are emphasized, alongside the importance of admitting mistakes to build trust. Lauren also addresses communication challenges and the art of saying no to unrealistic demands, offering practical advice for all professionals.
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Oct 9, 2025 • 1h 4min
They Said Vulnerability Was Weakness… But We Discovered Freedom Anyway
Jamie Librot, former Global Head of Executive Talent Management at JPMorgan and author of *Find Your Gobi*, shares her insights on transforming perceptions of vulnerability. She highlights how vulnerability can lead to clarity and authentic partnerships at work. Jamie and Kwame Christian discuss the importance of embracing weaknesses for growth, building meaningful workplace relationships, and the power of storytelling. They emphasize that true leadership involves taking risks and being open about struggles, ultimately revealing the freedom found in authenticity.
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Oct 6, 2025 • 56min
Morgan Housel: Why More Money Won’t Make You Happy
Morgan Housel, best-selling author of The Psychology of Money, shares insights on the intricate relationship between money and happiness. He challenges the belief that more money equals more happiness and emphasizes the hidden costs of comparison. Housel discusses the importance of recognizing what 'enough' means personally and highlights the distinction between knowledge and wisdom. He stresses that money should serve as a tool for freedom and meaningful experiences, rather than a direct source of happiness.
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Oct 2, 2025 • 59min
How Subtle Biases Completely Change Your Choices
In this engaging discussion, behavioral science expert Richard Shotton explores how subtle biases influence our everyday choices. He reveals techniques like effective wording that can shape memory and decision-making. Richard also highlights the benefits of cognitive diversity in problem-solving and the impact of social proof on behavior. Plus, discover how renaming products can boost appeal and how a simple word change can alleviate customer frustration. This eye-opening conversation will change your perspective on decision-making and persuasion.
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Sep 29, 2025 • 55min
Why Fear, Not Skill, Is Your Biggest Negotiation Problem - Kathryn Valentine
In a dynamic conversation, negotiation expert Kathryn Valentine discusses how fear, rather than skills, is the biggest hurdle in negotiations. She reveals a powerful question to unlock opportunities and explains how a single successful negotiation can significantly impact one's career. Kathryn highlights gender dynamics in negotiation, offering insights into how fear manifests differently for men and women. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy and creating a culture that supports it, equipping listeners with the tools to negotiate confidently.
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Sep 25, 2025 • 59min
How Leading with Respect Becomes the Ultimate Power Move
In this engaging discussion, Marcy Syms, former CEO of Syms clothing stores and author of Leading with Respect, reveals how respect is the ultimate power move in negotiations. She shares insights on turning underestimation into an advantage and emphasizes the importance of culture over strategy in mergers. Marcy highlights the impact of respect on performance and trust, and offers guidance on navigating disrespect in the workplace. With a focus on values in decision-making, she encourages listeners to see respect not as a weakness, but a powerful strategic asset.
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Sep 22, 2025 • 1h 20min
Gaslighting at Work: How to Spot Manipulation and Reclaim Your Power
In this engaging discussion, psychotherapist Farah Harris shares her insights on gaslighting in the workplace. An expert in emotional intelligence, she recounts her struggles with a toxic hire and how she navigated the situation. Farah highlights subtle red flags of manipulation, emphasizes the importance of boundaries, and offers practical tools to reclaim your power. Discover how emotionally intelligent leaders can protect their well-being while building healthier professional relationships.
