Wanting to be Wanted (Robin Hanson & Agnes Callard)

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Introduction

00:00 • 3min

2

What Do We Want Someone to Want Us For?

02:36 • 2min

3

Is Your Erotic Relationship to Me Wanted?

04:30 • 2min

4

You Don't Want to Be Wanted Just for Your Body or for Your Money

06:42 • 3min

5

Is It a Pretendative Relationship?

09:16 • 3min

6

Are We in Control of Our Choices?

12:32 • 3min

7

Is There a Want to Be Wanted?

15:44 • 3min

8

The Shaping of the Hands Symbolizes the Knowledge of the Other Person

18:25 • 2min

9

I Want You to Want Me and I Want to Want You

20:33 • 4min

10

Is There a Single Ritual That We've All Converged On?

24:35 • 3min

11

Language Isn't the Only Way

27:38 • 5min

12

Is Sex a Social Construction?

32:35 • 2min

13

I Need to Know Your Thinking of Me

34:18 • 2min

14

Is There Such a Thing as Cheating?

35:55 • 3min

15

You Don't Have to Have Lunch With Our Team, Right?

38:57 • 2min

16

Relationships Aren't Just About Parenting

40:54 • 2min

17

Romantic Relationships - Are You a Romantic Couple?

43:11 • 2min

18

You Don't Sacrifice Everything for Love

45:16 • 2min

19

Transgender Is Not About Sexual Rights, Right?

46:57 • 2min

20

The Romantic Revolution in the Last Thousand Years

49:06 • 3min

21

Are Handshakes So Important?

51:47 • 2min

22

The Importance of the Erotic

54:16 • 2min

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Sex Is a Ritual but It's a Funny Ritual

56:21 • 2min

24

The Best Artists Don't Do It Like the Rest

57:53 • 2min

25

Eroticism Is the Origin of All It Is Like a Place

01:00:11 • 2min

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Romance Is Playful, Right?

01:01:51 • 3min