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IFS and the Wisdom of Our Parts with Paul Neustadt

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May 1, 2024

Joining the host, Paul Neustadt, a lead trainer with the IFS Institute, discusses creating inner circles for compassion, impacts of individualism on our parts, tapping into inner wisdom, the gifts of our exiles, degrees of blending, and inviting exiles to connect with their true nature. Also, they explore relational heart-based activism and the pursuit of self-energy.

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ADVICE

Creating an Inner Healing Circle

Create your own inner healing circle by recalling people who genuinely care for you.
Imagine their presence supporting your healing process, especially when self-compassion is difficult.

INSIGHT

Impact of Individualism

Individualistic cultures promote a sense of separation, leading to self-blame during struggles.
Healing requires recognizing our interconnectedness and seeking support, not isolating ourselves.

ADVICE

Tapping into Wisdom as a Therapist

Therapists can tap into their wisdom by noticing when triggered by clients.
Reflect on whether the trigger relates to personal experiences or client dynamics, then explore the wisdom within the triggered part.

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This is a re-release of Season 2 Ep. 65 with Paul Neustadt. To find the Free Webinar and register for the four-week workshop from Life Architect, go to:

Free webinar: Working with Therapist Parts to Access Self in IFS Therapy (lifearchitect.com)

IFS: Therapeutic Relationship and Power of Presence by Paul Neustadt (lifearchitect.com)

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On today's episode I chat with Paul Neustadt, a lead trainer with the IFS Institute. Paul has such a warm, engaging teaching style and I just loved our conversation.

Paul's answer to the last question, "What would you do instead?" may be my new life goal or at least a daily intention.

We discuss:

1. Creating our own inner circle - when you have a hard time accessing compassion (or Self)

2. Impacts of individualism (our culture) on our parts

3. Tapping into our own inner wisdom

4. The Gifts of our Exiles

5. Paul demonstrates Direct Access with one of my manager parts

6. Degrees of Blending

7. Inviting exiles (the younger parts of us) to 'tune into their true nature, who they really are'

8. Relational Heart Based Activism

9. When Self energy seems impossible. "What is this thing called Self and how do I get it!?"

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Jeff Schrum co-produces The One Inside Podcast. He is currently enrolled in an IFS Level 1 training.

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Are you new to IFS or want a simple way to get to know yourself? Tammy's book, "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" is a PERFECT place to start. You can purchase it here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold.

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Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created music for the podcast. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott’s IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack at bonzemusic on Instagram

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This episode is sponsored by Life Architect. As the IFS Institute's international partner, they organize IFS training and online workshops about IFS and other therapy modalities for those new to IFS and experienced practitioners alike. Life Architect is committed to advancing the professional development of mental health professionals around the world.