This episode features Dr. Scott Lyons, a distinguished trauma expert and psychologist who developed a globally recognized somatic stress release process. He sheds light on the addiction to busyness and the emotional toll it takes on our lives. Dr. Lyons discusses how over-scheduling leads to disconnection from ourselves and others. He emphasizes the importance of redefining self-worth beyond achievements, urging listeners to embrace mindfulness and find value in being present. By addressing the emotional roots of our behaviors, we can regain control of our time and lives.
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Mel's Addiction to Busyness
Mel Robbins describes her personal struggle with constant busyness, even extending to her leisure time at home.
She and her husband Chris found it difficult to simply relax and be present without turning to their devices.
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Vermont Realization
After moving to Southern Vermont, Mel realized her addiction to busyness.
She frequently visited stores and coffee shops, despite having no real need, simply to stay busy.
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Busyness as Water
Busyness is like the water we swim in; it's hard to recognize because it surrounds us.
This constant activity keeps us from connecting with ourselves and others.
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Some Thoughts, Delivered on a Significant Occasion, about Living a Compassionate Life
David Foster Wallace
This book is a transcript of the only public speech David Foster Wallace gave on his views on life, delivered as a commencement address at Kenyon College in 2005. The speech delves into the difficulties of empathy, the unimportance of being well-adjusted, and the apparent loneliness of adult life. Wallace argues that true freedom comes from the ability to be fully conscious and sympathetic, and he emphasizes the importance of learning how to think and exercise control over one's thoughts. The speech is known for its blend of casual humor, exacting intellect, and practical philosophy, offering advice that renews readers with every reading. After his death, the speech became a treasured piece of writing, reprinted in various publications and widely discussed online[1][2][4].
It’s time to get off the hamster wheel that’s leaving you exhausted and overwhelmed.
If the idea of “doing nothing” feels almost painful and you feel uncomfortable when you’re not busy, this episode is the wake-up call you need.
Today, Mel unpacks one of the most common addictions that you probably have never heard of before: the addiction to busyness and stress.
Here to give more research and advice is Dr. Scott Lyons, a medical doctor, psychologist, and world-renowned trauma expert.
Dr. Lyons explains why over-scheduling every second of your day and constantly feeling “not enough” unless stretched to the limit is keeping you disconnected.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have actionable steps to break free from the cycle and regain control of your time, energy, and peace of mind.
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